Your opinions on true love
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Yeah, I think true love can happen. I think it happens all of the time with a man and a woman. The true love comes from being able to love each other as God intended us to love our spouses. Giving and recieving everything that the other has to offer. Yeah, I believe in true love.
Very interesting view point and a positive outlook on true love is always good to hear because unfortunately so many people have been hurt that they have a negative outlook on true love.....isn't it so hard to try to trust again once you've been hurt....ok so what do you think makes true love and how do you know you're really in love and not infatuated with someone.....let us know what's on your mind folks.......
sortacurious
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True Love
Ahhh...Just the words make me sigh.
I believe in it wholeheartedly! I've been there, done that, got the tee-shirt, and would re-visit it in a heartbeat!
There is nothing better.
Part of what made me know it was true love:
*Missing that person to the point of knowing what emptiness is.
*After 5 yrs of no communication...one phone call and I could feel that person's pain in my own body. Then feeling "that spark" when we next met still there.
*Finding the things I thought I would hate about a person all of sudden attractive traits.
*Realizing that fight only occurred to enjoy the making up...then laughing together about it.
*Being able to let them walk away and not feel bitter but wish them all the happiness the world has to offer.
*Dreaming of them still; when you've both moved on.
*Remember your inside jokes...and still chuckling at them.
*Wondering (even in their absent) what they would think about this or do about that...
*Knowing that everytime you are with another person a part of you still feels like you are betraying that commitment made so long ago.
*Longing for the children you never had with that person.
*Not having to tell that person what I want or how to make love to me because they listened to my body and they want the same things. (sometimes before I do)
*Being able to finish each others thoughts; being that intimate!
*Whispering, kissing, giggling, tickling, cuddling under the covers.
* Making love wherever you are because you can't wait long enough to get home!
*Still being able to say that was and always will be my best friend.
How's that for starters?
Ahhh...Just the words make me sigh.
I believe in it wholeheartedly! I've been there, done that, got the tee-shirt, and would re-visit it in a heartbeat!
There is nothing better.
Part of what made me know it was true love:
*Missing that person to the point of knowing what emptiness is.
*After 5 yrs of no communication...one phone call and I could feel that person's pain in my own body. Then feeling "that spark" when we next met still there.
*Finding the things I thought I would hate about a person all of sudden attractive traits.
*Realizing that fight only occurred to enjoy the making up...then laughing together about it.
*Being able to let them walk away and not feel bitter but wish them all the happiness the world has to offer.
*Dreaming of them still; when you've both moved on.
*Remember your inside jokes...and still chuckling at them.
*Wondering (even in their absent) what they would think about this or do about that...
*Knowing that everytime you are with another person a part of you still feels like you are betraying that commitment made so long ago.
*Longing for the children you never had with that person.
*Not having to tell that person what I want or how to make love to me because they listened to my body and they want the same things. (sometimes before I do)
*Being able to finish each others thoughts; being that intimate!
*Whispering, kissing, giggling, tickling, cuddling under the covers.
* Making love wherever you are because you can't wait long enough to get home!
*Still being able to say that was and always will be my best friend.
How's that for starters?
sexylilmissie
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What she said! <G>
on a serious note though, I couldnt think of anything to follow the above post but having just found love myself I finally can say yes I believe and is it ever incredible!
on a serious note though, I couldnt think of anything to follow the above post but having just found love myself I finally can say yes I believe and is it ever incredible!
JennyOmanHill
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Another "lovebird" here!
Just when I thought it would never happen (after almost a half century of living this life!), I fell unexpectantly and helplessly in love!
It happened when I least expected it to, and although the separation from him can feel painful and miserable, the joy my heart feels at least three times each day makes it all worthwhile!
Having a sense of humor and being honest and patient are part of the ingredients to a loving relationship. Plus never take your loved one for granted! Enjoy the best, and hang on with the worst. True love is possible but needs constant nurturing! It surely is worth it!!
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Sincerely said:
Just when I thought it would never happen (after almost a half century of living this life!), I fell unexpectantly and helplessly in love!
It happened when I least expected it to, and although the separation from him can feel painful and miserable, the joy my heart feels at least three times each day makes it all worthwhile!
Having a sense of humor and being honest and patient are part of the ingredients to a loving relationship. Plus never take your loved one for granted! Enjoy the best, and hang on with the worst. True love is possible but needs constant nurturing! It surely is worth it!!
http://www.absolutelyvintage.net/theme/valentine/lovebirds.jpg
Blue Dolphin
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True Love
does it exist?
Can it happen?
My God yes it does.
I have just come out of a relationship, that almost destroyed me.
I cared more for this lady, than any person I have ever known.
the deepest feelings of my life were coursing through me.
It was what we call here an LDR.
It finally died last night, the relationship that is, for reasons out of both our control.
And the love.
That will last for ever , the last thought I ever have in my life,will be of this lady.
Exisit,oh yes,it exists forever in my heart.
does it exist?
Can it happen?
My God yes it does.
I have just come out of a relationship, that almost destroyed me.
I cared more for this lady, than any person I have ever known.
the deepest feelings of my life were coursing through me.
It was what we call here an LDR.
It finally died last night, the relationship that is, for reasons out of both our control.
And the love.
That will last for ever , the last thought I ever have in my life,will be of this lady.
Exisit,oh yes,it exists forever in my heart.
sexyspank
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Sincerely said:
True love: The desire to want to spend the rest of your life with one person to the exclusion of all others.To be there with that person through all the bad times as well as the good.To face troubles together.
Sadly it doesn't always work out but there is so much love waiting to be given around us just reach out and love one another
Wendy
I don't think nice guys are a myth....I'm a nice guy and I'm as real as they come...but don't give up on true love yet....you never know who could be waiting to give you the love and attention you deserve...and think about this....if you close yourself off to true love...will you really know when it's in the air....just something to think about....I'm sure you're a great person and your soul mate is thinking of a way to meet you to prove to you that true love is a reality....
Couldn't have said it better myself.....truly inspiring words
Ahh the Jenny Oman story....a beautiful match made in Heaven....for all those who believe you can't find true love over the internet here is the truth that proves that theory to be false...true love exists everywhere because it is what makes the world go around...I definetly agree that you must NEVER TAKE YOUR LOVE ONE GRANTED...and never make anything just a routine....try to make your loved one understand that everything you guys do is special in it's own way and should be treasured for an eternity.......And yes Jenny true love is surely worth it
Texan
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Just one old man's opinion
Love is an emotion and, like all emotions, it comes and goes with the stimuli that produce it. Because it is such a pleasant and exciting emotion, we tend to do everything possible to hang onto the emotion as long as possible.
Commitment is what holds relationships together. Commitment is an action, not an emotion. The degree of commitment between two people is dependent upon the strength of character of the two people in the relationship; and their understanding of how much more important commitment is than love in a relationship.
If two people expect to "feel" love all the time, they will inevitably become disappointed when the feeling is absent. When two people are commited to each other, they will work with each other to get through the tough times. With effort, the emotion of love will return. Then, the cycle will likely repeat itself.
I advise my kids to enjoy the feeling of love, but when looking for a life partner, look for someone who understands commitment. Look for someone who follows through on their decisions, once made. Look for someone who is honest and has character. These are the people in whom the investment of your heart is safe.
Love is an emotion and, like all emotions, it comes and goes with the stimuli that produce it. Because it is such a pleasant and exciting emotion, we tend to do everything possible to hang onto the emotion as long as possible.
Commitment is what holds relationships together. Commitment is an action, not an emotion. The degree of commitment between two people is dependent upon the strength of character of the two people in the relationship; and their understanding of how much more important commitment is than love in a relationship.
If two people expect to "feel" love all the time, they will inevitably become disappointed when the feeling is absent. When two people are commited to each other, they will work with each other to get through the tough times. With effort, the emotion of love will return. Then, the cycle will likely repeat itself.
I advise my kids to enjoy the feeling of love, but when looking for a life partner, look for someone who understands commitment. Look for someone who follows through on their decisions, once made. Look for someone who is honest and has character. These are the people in whom the investment of your heart is safe.
Very interesting piece of wisdom.....definetly a commitment is the thing you hope and strive for from your loved one...how many relationships have gone under for a lack of the "C" word....the hard thing is realizing when it's time to move on in a relationship that doesn't look like they'll be a commitment any time soon....do you continue to fool yourself or do you muster up the courage to say enough is enough......hmm tough call.....
Hmm another interesting viewpoint.....but I think if you feel love all the time eventually that will make it easier to commitment although some people no matter how much they are in love, just can't commit
Words of wisdom to think about.....anyone else....have anything they want to share on the true love.....
freescorfr
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Some great romances and, with no intention of cynicism, I would add, as one who is not in love at present,
“I love you” can mean:
I want to prove to myself that I exist in showing you the power of my love
Or
I want to caress you, touch you, kiss you and give you pleasure
Or
I want you to caress me, touch me, kiss me and give me pleasure
Or
I want to know what I’m worth, so love me
Or
I want to be dominated, denied and humiliated by you so I get a rest from the exhaustion of being me Or I want to humiliate you etc. to be sure of my own powerfulness
Or
I want a partner, an associate – a good deal – in exchange for my merchandise, I’ll have yours
Or
I want to make an investment, so I’ll deposit my affection, care and some money in the hope of a good return
Or
I need the love my mum (or dad) didn’t give me, so that’s what you will be for me.
And so on
Or it can mean “I love you.”
“I love you” can mean:
I want to prove to myself that I exist in showing you the power of my love
Or
I want to caress you, touch you, kiss you and give you pleasure
Or
I want you to caress me, touch me, kiss me and give me pleasure
Or
I want to know what I’m worth, so love me
Or
I want to be dominated, denied and humiliated by you so I get a rest from the exhaustion of being me Or I want to humiliate you etc. to be sure of my own powerfulness
Or
I want a partner, an associate – a good deal – in exchange for my merchandise, I’ll have yours
Or
I want to make an investment, so I’ll deposit my affection, care and some money in the hope of a good return
Or
I need the love my mum (or dad) didn’t give me, so that’s what you will be for me.
And so on
Or it can mean “I love you.”
freescorfr
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Yes indeed, sincerely,
the destinations of the heart are not declared, or known, or timetabled in this particular journey of discovery.
the destinations of the heart are not declared, or known, or timetabled in this particular journey of discovery.
stunner311
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reality vs. fantasy
does true love exist? YES
can it happen more than once? YES
how do you know you are in love? theres a song that says, "theres nothing you can do when love finds you" you won't have to ask that question again when you finally are in love. a lot of people are offering their belief in how you know and there is a degree of validity in all they say, but each person is different and the only true answer to how do you know is that you WILL KNOW.
one extra little tidbit and warning here. it is also possible to be in love with the idea of being in love so be careful tht thats not you.
does true love exist? YES
can it happen more than once? YES
how do you know you are in love? theres a song that says, "theres nothing you can do when love finds you" you won't have to ask that question again when you finally are in love. a lot of people are offering their belief in how you know and there is a degree of validity in all they say, but each person is different and the only true answer to how do you know is that you WILL KNOW.
one extra little tidbit and warning here. it is also possible to be in love with the idea of being in love so be careful tht thats not you.
How true....but isn't it a great journey with an even greater destination
Perfectly put
I don't think there's anything wrong with being in love with the idea or concept of being "in love'....I just think you should'nt rush to conclusions just to say or make yourself feel as tho you're in love.....but I think we all have that yearning to be in love...just be sure you know how to differentiate the two
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whspr
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I think there are many facets of love...and degrees...
But I do Believe in "true" love....I think we have it written in
our destiny. It make take some of us longer to find it than
it does for others...but it is there.
just my two cents...
soft kisses,
whspr
But I do Believe in "true" love....I think we have it written in
our destiny. It make take some of us longer to find it than
it does for others...but it is there.
just my two cents...
soft kisses,
whspr
stunner311
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true
i agree with you 100% whspr. by the way have you found it yet?
love the avatar and the name.
stunner
whspr said:I think there are many facets of love...and degrees...
But I do Believe in "true" love....I think we have it written in
our destiny. It make take some of us longer to find it than
it does for others...but it is there.
just my two cents...
soft kisses,
whspr
i agree with you 100% whspr. by the way have you found it yet?
love the avatar and the name.
stunner
Are we all destined to find true love somewhere down the line...I'd like to think so......just have to keep our heads up and know that true love is coming soon just sit tight and when you least expect it there it is......but how about this.....any tips on how to keep that true love constantly satisfied and happy that they've chosen to be with you.......here's a quick top ten list:
1. Tell your loved one that they're the reason why you exist
2. Be there for them when all they need is a hug, a ear to listen, and maybe a shoulder to lean on
3. Treat them as you would want them to treat you
4. Try to make everyting extra special and avoid things become just routine
5. BE COMPLETELY HONEST WITH THEM AT ALL TIMES
6. Be their best friend
7. Don't ever judge them, if you must correct them do it in love not anger or hate
8. Don't be afraid to take a chance and be spontaneous
9. Don't be afraid to make a commitment to them if you truly know that they're the one for you
10. Look your loved one deep in the eyes and tell him/her that you love them
There is no greater feeling than knowing that you're loved one is happy to be with you and that you're happy to be with your loved one
Anybody else have some suggestions on how to keep that true love satisfied and happy that they've chosen to be with you
1. Tell your loved one that they're the reason why you exist
2. Be there for them when all they need is a hug, a ear to listen, and maybe a shoulder to lean on
3. Treat them as you would want them to treat you
4. Try to make everyting extra special and avoid things become just routine
5. BE COMPLETELY HONEST WITH THEM AT ALL TIMES
6. Be their best friend
7. Don't ever judge them, if you must correct them do it in love not anger or hate
8. Don't be afraid to take a chance and be spontaneous
9. Don't be afraid to make a commitment to them if you truly know that they're the one for you
10. Look your loved one deep in the eyes and tell him/her that you love them
There is no greater feeling than knowing that you're loved one is happy to be with you and that you're happy to be with your loved one
Anybody else have some suggestions on how to keep that true love satisfied and happy that they've chosen to be with you
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