Your First Site

I can't remember to be honest,

but I am absolutely positive it must have been something Gorean / Gor related. Most likely some personal site, explaining the rules and positions and such, I think it was something "Silk and Steel" or such.

As for more "official" BDSM, I think castlerealm.com, but again, only guessing since I can't really recall.
 
My first site was CastleRealm.

What an eye opener for me!
At last I felt I knew who I was and why!
 
Mine was Hecate's. Then here. I really don't go to many places. Why? Here and there are all I need for me.

Though I admit sometimes Wizard's many links pull me in.

I first clicked on her website, long before I really knew her. It frightened me, made me nervous. I was aprehensive of what I would find. Beatings? Heavy stuff, you know the scene. The all black pages made it worse. I admit now, I even clicked out of it at first. Then waited till I was alone.
But instead I found a "library" of sorts. I wandered and discovered. Yes, this was how I felt too. These words were what I had struggled for, and here they were. In simple, beautiful precision she had written there what I felt in my secret heart.

Can there be any wonder why I love her so?


It gave me the courage to speak up a little, research more. Go other places and read, discover what I was looking for.
 
I don't remember the url, but it was a submissive's daily journal. She wrote about her life and about her feelings as a sub. It touched something deep within me and was the first of many many websites I have visited in my quest to explore and learn.
 
I don't know if this counts or not, but my first site was right here on this board.

I've since visited many many sites, but this place will always be where I started my journey.

dixi
 
My first...

...skin to skin bdsm rapport was with a woman I met at Bianca's Smut Shack, so it'll always be special to me. Beyond that, the only site I've ever devoted anything more than a cursory lookee-see to would be Lit.

Lance
 
My first site was here, too. Actually, it was way back on the mother thread and the links posted by cym there. i had always had these thoughts, but did not realize that actual 'normal' people acted on them and even formed communities where they did these things as group. So, Lit. was the start of my education.

lasavane
 
My first peek at BDSM was right here.

Here is where I stay.

My first skin to skin was generated at bondage.com, but as all of real time contacts there have been less than what I hope for, it holds no special place for me.


;)
 
I think it was Different Loving about 5 or 6 years ago. They also had a pretty good list of links.
 
a writers group was where i first glimpsed BDSM...then someone in the Lit chatrooms suggested i visit Castle Realm...from there i went to every link that i could find...and i still do...i still read constantly...the most recent for me was MsWorthy's site...~smile~
 
My first exposure was one of the many chatrooms that litter the internet.
 
WriterDom said:
I think it was Different Loving about 5 or 6 years ago. They also had a pretty good list of links.

They sure did. I remember being amazed that there were so many BDSM sites. Of course there are probably thousands of times more now.
 
This was my first BDSM website.

I still have a copy of Different Loving, though.
 
CarolineOh said:
I have a good friend who had been active in the bdsm scene for a while, and I told her of my interest, so she sent me to read at the Ds Kiosk.

http://www.cuffs.com/homepage.htm

Hey! That's the site I was remembering. It has the link to the living diary of a submissive. I just couldn't remember how I found it.
 
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