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I was talking with a friend the other day and would like your opinion on our conversation. I have been married for a long time no kids to take care of at the house. Chores and cooking are split pretty evenly. He works and I stay home I spend most of my day playing video games and do a few small chores. My friend said if she was me she would give hubby absolutely anything he wanted sexually. Do you agree with her. For the most part I do. Would you do that to get to stay home and play games. What would you be willing to do?
 
I was talking with a friend the other day and would like your opinion on our conversation. I have been married for a long time no kids to take care of at the house. Chores and cooking are split pretty evenly. He works and I stay home I spend most of my day playing video games and do a few small chores. My friend said if she was me she would give hubby absolutely anything he wanted sexually. Do you agree with her. For the most part I do. Would you do that to get to stay home and play games. What would you be willing to do?
I would just be honest and make his fantasies come true. From one Texan to another.
 
Hey, you do you. If what you do works for both of you, our opinion doesn't matter. But since you asked, I'd think being sexually open and available to his wants would be a hell of a nice gesture on your part. It would certainly make me more open to the idea.

But I do that sort of thing even if I take a day off during the week. I took yesterday off because the highway was pretty cold and icy and my commute is 30+ miles. Lots of slide-offs and a few pile-ups the day before. So I spent the day writing and then got the bedroom set up. I gave Mrs. Royale a great relaxing, sensual massage for Valentines Day when she got home from work, complete with a happy ending.
 
You should do what you feel comfortable with. If he wishes something that you are not comfortable with then talk about it.
Do not understand the real problem, has he asked you to do something that you wish not to do?
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After 34 years married to the same bitchy woman ( she says to the same asshole man) I can tell you that if what you are doing works, just be happy. We both work outside the home. We each have things we do and chores we won't touch- leaving them to the other. Now, as a guy, damn right you should put out whatever I want to take. But as a long time husband, give me what you want to share. I'm happy here with you.
 
Regardless of our situation, we should all be doing whatever we can to ensure our partners are emotionally and sexually fulfilled. In my opinion, there is zero value to being married if you’re partner isn’t satisfying those two needs.

The missing information in your question is whether he feels satisfied. If he is… then why change anything. If he’s not… you might want to evaluate your relationship.

There’s also the question of whether you feel satisfied….
 
I was talking with a friend the other day and would like your opinion on our conversation. I have been married for a long time no kids to take care of at the house. Chores and cooking are split pretty evenly. He works and I stay home I spend most of my day playing video games and do a few small chores. My friend said if she was me she would give hubby absolutely anything he wanted sexually. Do you agree with her. For the most part I do. Would you do that to get to stay home and play games. What would you be willing to do?
Women never owes a man anything as far as I'm concerned, if you want to f*** him f*** him, if you don't feel like it don't...
 
It is a sexy thought, to have a wife who is "grateful" for her situation and who wants to show her gratitude by giving her man the sex he desires. That fantasy requires that the woman have a sex drive similar to her man. That is the problem for many couples.

It has always been my desire to have sex with my beautiful, sexy wife every day. I wake up horny and I would love to go to sleep every night after a nice fuck. But my wife has a sex drive that only makes her want sexy maybe once a week for 20 minutes. Those 20 minutes are great, but the rest of the week, I watch porn and jerk off.

I've mentioned this before. I knew a woman, the wife of a friend of mine, who told me what her mother told her the night before her wedding. Her mother said that to have a happy marriage, she should give her husband an orgasm every day. Handjob, blowjob, intercourse, whatever. I can't tell you how much that would change my life.

Over the years, I have been depressed, angry, and hopeless knowing I will never have someone who wants to give me sex every day. I have used drink and drugs to address this situation. If there is a man out there whose wife wants sexual contact as much or more than he does, I hope you understand that you hit the lottery. That would be worth more than any amount of money you could ever hope to have.
 
As long as both of you are happy and feel satisfied sexually, I see not obligation on her part to do anything out of the ordinary. If it were me and I was at home and she was working, I would make every effort to satisfy her sexually so she would know she is appreciated.
 
I was talking with a friend the other day and would like your opinion on our conversation. I have been married for a long time no kids to take care of at the house. Chores and cooking are split pretty evenly. He works and I stay home I spend most of my day playing video games and do a few small chores. My friend said if she was me she would give hubby absolutely anything he wanted sexually. Do you agree with her. For the most part I do. Would you do that to get to stay home and play games. What would you be willing to do?
As a husband my 2 cents: do what is right for you guys. As a guy, sure, it's awesome if my wife puts out whenever I want. In my opinion you are not in debt to your husband just because you don't work and he does. I A surprise here and there would be great but end of the day, it's your body and your choice.
I would reframe the question as are you both happy with each other and your sex life? That should drive all the decisions.
 
The only question that hit me when I read the original post was, this kind of existence is enough for you? If it is, hey, enjoy it! FWIW, I don't think you are under any obligation to do anything that you don't want to do.
 
As a husband my 2 cents: do what is right for you guys. As a guy, sure, it's awesome if my wife puts out whenever I want. In my opinion you are not in debt to your husband just because you don't work and he does. I A surprise here and there would be great but end of the day, it's your body and your choice.
I would reframe the question as are you both happy with each other and your sex life? That should drive all the decisions.
I think the OP is long gone, but you make some good points.
 
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