I'm even more interested in a woman’s breasts than in her vagina... is that weird??

[erotica_n_s]

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Yes, I'm even more interested in a woman’s breasts than in her vagina…

Does that make me weird?

I mean, I’m a guy… what do I know about what women want/how women think?

I mean, it’s not to say that I’m not interested in a woman’s vagina – just that her breasts are even more interesting to me… although I do realize that – for the vast majority of women – their breasts/nipples are not nearly as erogenous as their clitoris…

In my fantasies, the most delightful scenes (at least to me) are the scenes where the man caresses and kisses the woman’s breasts…

The most emotionally overwhelming moments (again, as I imagine it to be) for the women in my fantasies are the moments when the guy takes off the woman’s brassiere…

So, e.g. in a fantasy/story about a young woman’s first time, I imagined that she would feel immensely nervous when the guy took her panties off, and performed cunnilingus on her for the first time. I imagined her first orgasm would be very gentle (what I like to describe as a “butterfly orgasm” – to describe the gentleness and the beauty of it)...

But the guy then proceeds to unhook her bra, and begins lightly caressing her breasts, first with the backs of his fingers, then he hugs her so that her breasts are pressed against his chest, and he begins sucking her tongue… he takes it nice and slow…

But anyway, I imagined that the moment when he starts taking off her bra is the point when the woman begins to feel even more nervous – even more nervousness than when he took her panties off – she’s blushing hotly, and although willing, she still hesitates – she grabs his arm as if to dissuade him, and he kisses her on her lips, and she yields, turning her face away, her eyes closed, breathing rapidly, nervously, etc. and he slowly, steadily gets her bra off, and it’s only when they make love with her topless, that her orgasms become stronger…

So I don’t know if that sounds weird, I don’t know if female readers find that idea interesting…


Basically, as I said, I'm even more interested in a woman's breasts than in her vagina – and that's not to say that I'm not interested in her vagina or clitoris.

I don't know how the breasts/nipples measure against the clitoris, not only as far as physical sensation is concerned, but also where the emotions are concerned...

(Of course, more than anything else, I'd want to make sure that she's having orgasms).

Would like to know what women think…




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[MatthewVett]

I don't think it's weird. I prefer breasts to vaginas, too.

 

[NightL]

Have you ever tried talking to a woman? 'spose not...

 

[shiny5437]

Everyone loves boobs: straight men, gay men, gay women, straight women, babies, children, and animals.

Everyone loves boobs.

 

[LWulf]

it's only weird when you want to use the whole chicken instead of a feather.

So you have a booby fetish. That you ask, might be because you think it is more excessive than other people's interests in boobies. If that is the case, then yes, you likely have a problem. Which I think is what you are asking; Is my fixation abnormal? In brief, yes. How much, is the question on if it is a problem or not. If you go out of your way to fulfill your fetish then it IS a problem. Does the size of the breasts matter? If you fell in love with a big breasted woman and later on, she had a partial or full mastectomy, would you fall out of love? Yes, that IS a problem then.

When it comes down to it, you should love the girl behind the boobs and not just fixate on the boobs itself.

Just remember there is a difference between fantasies and real life. A healthy fantasy life is not really weird, but expecting real life to fulfill fantasy, is.

 

[GrrlFriday]

Hmmm - it isn't a story I would write, but I'd have a read of it.

 

[Athalia]

Yes, I'm even more interested in a woman’s breasts than in her vagina…

I don't think one man in a thousand is truly interested in a woman's vagina unless his penis is in it. The vag is the inside part. Are you thinking instead of the vulva ... the outside part?

And regardless of the answer, you're normal, not weird. I think that interest in boobs comes naturally, whereas interest in pussies seems to be an acquired taste.

 

[Quietgirluk]

Not all weird. Lots of women, including me, find men playing with our breasts a huge turn on.

 

[Doog_kuron]

I think men having a bigger focus on boobs than most other parts of a woman's body isn't such a revelation. I like boobs too but not to the point I don't see a woman accept from the neck down I've known women who loved to have them touched and played with just as I have known women who felt next to nothing. Guess everyone is a little different.

 

[jehoram]

I think that interest in boobs comes naturally, whereas interest in pussies seems to be an acquired taste.

I think you're right. When I got my first glimpse of a woman's breasts, I thought, "Damn! That's amazing!" and got a hard-on. When I saw my first glimpse of a woman's vulva, I thought, "So that's what it looks like. Now I know."

Pussies are indeed an acquired taste, in more ways than one.

 

[KlaytonFrost]

Whenever anyone asks "does that make me weird?" I have the same answer: we're all weird. It makes you, if anything, more normal.

And, specific to you, it's not that odd at all to be more into breasts than pussy.

 

[erotica_n_s]

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Well, it's the fact that I find images like these more arousing/aesthetically pleasing/interesting...

... than images like these...

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[ehsan]

I love girls BREASTS, they are magical and heavenly.

 

[wesson45]

any part of a woman is sexy. they are a beauty to behold from head to toe.

 

[ACV]

Everyone loves boobs: straight men, gay men, gay women, straight women, babies, children, and animals.

Everyone loves boobs.

Possibly my favourite post on Lit ever!

 

[fire_breeze]

You asked for a woman's opinion...

Honestly, the photos that you posted are highly subjective. The ones that you used to illustrate your point for breasts are classically posed, well lit and are very tasteful, whereas the photos that you used for vaginas are incredibly harshly lit, are pretty much gynae-shots and could be construed as low-pornography. It's like comparing a graffiti tag to a Monet and saying that they are the same thing. They are both forms of putting paint to a surface. There are beautiful portrayals of the female (and male) bodies that focuses on the genitalia but is very tastefully, and artfully, depicted.

Personally, I think you are fixating in trying to conform what you perceive as normal. There are many many many people who find appeal in breasts. There are many many many people who find appeal in asses. Are they normal? Yes. Very much so.

I will let you in a little secret: women (and men) want to be respected. Otherwise, what turns them one is individualised. You may find appeal in breasts - you are in good company - and therefore you are normal. As in so incredibly normal that it does not even cause a blip on the 'kink-graph'.

Your fixation on what is "normal" is what is giving me pause. Why ask? What is your fascination in being what might be construed as "normal"? Is it a fear that you may be considered to be a freak? I am honestly very curious, as many of your posts asks if you (or your reactions) are what constitutes as "normal".

Also, you asked whether your scenario/fantasy would be interesting to women. Some women would be interested, some would not, some would find it to be too tame, some would find it passionate. Write what interests you. If you write for a perceived audience, you will never find yourself as an author. If that's what turns you on, then go with it. It's your carnival.

I hope that this does not sound too harsh, but I did want to point a few things out...

 

[mnbreastluver]

I like women's breasts better! You just get to imagine more about them than a vagina when your out in public! The bra strap tells you it might be a sexy bra she wearing. Which might tell you some thing more about her personality. A visible hard nipple and seeing cleavage is just more sexy to me!

 

[October46]

Sorry, can't help you, I am an ass and leg man!

 

[snowingwhite]

Not weird

Is it that you prefer the look of breasts or the feel? I think it's natural to find breast beautiful and sexier then pussy.. Most pussies are not pretty. Lol

 

[jehoram]

Is it that you prefer the look of breasts or the feel? I think it's natural to find breast beautiful and sexier then pussy.. Most pussies are not pretty. Lol

I have never seen a pussy that was not exquisite in one way or another. However, as Athalia said, it's an acquired taste (in more ways than one).

I often wonder if women are pressured to think of their pussies as unattractive, and form negative attitudes because of that. They are encouraged to display their tits as openly as possible, on the other hand, and in the most sexually suggestive way. You can't watch an hour of television without seeing a lot of cleavage, but you never, never see a camel-toe.

 

[Lord Pmann]

What's a vagina?

 

[Que]

What's a vagina?

I thought, in context, that was what he was asking?

 

[eager_master]

No!

I I think breasts are as good as pussy.

 

[djyak]

Since hubby and I only swap with one couple, they have no choice but to go for my tits, but they certainly don't complain. I absolutely love when they play and suck on them, and they really get off on me letting them rub their cocks over them too! Plenty have have just wanted to cum on them which is fine by me!

Tifani

 

[Miles Long]

What's a vagina?

*coffeespew* Awesome.