Your Advice To A New *litster*

What who you trust, don't be lead by your heart and for god's sake, don't confess your secrets to just anyone. Most people are just waiting to find a way to manipulate you.

Make sure if you're looking for females they have ACTUAL female genitalia. And if they have a hint of the crazy, run like the wind.
 
What who you trust, don't be lead by your heart and for god's sake, don't confess your secrets to just anyone. Most people are just waiting to find a way to manipulate you.

Make sure if you're looking for females they have ACTUAL female genitalia. And if they have a hint of the crazy, run like the wind.

Great advice sweetie. I wouldn't say most though (in an effort to see the good in many) just the unsavoury few :)
 
It's been through observation of mine that people on Lit can be likened to a buffet of various food - some that have substance, some that are bland, some that are spicy, some that are comforting, some that are sweet, some that are spoiled, some that are visually appealing but not much more than that....best part, it's your choice as to who you want to talk to ;)

Above all be yourself :) You'll be much happier :)
 
It's been through observation of mine that people on Lit can be likened to a buffet of various food - some that have substance, some that are bland, some that are spicy, some that are comforting, some that are sweet, some that are spoiled, some that are visually appealing but not much more than that....best part, it's your choice as to who you want to talk to ;)

Above all be yourself :) You'll be much happier :)

Yeppers... So True! :)
 
Keep in mind, people here are people, some of them will be asses, some will be amazing, but they're all just people. Don't be too hesitant, but don't be too free either.
 
Be very careful about sending out pics of yourself, or camming with guys. It can be used against you.
 
If you don't mislead people you probaly won't get misled yourself
 
Be smart about where you take your pictures. Don't have visible identifiers in the background, and don't take them in places that are highly inappropriate. Then you'll never have to worry about them. And leave people the fuck alone when you get told to. Don't stalk them and their girlfriend/boyfriend/cousins/or friends.
 
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Be prepared to get hurt and ridiculed.

I miss you ani:(

some people are emotional vampires they feed of the pain and hurt of others---when there isnt enough present---they instigate and provoke and sow their cruelties

Ignore them---dont feed them by giving their idiocy and cruelties power over you.
 
Everything said so far are good words of advice.

Have fun, but be careful. Especially of whom you give RL info. to. And if you are a sensitive soul, watch your heart. Even in a 'friendly situation', not everyone out there is looking to 'make friends.'
 
Be diplomatic whenever it is called for (remembering, of course, that one definition of diplomacy is knowing how to say "Nice Doggy" just long enough to find a rock).
 
Some advice from a relative newcomer:

1. This is a large forum. You will get lost from time to time.

2. Do not argue with morons unless you do it for fun to wind them up.

3. Say nice things about posters pictures, if you can't, just stay silent.

4. Should you recognise a poster in real life do not announce the fact to them.

5. You can ignore posters you don't like.

6. If you don't enjoy it here. There are other places to have fun.

7. Don't forget to use a smilie when you are being rude to someone.
 
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