Your First Deep Throat - Giving and/or Receiving

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Officially my first “receiving” deepthroat (I don’t do guys so never sucked a dick) was with my ex-wife. We used to watch porn periodically. This is before the Internet became what it is today. One of these movies was the the movie title “Deepthroat”. An old movie if you are not familiar with it. Very popular and controversial.

It is also common that we never make it through the movie. We start watching, get turned on, and go at it. Commonly the sex starts with a BJ and a few times with me eating her out. This one time she has me sitting and she is kneeling on the floor and starts to suck my cock. Then I notice she is going further and further down and doing this opening and closing of her lips. Eventually she reaches the bottom with my entire cock in her mouth and in her throat. She only lasted a couple of seconds before she had to take it out because she was seconds away from puking.

Felt really good but she has not done it since.

Worth mentioning my second deepthroat was with this young girl (early twenties possibly as young as 21) when I was divorced and in my 30’s hooks up with me. I am laying on my back and she is giving me head and I feel my cock going into her throat. I look up and say, “Are you deepthroating me?” She replies, “I don’t have a gag reflex.” Let me tell you, she so did not have a gag reflex.

Since then I been deepthroated with a few woman even once with my current fiance. But you will never forger your first.

So whether your story is doing or receiving or both, go ahead and share.
 
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My wife occasionally takes me balls-deep, but not often. Only when she is really aroused and we are 69. It's an amazing sensation! I wish she loved sucking cock as mush as I love being sucked!
I deepthroated a guy a few months ago. He was not too long, but thicker than me. I got his whole cock in my mouth and loved it. I think I love sucking as much as I love being sucked.
 
Nothing better than being deep throated. An early GF good deep throat, not gag relfex and when she would make you cum.... she just took it deeper it felt like you cock was so fulfilled....Swallowing and swallowing each load .. dam she ruined me for BJ's, cause after her if they couldnt suck cock deep, i would just stop them and fuck...
 
My first deep throat, both giving and receiving, was with my best friend in high school. We had been blowing each other every chance we got for a couple of weeks. One night, we went camping in our usual spot. After giving each other blowjobs, we decided to hike the four miles to the drive-in theater and watch the porn movies they played late on weekend nights. We hiked because neither of us had a car, or a driver's license.

We watched from a small hill overlooking the drive-in. It was not the best place for viewing the film, but we could see the action well enough. I don't recall the name of the film, but there was a scene where a woman deepthroated a guys massive cock. My friend and I both looked at each other and said we had to try that. We hiked back to our campsite and immediately stripped and began trying to swallow each other's cocks in a 69 position, without much success. He had a pretty bad gag reflex, for one thing. After awhile, I shifted around until I was laying on my stomach between his legs and I took his cock into my mouth and began lubing it with my saliva. Then I took his cock deeper and deeper until he was pressed pretty firmly against the back of my throat. I kept pressing forward for as long as I could and still couldn't get his cock down my throat. I tried several times and was about to give up when he grabbed my head and pulled down while I was trying to swallow him. And just like that, his cock slid into my throat. I was surprised and pulled back immediately, but I tried again right away, and between trying my best to swallow his cock and him pulling my head down, his cock slid easily down my throat. This time I held it there for a few seconds, and then came up for air. Making eye contact, he told me it felt fantastic. I was soon swallowing his cock easily, and before long he was bucking and crying out and he came down my throat. I know he loved it, and I loved he way his cock pulsed inside my throat as he came.

He was unable to deepthroat me that night, although we tried everything. The next night we were in his basement and we tried again. This time I was able to take his cock down my throat on the first attempt. He again tried to deepthroat me several times before my cock suddenly entered his throat while he was gagging. He almost threw up so didn't try again. I was deepthroating him every time we had sex after that, and he tried occasionally but couldn't get over his gag reflex. And then one day he tried and everything somehow fell into place and he was swallowing my cock as well. He never had a problem after that.

Such good memories!
 
My experience is very limited, 3 women, and perhaps 2 dozen or so men. All were pleasurable, but I generally conclude the guys were better. 3 of those guys were completely awesome. None of the women were even close to those 3 guys. Just sayin’!
Got very limited experience. Some day I’ll get more. Sho knows
 
I would make sense that a man would know instinctively how best to do a BJ. I like to think I am pretty good at it but I am older and have had plenty of experience. I think the key is enthusiasm. If a woman likes to suck and it shows, she is going to be pretty good at it. Probably the second issue is that she needs to be willing and wanting to take his load. No pulling off or spitting. Milk him and swallow and let him know how much you appreciate his cum.
 
In college I dated a girl who bragged about her cocksucking ability. She said her last bf wanted her to show all his friends how amazing she was at it. She licked and sucked the first couple of inches and then finished me off with her hand. It was good. And she appeared to enjoy doing it, but I wondered if that was as good as it got.

Then, years later, I had a woman take my cock all the way down and pumped it full length until I blew my wad down her throat. Case closed.
 
The first time I had a girl deep throat me was not a pleasant experience. I had just graduated high school and was working as a stock boy in a high end shoe store. After some heavy flirting, I went out with one of the sales girls. During the movie, she told me she loved to suck dick and couldn't wait to feel me cum in her throat. Just one problem. She was a year older then me at 19 and had just gotten Adult Braces on her teeth and hadn't sucked a dick since then.
I had gotten a few BJ's before that night, but it was just a form of foreplay and this woman told me she wanted me to cum in her mouth. Once she got my junk out, she had no problem swallowing me, but those braces sliced me like a razor blade. After about 2 minutes, I had make her stop it was so painful. We ended up just having backseat sex with both of us getting off.
The following morning when I got up, my junk looked and felt like it had been put through a meat grinder. It hurt to touch it and when the hot water from shower hit it, it took everything I had to not scream out in pain.
I've had several women try to get me over the mental block about BJ's, several of the swallowing me whole, but it took me over 20 years before I was able to finally relax and cum for a blow job. Been making up for lost time since then.
 
It is nothing I have experienced. My wife tried it with one of her dates in college. She wasn't able to do it, so he had to be happy with a regular blow job.
 
I’ve had my cock sucked quite a few times, not all of them memorable.
But one time I was fucking a married woman and she did a proper deepthroat. Best blow job I ever had.
 
I would make sense that a man would know instinctively how best to do a BJ. I like to think I am pretty good at it but I am older and have had plenty of experience. I think the key is enthusiasm. If a woman likes to suck and it shows, she is going to be pretty good at it. Probably the second issue is that she needs to be willing and wanting to take his load. No pulling off or spitting. Milk him and swallow and let him know how much you appreciate his cum.
Atta girl!!! and YES you are correct. Enthusiasm is the key to all great sex. Especially oral (giving and receiving). Nothing better than a woman wanting it and taking it. Conversely nothing is more of a turn off than a lover who just lays there.
 
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My wife has been deep throating me since shortly after we got together. She struggled at first, but was inspired by a coworker who would show off at company cookouts by deep throating hot dogs in front of an audience. But she was not my first.
Prior to meeting my wife, I had a long-term relationship with a woman that started in high school and extended through our first three years of college. When she and I met we were not virgins, but neither of us were very experienced. Over the four years we were together we practiced together incessantly and became quite expert at pleasing each other. Her oral skills were not good when we first got together, but by the end of the relationship she was world class. She could not deep throat me at first, but over time she learned how to accomplish this feat. The first time she swallowed all of me was while we were in 69 position, with her on top. With her neck extended and her mouth and throat perfectly lined up, she managed to take it all the way to the base. With practice she eventually could take most of it from other positions, but 69 was always the easiest for her.
 
... Conversely nothing is more of a turn off than a lover who just lays there.
Sigh .... this is my experience. I learned early on that if my wife initiated sex, I could do anything I wanted and it was good. But, if I tried to initiate sex, it was impossible to get her aroused and not satisfying at all.
 
I present as female 100% of the time….
My first sexual experience was when I asked a friend to have his first blow job experience with me. Funny because I knew him from pray away the gay therapy. There was an old gas station closed down, an overgrown lot with a payphone booth.
I was desperate to act out….to prove that I was the girl I knew myself to be. He was in a similar situation.
I pulled his jeans and underwear down and got as much of his stiffness as I could. I choked but took a breath…tried again…he spurted in my mouth…on my face, in my hair….we started laughing…..that was a quickie…maybe 30 or 40 seconds….then he did me….it was a glorious experience for both.
 
Atta girl!!! and YES you are correct. Enthusiasm is the key to all great sex. Especially oral (giving and receiving). Nothing better than a woman wanting it and taking it. Conversely nothing is more of a turn off than a lover who just lays there.
Something I learned early in life and it has been helpful to me. Also if you give a fair share, you get more.
 
I’m pretty thick, which is probably a factor as far as never being deepthroated. Yet I have had some amazing blowjobs; for me the most important thing is they keep their lips over the entire head, including the ridge, and move their hand on the shaft as I’m cumming. And I have to say, being swallowed is so sexy. Omg…so good😋
 
I’m pretty thick, which is probably a factor as far as never being deepthroated. Yet I have had some amazing blowjobs; for me the most important thing is they keep their lips over the entire head, including the ridge, and move their hand on the shaft as I’m cumming. And I have to say, being swallowed is so sexy. Omg…so good😋
BTW - have never been deep-throated either. I'm not huge - but do believe I'm a bit bigger than average (I've been told). Not sure if that is a factor or not. Honestly, I dont really believe deepthroating, per se, is "better" than a solid, sensual BJ - I think the visual is more of the attraction than the actual sensation.

That said - I've love to hear from those longer-studs (7"+) who regularly receive deep throat BJs - are they BETTER or just DIFFERENT?
 
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