Your Secret?

[mssweetangelina]

Are you a bi/curious male who keeps this a secret, regardless of whether your partner (if you're attached) or family/friends wouldn't approve or understand, or simply because you're terribly private and don't feel the need to let everyone in on your intimate life?

Even in these "enlightened" times we live in, it never ceases to amaze how many still shield themselves, for varying reasons.

Step inside, take a seat. I'm listening.

PM's accepted.

 

[michaelinteas]

Nice topic.

I fit this description pretty well. I do identify as a bi man and I prefer to keep my private life behind closed doors. That is until I feel some comfort level with my partner. Then look out. Once I am comfortable, there is no holding back.

 

[oneblueye]

hey ...

hmmm, I guess this would be considered personal --, eh.
just a little different than the rest of the site.

 

[NightOfPassion2]

The bi side ebbs and flows. If I was away for a bit working out of a hotel it'd be quite tempting to go for it....been a while and well...fantasies have a great build up.

Its still a challenge to find similar tastes....desires.

 

[rockoid2]

Count me in..

Keep it a secret but would love to be out and have relationships and fwbs that are bi or gay.

 

[Sss53bm]

That is very much me. I would love to chat.

 

[kiproberts]

I have been a closeted bi male starting when I was very young. Being in the closet and rarely having this need met has transformed my desire for the pleasures of a another into a need I crave.

 

[MatureSensualBottom]

Are you a bi/curious male who keeps this a secret, regardless of whether your partner (if you're attached) or family/friends wouldn't approve or understand, or simply because you're terribly private and don't feel the need to let everyone in on your intimate life?

Even in these "enlightened" times we live in, it never ceases to amaze how many still shield themselves, for varying reasons.

Step inside, take a seat. I'm listening.

PM's accepted.

I am certainly a man in this category, I have "conformed" throughout my life, married....kids... but kept a BIG secret about my desire for men. I am 59 now, but have secretly seen men in various settings since my early 40's, having tried to restrain those urges from my early explorations in my late teens until I felt I couldn't anymore. Gay affairs have followed, but the secret is still hidden from everyone.

 

[Escierto]

I have not disclosed my transgender girlfriend to anyone I know but I am going to eventually. I want to make sure that our relationship is a lasting one before I do. In the meantime I am preparing by discussing these relationships in a general way. One secret that will never get disclosed is the fact that she is the top and I am the bottom in our sexual relations. She does not disclose that fact to anyone since she thinks people might not understand.

 

[shileny]

My wife knows but not to what extent. She knows that there are things I want to try. We usually talk about these things while having sex. She has said it would turn her on to watch me suck a dick or take one in the ass. I have told her that I would prefer a trans as I have little sexual attraction to men but have agreed to be with men as she doesn't care for the looks of a mtf trans. She has used toys on me before but has been years because she decided to get rid of our toys. The talk about doing any of this has really never left the bedroom. She has no idea that I talk to others, send pics, have web cammed, or anything else online. I haven't done anything physically with anyone but really want to but not sure how to go about finding someone. I do have one female friend who will do things with me but she lives an hour and a half away. Wife and I are both retired and I hardly get away alone except for Dr appointments or Home Depot. She is the only one who knows all what I want to try or do again. I would love to go mtf trans and be with my friend. Who knows what the future may hold.

 

[Escierto]

My wife knows but not to what extent. She knows that there are things I want to try. We usually talk about these things while having sex. She has said it would turn her on to watch me suck a dick or take one in the ass. I have told her that I would prefer a trans as I have little sexual attraction to men but have agreed to be with men as she doesn't care for the looks of a mtf trans. She has used toys on me before but has been years because she decided to get rid of our toys. The talk about doing any of this has really never left the bedroom. She has no idea that I talk to others, send pics, have web cammed, or anything else online. I haven't done anything physically with anyone but really want to but not sure how to go about finding someone. I do have one female friend who will do things with me but she lives an hour and a half away. Wife and I are both retired and I hardly get away alone except for Dr appointments or Home Depot. She is the only one who knows all what I want to try or do again. I would love to go mtf trans and be with my friend. Who knows what the future may hold.

Your wife doesn’t like the look of a MTF transgender? What’s not to like?

https://i.imgur.com/iZOcXIv.jpg

 

[shileny]

Your wife doesn’t like the look of a MTF transgender? What’s not to like?

https://i.imgur.com/iZOcXIv.jpg

No she doesn't. Says they don't look right to her. They turn me on. I have J/Oed watchingthem in porn many times. My dream is to have sex with them. Sucking their dick or getting my ass fucked. I also want to be watched at the same time.

 

[Escierto]

No she doesn't. Says they don't look right to her. They turn me on. I have J/Oed watchingthem in porn many times. My dream is to have sex with them. Sucking their dick or getting my ass fucked. I also want to be watched at the same time.

I have my doubts about what she is saying. Of course many transgender women are not passable and even with the attractive ones there are some giveaways. However I could show her MTF women that she had no idea were transgender.

 

[ChasBozwell30]

i'm single, keep this stuff private generally, always happy to talk about it to people on here. where else...?

 

[Justcuriousguy]

I have 3 or 4 female friends who know I am bi. My wife knows si ce we have done a 3some with another guy. No big deal

 

[9to5]

I still think of the friend I had when I was younger. we used to play with each other a lot. he was the first one to jerk me off and I was his first to do him. we loved to play as much as we could when we got together. I have not told the wife about those times, I know she would freak. but I still think of doing it again if I could

 

[n8Romantic]

My bi desires are mostly private. My wife would not understand, though I have certainly talked with her about my sexual desires and fantasies. So much of our (older guys) sexual orientation was shaped by a dysfunctional society and male dominated religions. My wife is currently getting back to her Catholic roots and I fully support her. However, I fear our sex life is going to take a further beating. And I do like men. I'm not interested in sissification or humiliation. Not opposed to it, it's just not for me. My unicorn is finding a group of like minded guys that I can enjoy some time with, drinking beer and bourbon, watching sports or porn, and enjoying our bodies. Heck, I'd love to find a couple to play with. I can only imagine how tasty a cock slathered in pussy juice would taste. Heavenly.

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

Are you a bi/curious male who keeps this a secret, regardless of whether your partner (if you're attached) or family/friends wouldn't approve or understand, or simply because you're terribly private and don't feel the need to let everyone in on your intimate life?

Even in these "enlightened" times we live in, it never ceases to amaze how many still shield themselves, for varying reasons.

Step inside, take a seat. I'm listening.

PM's accepted.

It is probably because of--'these enlightened times' and the tech advances that they bring which has caused the weak response on this--, particular thread. I have seen that others of yours are thriving.

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

even in light of what I had previously posted coupled with the fact that I am getting so little favorable responses to my inquiries, I will give a for instance as to why I choose to ignore the confessionals. In the early 80's, I woke up to find myself covered liberally with blood, laying in a West Texas ditch. After managing to find my way to my house and got cleaned up, I discovered that there were no cuts, bruises, or any other signs of the blood coming from me.
I packed my go-bag and left, 3 nights later I looking at a 'Welcome to Detroit' sign.
Now what--?
I don't feel any better for having unburdened myself as a matter of fact I feel more apprehension for having said it.

 

[gary04]

I would love to tell my wife about my bi side but she would divorce me and financially i could not afford it and some of my friend would disowned me. So its better to keep my fantasies to my self and dream one day of secretly find another bi guy.

 

[JacknJohn]

Are you a bi/curious male who keeps this a secret, regardless of whether your partner (if you're attached) or family/friends wouldn't approve or understand, or simply because you're terribly private and don't feel the need to let everyone in on your intimate life?

Even in these "enlightened" times we live in, it never ceases to amaze how many still shield themselves, for varying reasons.

Step inside, take a seat. I'm listening.

PM's accepted.

Yes 55 MWM , masculine guy. Wife or friends or anyone in my everyday life know that I
A) Love sucking cock
B) Love swallowing cum
C) Almost cum from sucking
D) Love getting fucked
E) Love cumming from anal play

 

[mssweetangelina]

Bump.

For clarification purposes, looking for single men interested in creating/maintaining an ongoing dialogue, not looking to get you off at your convenience

 

[PicMan65]

I had some very secretive incidents while younger, even pre-puberty. It was in HS that I had a couple more but I was passive and let an adult suck me off. Then a couple years after HS I had an active, and voluntary, experience with a friend from school where we both sucked each other. I had one other time just before I got married and figured I'd present the straight macho impression because "I was not gay." Around 15 to 20 years ago I felt the urge to suck a cock and began looking for possible people with whom I could experiment.

As a MWM who sometimes privately admits to being bisexual, I feel the need for secrecy as my wife and family and friends would not readily accept or understand. I have had contact with a girlfriend from HS who knows of my orientation, understands and accepts the fact. She would not want me to have sex with other men if we were together but she does understand my feelings. If my wife and I ever divorce, I would seek a lasting relationship with my former girlfriend and would then again become a monogamous non-practicing bisexual man.

I would get my satisfaction of swallowing cum by her sharing my cum with me after a blow job or I would clean up my cream pies and share them with her. Btw, she does like to suck me and swallows my cum whenever she does suck me off.

SO bottom line, I wish to maintain my sexuality private and secret, at least to the majority of the population.