Young Women Looking For Older Men or a Daddy

[DaddyDreams]

I would like to believe that I'm a normal and healthy 55 year old married man but right now I am very conflicted and confused. My very lovely 20 year old neighbor Denise introduced me to Lit a few months ago. Since then she has been sending me links almost daily about young women who want to have sex with older men. There is a long story behind this that I'll share with anyone who is interested but the bottom line is that she wants me to take her virginity this summer while she is home from college. She is tired of being the only virgin she knows and she has been reading everything on Lit and wants me to make love to her and teach her everything I know sexually. I'm very good friends with her parents and have watched this shy and innocent young girl grow up for the past ten years and she has turned into quite a young woman. However she is definitely not shy anymore and if I do everything she wants she won't be innocent anymore either. The things she has told me she wants to do with her go way beyond anything I have ever done with my wife. In her message yesterday she said that she wants me to be her daddy because she knows that I will take the time and make sure that she experiences all the pleasures a woman should have,and that I will also nurture and protect her.

With my current work schedule both Denise and myself are home alone during the day and her parents will be going on vacation in a couple of weeks and she will have the house all to herself. I keep telling her that I can't do what she asks of me but things have already gotten out of control and Denise is clearly doing everything she can to seduce me and get me to change my mind.

I must admit that reading some of things on Lit about older men and younger women has aroused something I never knew existed inside of me. The tempation offered by Denise and reading more about this type of relationship here on Lit has me thinking about it all the time. I have been having these very vivid dreams and fantasizing about being a daddy with younger women. This has me very confused and conflicted because I never thought of anything like this before Denise brought it up.

I've noticed that some of these postings on Lit where young women say they are looking for older men appear to just be games they are playing but I'm not here to judge anyone.

Are there really any young women on Lit who are serious about being with an older man? I would like to talk with any young women who really do fantasize about being with an older man so that I can understand how young women think and how this type of relationship could work.

Perhaps if I lived out this fantasy in the relative safety of the online world then it would help reduce the tempation of what Denise is offering me and I could somehow help her to understand why we should not do what she desires.

Thanks for your patience with a newbie and a very sensitive subject.

Brian

 

[Guttergoddess]

I am not quite as young as Denise (I'm 35), but my boyfriend isn't as young as you either (he's 55) so do the math...that's 20 years (well technically 19..because of birthdays and all). Ex was 17 years older than me, and exhusband is 10 years older.

Do I have Daddy issues? Probably. Do I really expect a man to "take care of me"? No. I'm a big girl. I can pay my bills fine, thanks. Do I want to feel pampered? Hell yeah! What woman doesn't want to?

Here is my question for you. If Denise were 40 would you have a problem in having a sexual relationship with her? Why? If your answer is yes, I'm assuming it's because you're married. End of story. That's all she needs to hear. That's the only real reason for you not to do this. The age difference is not a reason to not go into a relationship.

 

[DaddyDreams]

Thanks GutterGoddess I know it would be morally wrong to give into the desires that I'm feeling for this young woman but she is relentless in her pursuit.

The other day I was out in the yard working and since it was hot I had my shirt off. As I'm walking across my yard there is one place where the ground is high enough that I can see over the privacy fence and into my neighbors yard and there is Densie sunning herself in a very skimpy bikini. I stopped for a minute remembering that one time late last summer when I saw her sunning topless but she didn't know that I had seen her. This time she wasn't topless but she did catch me standing there staring at her. She sat up and waved and then asked if I could come over and help her setup something that she was supposed to have done before her parents got home. It was kind of heavy so I helped her and 15 minutes later she is getting me some ice tea when she asks me to put some suntan lotion on her back.

Yes I know that I should have told her that I didn't think that was a good idea and made a hasty retreat but I didn't have that much willpower. Her skin was so soft and silky and I only put lotion on her back. When I handed the lotion back to her she thanked me and said I should not be working out in the sun without some lotion on me so she put some on my back and chest. Feeling the touch of her hand and the way her long fingernails scraped against my skin aroused me greatly and she noticed the big bulge in the front of my shorts. She asked me if seeing her in such a skimpy bikini turned me on and I could feel my face turning bright red. Before I could respond she reached out her hand and rubbed the palm of it against my erection as she looked up into my eyes and told me that she wanted me sooo bad. It's hard to explain everything that was going through my mind and how hot her touch made me but I put my hands on her shoulders and pushed her away and then turned and went back inside my house for the rest of the afternoon.

I'm just an average guy and I have never been pursued by a woman before and with each encounter I have with Denise it's getting harder and harder to say NO! I do know only too well that if I cross that line there is no turning back. I can't ever remember having dreams like I'm having now. They come every night and they seem even more real each time. I can feel the soft touch of her hand and smell her heavenly perfume and see that look of lust in her eyes and hear her sweet voice calling me Daddy and then I wake up very aroused and have to get up and to the bathroom to relieve my need for her.

Is there a young woman here on Lit who needs a Daddy and can help me forget about Denise and give me a safe outlet for all this desire and need I am feeling to be with a young woman.

 

[DaddyDreams]

Still Dreaming

Still dreaming of finding my own naughty little girl and being her Daddy.

 

[DaddyDreams]

I wanted to thank everyone who sent me PM's offering advice on the best way to handle this situation. In the end Denise and I had a very long talk and now understands why I can't give her what she wanted. I'm happy that I didn't give in to temptation and thought that everything would go back to normal and I would stop thinking about being with a much younger woman.

However that's not the case. In fact I think about it even more now than ever before. It's like this door inside of me has been opened and allowed something I never knew existed loose and now there is no turning back. Every night I have these dreams about a young woman calling me Daddy and they arouse me like I have never been aroused before. I have all this passion and desire to share with someone and it's driving me crazy to keep it bottled up inside of me.

I would love to hear from any women here on Lit who could help me safely live out this fantasy in the online world.

Thank you for taking time to read this.

Brian

 

[DaddyDreams]

Daddy is still looking for a sweet angel that he can hold and caress and care for and call his own...

 

[dakotaparis]

Strange... many would die to have your "problem" I say go with the flow and enjoy while you can!

 

[DaddyDreams]

Daddy Is Still Looking For His Angel

I know that there is a young woman out there who still wants and needs to find a Daddy of their very own. Would you like a Daddy who can give you lot's of time and attention, a Daddy who will hold you on his lap and listen to you talk about your day and about the things in your life that are bothering you. Would you like a Daddy who is very experienced and can touch you in ways that you never thought were possible, a Daddy who cares about your needs and wants to help you take care of them in every way he possibly can. Would you like a Daddy that you can give yourself too fully and completely and make him sooo very happy.

Darling all you need to do is reach out to Daddy right now and take his hand and let him hold you on his lap and you will see what it's like to truly be my precious little angel.

Daddy is waiting for you with open arms and sooo much anticipation.

 

[DaddyDreams]

Daddy has soooo many things that he wants to share with his sweet angel so don't be shy... Daddy is waiting for you...

 

[dakotaparis]

damn, would love to have your "problem" but alas, fantasies are all i can have!

 

[Sexcelena]

You sound like a very sweet daddy lol

 

[wv4u]

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I wish I was in your shoes. That a dream to come true. What would happen if u did this? Would she tell your wife or blackmail u?

 

[DaddyDreams]

Would Love To Hear From The Women Too

Thanks for all your comments and advice.

It would be really great to hear from some of the women who have actually had this type of experience and been the one seducing a much older man. I'm curious what it was like for them and how things turned out between them and the men they were trying to seduce.