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Amy..Good Luck to you...and be sure to check out the BDSM forum here on Lit...lots of great people and a wealth of knowledge.

(Your ad is great. Very well thought out. You may be "untrained" but you seem to have a firm grasp on what you want.)
 
While I don't meet the age bracket you've indicated. I encourage you to take a look at my add (link in signature) if you so choose.

It will be getting revamped soon, but if nothing else it gives you an idea as to who I've been to this point.

Well wishes in any case. It's refreshing to see a (from my POV anyways) genuine add from a submissive.

So a change of pace, you already know the bull shit that wades around on here.

With that being said, what do you ultimately hope to get out of this?

Just training? LTR? Online relationship? Real time?

You've opened the door, yet I don't really see who you are... or what you want.

I'm sure you have your reasons why you haven't opened up more, and they may be good ones. Yet the fact remains. So... care to indulge a curious "Dom"? ;)

PS. What context are you using 'cum' in? As in come here, or cum in your face? If it's the former than yeah, that's annoying. If it's the latter that's just nit picky imo. :p
 
HottieMama said:
Amy..Good Luck to you...and be sure to check out the BDSM forum here on Lit...lots of great people and a wealth of knowledge.

(Your ad is great. Very well thought out. You may be "untrained" but you seem to have a firm grasp on what you want.)
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Why thank you. :)
 
Auraka,
I did look at your ad and I have to say it was definitely different than the others on here and was actually interesting to read. Have you not found someone? It seems that with an ad with that much detail and honesty, you would find what you’re looking for pretty quickly.
I’m not completely sure at this point what I want to get out of this in the long run. For right now, I’m just interested in a good friend and trainer online; someone I can get close to without having a very serious relationship with. I suppose a serious relationship might develop later on, and I'm not turned off by the idea, but that’s not what I’m really after right now.
Thanks for taking the time to reply. :)
PS: The former.
 
itsonlydisco said:
Auraka,
I did look at your ad and I have to say it was definitely different than the others on here and was actually interesting to read. Have you not found someone? It seems that with an ad with that much detail and honesty, you would find what you’re looking for pretty quickly.
I’m not completely sure at this point what I want to get out of this in the long run. For right now, I’m just interested in a good friend and trainer online; someone I can get close to without having a very serious relationship with. I suppose a serious relationship might develop later on, and I'm not turned off by the idea, but that’s not what I’m really after right now.
Thanks for taking the time to reply. :)
PS: The former.
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I haven't found someone yet. No. It's always a long shot... have I had replies? Sure, yet not many have resonated with me on the level that I want... I've made many friends, just not what I was after.

As to you! This is what I'm seeing. You're not sure, that's ok... yet think about what you're doing. You're asking for someone to be your Master. Is that not a serious thing....? Yet you want it to be fairly casual. At least to start.

With that being said!

What you want. You'll get. It really is that simple. You want someone that isn't the closest thing to an ideal dom (for you). Then you'll get him, and when shit hit's the fan.... it's what you set up for yourself.

That's why I asked what you wanted. One thing that I've noticed is a subbie has an amazing way of getting attached to their dom.

The details of today, make up the big picture of tomorrow.

Holy shit....... I'm saying a lot. o_O Oh yeah, my add is defiantly getting a revamp. When I have some more time to do so. x_x

EDIT: PS. I was sort of hoping it was the latter... cause then I could think of you with cum on yer face. :devil:
 
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As to you! This is what I'm seeing. You're not sure, that's ok... yet think about what you're doing. You're asking for someone to be your Master. Is that not a serious thing....? Yet you want it to be fairly casual. At least to start.
I'm not asking anyone to be my Master. I'm asking someone to help me explore my submissive side. If the relationship gets serious, then I will hope to be allowed to consider him my Master, if it's appropriate. But, for now, no, a Master is not what I'm essentially looking for.

What you want. You'll get. It really is that simple. You want someone that isn't the closest thing to an ideal dom (for you). Then you'll get him, and when shit hit's the fan.... it's what you set up for yourself.
What do you mean? Clarify.

One thing that I've noticed is a subbie has an amazing way of getting attached to their dom.
Well, yeah. That would be easy to do, wouldn't it? It's sort of like having a father-figure, someone that looks out for you and your best interests. A dom should get to know and appreciate the sub's needs, reactions, and wants. Any woman - or man, for that matter - would become attatched to a figure that considers them in that way. It's a very intimate relationship.


EDIT: PS. I was sort of hoping it was the latter... cause then I could think of you with cum on yer face. :devil:
Cum on my face? Go ahead, imagine. I'd like you to.

Amy
 
I'm not asking anyone to be my Master. I'm asking someone to help me explore my submissive side. If the relationship gets serious, then I will hope to be allowed to consider him my Master, if it's appropriate. But, for now, no, a Master is not what I'm essentially looking for.

Fair enough. Yet if exploring your submissive side is all you were after, the BDSM forum has a fuck ton of great tools to explore on that level. It's not the only way, but for the sake of exploration... it's an option.

What do you mean? Clarify.
If you go for someone just to train you that's all you'll get. And if that's really what you want, then great! If you want a boy friend, and that's really what you want... that's what you'll get. I'm just saying be clear in what you want, and get it.

Well, yeah. That would be easy to do, wouldn't it? It's sort of like having a father-figure, someone that looks out for you and your best interests. A dom should get to know and appreciate the sub's needs, reactions, and wants. Any woman - or man, for that matter - would become attatched to a figure that considers them in that way. It's a very intimate relationship.

Bingo. So a very intimate school teacher? That's what I'm hearing you ask for... does that make sense? On one had it's a detached thing, on the other it's very intimate... it can't really be both. Unless you met the old me ;)

Cum on my face? Go ahead, imagine. I'd like you to.
With pleasure. Most, if not all, mine I'm sure. ;)

Raul
 
Raul,

Fair enough. Yet if exploring your submissive side is all you were after, the BDSM forum has a fuck ton of great tools to explore on that level. It's not the only way, but for the sake of exploration... it's an option.
To clarify, I want a person to help me explore.


If you go for someone just to train you that's all you'll get. And if that's really what you want, then great! If you want a boy friend, and that's really what you want... that's what you'll get. I'm just saying be clear in what you want, and get it.
Oh, I know. Maybe I'm not completely sure what I want and am hoping it will pop up if I make an attempt to explain what I want, even if it's not completely accurate. I'm as accurate about my wants as I can be right now.


Bingo. So a very intimate school teacher? That's what I'm hearing you ask for... does that make sense? On one had it's a detached thing, on the other it's very intimate... it can't really be both. Unless you met the old me ;)
I think that about hits the nail on the head. (I really don't think I've ever used that phrase before. o.o) And is it not possible to be intimate yet retain a certain amount of detatchment?

Amy
 
You would definitely be a treasure for the right Dom because you have the strength to state exactly what you want. Best of luck! :)
 
itsonlydisco said:
Hey everyone,
Spanking is essential.

I’m loyal and very obedient to the best of my ability, but I lack training. I’m eager to learn and please. I will prove myself to you.

I know my age is really close to the legal tender cut-off, but if you are an older man (30-40) and age does not bother you, please consider this post. While I do act like a young girl sometimes, I’m not a completely senseless teenager.
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Having reread your initial post, some of your comments are consistent with a variant of D/s. Perhaps this may be of interest to you, Amy. https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=519194
 
Amy - I read your thread with great interest. I have been searching for a sub for a while, but it sees like you more than fit what I have been looking for. I would love to chat with you and maybe take this further..

Please look at my ad HERE to see if you are interested in taking this further.

Nax
 
Being an INTP (sometimes that T switches to an F) you seem quite intriguing. If I weren't 24... Heh. Good luck, and remember to trust your gut.
 
Howdy Amy,

Well if you still care for my point of view. Here I am.

To clarify, I want a person to help me explore.
To clarify, I wasn't suggesting you didn't. ;) Obviously you wanted a person, that's why we're in the personals. :eek: My point is that there are other vehicles to get the knowledge you seek... or at least some of it. So what I'm hearing is, "I want a personal relationship of exploration.... with no strings necessarily attached." I might be wrong in that assessment, but it's what I'm hearing. Please correct me if I'm wrong.

Oh, I know. Maybe I'm not completely sure what I want and am hoping it will pop up if I make an attempt to explain what I want, even if it's not completely accurate. I'm as accurate about my wants as I can be right now.
Welcome to my world sunshine. We all have wants, needs, and desires. Yet a lot of the time we don't know what they are... and when we do, we don't know how to get them. The main reason I bring this up with you, is to challenge you to find out what it is you want... in our dialog it seems that it's becoming just a little bit clearer. Maybe, maybe not. In any case it's been food for thought. (Or at least I hope it has been, and if so. Mission accomplished there.)

I think that about hits the nail on the head. (I really don't think I've ever used that phrase before. o.o) And is it not possible to be intimate yet retain a certain amount of detatchment?

Heh, some interesting points you bring up. If you met me 2 weeks ago, I would have said yes. On top of that... I would have offered to give you JUST THAT. Here is where my experience changes. Relationships in general require trust, BDSM included. If the trust is not there you aren't really giving yourself to that person. It's something that is evident on both sides of the spectrum. So in the end if someone on either side isn't bringing 100%... someone looses. Many times, it's both parties. Naturally there are exceptions to the rules. But I'm talking odds here, and odds are that a genuine match for mutual, intimate disinterest exist are rather low. :p (I'm trademarking that term by the way)

Now you've gone and made me jabber away like a crazy person again. >_<

Sooooo.... ummm

*cough*

hai2u wud u liek to pm m3!!shiftonefuckiteleveneven!11

zomg i r hav funnay :catroar:

Raul
 
Alright, I've been reading through the thread and...

It -is- possible to see someone who's both instructional, exploratory, caring, etc, but not looking for a lifetime commitment.

My most enjoyable relationships have always been with women where we both enjoy BDSM, sex, cuddling, and blunt honesty, want to be with each other, but aren't looking to turn it into a marriage or anything like that.

We cared for each other, wanted each other to be happy and enjoy themselves, and wanted to teach -each other- anything we could. Those were the best times I can remember.

All that said, I think we all, eventually, want to find someone we can rely on. Some of us don't think it has to be limited to one person (I am at least polysexual if not polyamorous) but BDSM is very intimate, done right, and you will get attached quite easily.
 
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I am new to this board but have many years of experience. I appreciate all that you said and think I can fill your needs.

I wont try to convince you here that by serving me will fill your needs. PM me and find out yourself with an exchange of questions and views.

M
 
Moleculor said:
Alright, I've been reading through the thread and...

It -is- possible to see someone who's both instructional, exploratory, caring, etc, but not looking for a lifetime commitment.

My most enjoyable relationships have always been with women where we both enjoy BDSM, sex, cuddling, and blunt honesty, want to be with each other, but aren't looking to turn it into a marriage or anything like that.

We cared for each other, wanted each other to be happy and enjoy themselves, and wanted to teach -each other- anything we could. Those were the best times I can remember.

All that said, I think we all, eventually, want to find someone we can rely on. Some of us don't think it has to be limited to one person (I am at least polysexual if not polyamorous) but BDSM is very intimate, done right, and you will get attached quite easily.
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Thank you for sharing this.

You brought up some very good points. The most important one is that intimate is not the same as marriage.

Even if you're not planning on getting married though, you've at the very least made a friend. Someone you can trust and depend on. But you said it... WE WE WE. It was mutual. Perhaps finding that match isn't as rare as I think, or you've just been rather lucky. :p

Back to my school teacher analogy for a second. Some teachers really cared about you as a person. Not just what you were learning. Those were intimate relationships, perhaps you trusted that teacher more than your parents. You'll always hold that teacher high in your heart and memories. The clinical detachment isn't really needed.

Is that what's going to make you happy? Class A with Dr. I don't give a shit.... but you're still learning! or Class B with Mr. Friend. Learning having fun.

Each choice is valid, but it is as always your choice. Kind of falls back on when I said "What you want, is what you'll get" If one of those will make you happier than the other... then trust yourself and go with that and find it.

I'm sure I have a point somewhere here... Ah yes. The whole reason behind my wild tangent. I've not even fully realized it until I forced myself just now to find out what the fuck my point is. XD

itsonlydisco said:
I love to worship cock and spoil my lover. I love to be used, but I still like to cuddle sometimes. I love to kiss and be kissed. Spanking is essential. I prefer to call you Master or Sir.

I’m loyal and very obedient to the best of my ability, but I lack training. I’m eager to learn and please. I will prove myself to you.
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You like to be used... here is a great opportunity to be used. :D Yet it's not all you want. You do want to learn, and when I read this. My mind instantly thought, "Is her desire to be used and to learn SOOOOO bad that she'll neglect the other things she so obviously wants?"

I don't know. Maybe I'm the only one that read that, that way. Perhaps I'm full of shit. I don't know. At least you're aware of what I think. What you do with it is up to you.

I'm sure you've had a very wide variety of suitors. Some you knew all they wanted was to use you, others are more intellectual, and some may even be friendly. It's been my hope that you not only chase what you want, but also what you need. They don't have to be mutually exclusive.

Here is where it gets fun. For me anyways. We can continue this dialog here. You've read my ad, and know a little bit more about how my mind works and who I am. Or you can pm me and we can continue there. Hell why the fuck not, you can also PM me and continue this dialog here anyways, with no one but you and I the wiser. Or you can ignore me all together. I'm sure there are options I am missing, but this post is long enough as is. :eek: Just.... do it. Trust your gut.

Raul
 
Moleculor said:
Being an INTP (sometimes that T switches to an F) you seem quite intriguing. If I weren't 24... Heh. Good luck, and remember to trust your gut.
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:) Thank you! :kiss: Amy
 
naxalite0906 said:
Amy - I read your thread with great interest. I have been searching for a sub for a while, but it sees like you more than fit what I have been looking for. I would love to chat with you and maybe take this further..

Please look at my ad HERE to see if you are interested in taking this further.

Nax
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Thank you for the interest. :rose: Amy
 
retsam6 said:
I am new to this board but have many years of experience. I appreciate all that you said and think I can fill your needs.

I wont try to convince you here that by serving me will fill your needs. PM me and find out yourself with an exchange of questions and views.

M
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Thank you for the interest. :) Amy
 
Hope your doing well and finding many interesting friends and conversations. If you care to chat with a 27 year old Dom, feel free to drop a pm.
I wish to know more about you not just as a Dom but a person. Hopefully we'll enjoy each other's company and see where it leads.
 
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