Your longest BDSM relationship?

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[Blushing Bottom]

no/no

Please explain if this is your current relationship and if it has always been primarily BDSM-oriented. Juuuuuuuuust curious!

 

[BiBunny]

I've been with B. a little over a year, and it's always been BDSM-oriented. Hell, it's my second-longest relationship with a man, period.

I don't do commitment too well.

 

[graceanne]

Ok - yes it's my current relationship, and no it's not always been D/s oriented.

But we've got 10 years in August.

 

[museofdragon]

Dragon and i have been together 16 years and have been Owner and property from the beginning.

 

[Shankara20]

It was a 4 year relationship centered on BDSM that is no more.

We are just friends now.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Yes and yes, and has been just over 5 years since we began communicating with a view to a M/s relationship, 3 months short of 5 years since we married and began 24/7 face to face.

Catalina

 

[WynEternal]

My one and only real life relationship with another woman. Two years, one of which was 24/7. Then I got married. Even now, we're still friends.

 

[Chicklet]

currently i have no relationship! *cry*

 

[Hisbabydoll26]

no and no I keep trying to convince him, and he has been trying. Which is more than sweet of him.

Chicklet: it will happen when you find someone worthy of your attention. I know people say that stuff but you are a cool chic and I would hate to see you end up with someone just so so.

 

[ownedsubgal]

have been Daddy's slave now for nearly 7 years, and hopefully will be so until my dying day. our relationship has always been Owner/slave, tho not really bdsm.

 

[shy slave]

Yes and Yes.

It has been two years

 

[FurryFury]

I've been with my husband 17 years. It's not a BDSM relationship really. It certainly didn't start that way. Now, I'd say it's just kinky with him topping rarely and me topping even more rarely.

Mostly we have what I call maintenance sex. That sounds bad but it's damned good and I fucking need it. It's when we don't have much time or energy but still want to get off and just spend some skin time together.

I've been with my online Dom going on about a year. That's the longest online D/s relationship I've had and yes, it started that way. I'm actually quite surprised it's lasted this long. Usually life gets in way, people lose interest or have something bigger happening in their real lives or whatever and poof!

Fury

 

[Trajal]

Previously had 3 BDSM relationships lasting 1 year, 2 years and 7 years respectively. Currently in a relationship that's been for the last 8 months or so, but this one is very different.

And yes all my relationships were D/s (well M/s maybe) from the start. (Scarily enough I have -never- had a vanilla relationship. I'm 100% pure perv)

Oh to answer two questions I had in pms. Yes they were all RL, not done online relationships other than in a game and it didn't work out well.

 

[minx1]

I've been with my husband 17 years. It's not a BDSM relationship really. It certainly didn't start that way. Now, I'd say it's just kinky with him topping rarely and me topping even more rarely.

Mostly we have what I call maintenance sex. That sounds bad but it's damned good and I fucking need it. It's when we don't have much time or energy but still want to get off and just spend some skin time together.

I've been with my online Dom going on about a year. That's the longest online D/s relationship I've had and yes, it started that way. I'm actually quite surprised it's lasted this long. Usually life gets in way, people lose interest or have something bigger happening in their real lives or whatever and poof!

Fury

*smiles* yeah me too Fury. This is my first D/s relationship and at the moment its long distance......we met here. We have been together 8 months so far and we hope to meet in a few months time.

 

[Daddyslilpet]

I have been with my Husband for 19 years this coming July, the last 7 of those have been BDSM-oriented. This is the only BDSM-oriented relationship I've ever had.

 

[graceanne]

Mostly we have what I call maintenance sex. That sounds bad but it's damned good and I fucking need it. It's when we don't have much time or energy but still want to get off and just spend some skin time together.

LOL Me and K call it 'meat and potatoes' sex.

 

[navarre]

I have been with my Husband for 19 years this coming July, the last 7 of those have been BDSM-oriented. This is the only BDSM-oriented relationship I've ever had.

Getting long in the tooth, aren't ya?

 

[serijules]

Ma'am and I celebrated our 3rd year on Thurs.

It has been D/s all 3 years. We were friends for over 6 years prior to that, sharing the same group of D/s friends.

 

[subtleone]

Been together for 18 years now but only recently gone from play bdsm full time Ds relationship.

 

[Daddyslilpet]

Getting long in the tooth, aren't ya?

LOL... look who's talkin'

 

[Kierae]

Yes and No. D and I have been together for 17 years and married for 15. We have "played" with it off and on and have been committed for the last several years.

~kierae

 

[callinectes]

I am 6.5 months into my first D/s relationship. It has been D/s from the start.

I have a history of having long vanilla relationships, I certainly hope that trend will continue in my D/s relationship(s).

 

[Bandit58]

Master Gil and I have been together for 3 years and 3 months, and married for 5 months. This is my first D/s relationship