Young Female Sub Looking For a Male Dom

[UhOhItsMerci]

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I'm a 20 year old bbw sub, please don't mistake my youth for ignorance. I know, what I want and I know what I need. I desire a True Dom, an Alpha male. I desire to be taken, used and cared for. Maybe DaddyDom who may have a slight sadistic streak?? Nothing too crazy though. I'm Looking for a relationship with the kink. I want to get to know you and I want to trust you completely. I can be bratty and coy, I like to tease and I'm also extremely cheeky. If your not a true Dom, it will be very obvious to me and I will be reluctant to submit to you. I'm very strong willed, I'm very in control of my life, I'm educated and independent. With that just said, I seek guidance, and discipline but most importantly I seek lack of control; I want someone to tame me in a sense. I know My submission is a gift, and you need to believe that also. I won't be taken for granted. I'm not looking for a change in lifestyle, but I think I eventually might want to work my way up to it. I'm Looking for an Experienced Dom, One that can be caring but stern. I'm looking to start online and in the future move to real time; So I'm Preferably looking for someone in the PA/Ny/NJ/De area. I'm looking for someone between the ages of 25-35. Though this doesn't eliminate anyone below or above the ages stated. Your Personality and wit determines all. If your looking for a role play buddy, or living porn. Don't patronize or insult me by responding to this. I will not allow myself to be used, especially not by a wannabe. Pm me first if interested, Well written and thought out messages will be made priority. Please show your intelligence, an Intelligent male is an attractive one. If you can't stimulate my mind, you won't be able to stimulate my lady parts. Do not half ass your response, I'm very serious and you should be too. I want us to be friends, Lovers and Companions. If that's not something your ready for or can handle, Please look elsewhere. Also one last thing, no married men; That's nonnegotiable. Ask All questions Via Pm I Look Forward to corresponding with you

Also know that I'm looking to take things slow. I tried the fast approach and well as you see Im back here searching again!

Also if you didn't read this whole post. Dont bother contacting me
Toodles ​

 

[weasel1986]

PM sent.

 

[weasel1986]

For all of you still interested, she belongs to me now. Please stop messaging her looking for a hookup.

 

[Enji]

lol don't reply if you do you just bump it to the top..the easiest thing to do would be to ask your sub to edit her thread to closed enjoy

 

[UhOhItsMerci]

Bumpity Bump Bump

 

[Primalex]

Please show your intelligence

Ladies first.

 

[UhOhItsMerci]

oh Alex I'm already used to your bluntness.
Though I've never spoken to you,
I am extremely surprised to see your post here.

Thanks for the Bump

 

[geekmaster24]

Sent you a pm....

 

[Primalex]

oh Alex I'm already used to your bluntness.
Though I've never spoken to you,
I am extremely surprised to see your post here.

This was the best you could do to show a sign of intelligence?

So, let's sum it up:
You are fat, dumb, bratty and cheeky and god's gift for any true Dom and a true Dom is one, who has the desire to work his off to please you. The only interesting thing you can offer is a pussy and tits, which are very very far away though, unless the guy spends three years supplying roleplay sex food for you.

Did I sum this up properly?


That was a rhetorical question, I know I did.

 

[Primalex]

And as today is the Primalex-writes-something-helpful-day:

Submission is not a gift for the Dom and dominance is not a gift for the sub. A working relationship consists of people on par with each other. If you think your future partner has to prove that he is worthy of your attention, it will last about as long as the last one you had. Finding a dominant person for a relationship is foremost finding the right person for a relationship and THEN maybe it's about dominance and submission.

 

[UhOhItsMerci]

Oh Alex, you couldn't be more wrong; I not fat nor am I Dumb.
I don't think I'm Gods gift for anyone. Though you seem to think your all knowing. You also have a penchant for assuming and making an ass of yourself while making it known how much of a prick you are. 3 years? You pulled that time denomination out of your ass.

Also this is worth noting, anything that Primalex writes can never be "helpful". Your always too busy being condescending and ignorant for anything you write to be categorized as anything close to useful.

YOU might not think that a sub's submission is a gift to their Dom; which is dandy fine with me. One of your character is not someone I would ever submit to. You don't seem to deserve that kind of respect. The right Man for ME will cherish my submission, just as I will cherish his dominance over me.

My "future partner" doesn't have to prove himself "worthy" of my attention. But he does have to prove himself as a Dom. I'm tired of getting messages from posers saying " Bitch you are mine, now bend over and take it like the sub whore you are", give me a break. From the ignorance that you've demonstrated that seems like something you're capable of though .

And you "Sir" must be terrible at reading or reading comprehension. Because I do know that the relationship aspect comes before the kink. thus why i wrote in my first post

I'm Looking for a relationship with the kink.​

You must have skimmed over that


Please take your arrogance and "all knowing" elsewhere, I'm not interested in proving myself to you nor do I respect you.'

You're not being helpful, you're not being insightful. You're just rude.

If you have anything else to say to me, instead of trying to make yourself seem "macho & cool" in front of Lit's audience. Please do yourself a favor and Pm me.

 

[Primalex]

Oh Alex, you couldn't be more wrong; I not fat nor am I Dumb.

It's not Alex. I thought educated people have at least basic knowledge in the most important dead language.

I don't think I'm Gods gift for anyone.

Yes, you do.

No, I don't.

Yes, you do.

Now what...?

(We can skip this here and continue further down.)

Though you seem to think your all knowing. You also have a penchant for assuming and making an ass of yourself while making it known how much of a prick you are. 3 years? You pulled that time denomination out of your ass.

You caught me. I really did make up the three years. I did not have a stopwatch running. Damned, you completely foiled my attempt in making the three years look like a well-known fact.

YOU might not think that a sub's submission is a gift to their Dom; which is dandy fine with me. One of your character is not someone I would ever submit to.

And this is fine, because I completely have the right to not care if you would submit to me. I even have the right to decide that I don't want you. And you have the right to say that you don't want me. But this does not allow in any way any conclusion, whether one or the other is a better person (or Dom or sub or..).

You don't seem to deserve that kind of respect. The right Man for ME will cherish my submission, just as I will cherish his dominance over me.

Finally you write something that makes sense, although it did take a lot of effort to make you write it, so actually, I should deserve the credit for this.

And now compare:
"If your not a true Dom, it will be very obvious to me and I will be reluctant to submit to you."

versus

"The right Man for ME will cherish my submission"

And then think again about the God's gift thingie from above and why, to your surprise, I had the urge to post here in this thread. Take some time, cool down, re-read what you've written in your ad. Then...only then...reply again.

And you "Sir" must be terrible at reading or reading comprehension. Because I do know that the relationship aspect comes before the kink. thus why i wrote in my first post

You must have skimmed over that

Wow. So, 5 words about relationship topics (actually zero words about what might be important) and 150 about D/s. You are right, it's completely my fault that I didn't get that D/s was NOT the focus.

Please do yourself a favor and Pm me.

No, thank you. I prefer to write here. I believe in what I write. I don't have the urge to hide my opinion. Every reader is allowed to judge me and as I can't change their judgement, I have no other choice as to live with it. This is me, too.


(But, for the off-chance that you were not worried about my reputation but would have preferred to discuss this further with me via PM, feel free to send me your next reply as one.)

 

[strong_daddy]

I'm a 20 year old bbw sub

I not fat nor am I Dumb.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1ytCEuuW2_A

 

[UhOhItsMerci]

It's not Alex. I thought educated people have at least basic knowledge in the most important dead language.

Look I'm kinda done with this conversation. Because you only posted here because your didn't agree with what i said, which in my mindset was stupid because you weren't trying to talk to me as a Dom. Which obviously isn't the purpose of this thread. Also, i was speaking so someone on here recently and my question was about Why the people of lit can't be nice to each other on here, without condemning their thoughts and words about the type of lifestyle and people they seek. I think you should remember the saying "to each their own."
Because since you weren't looking at my thread in any type of relationship sense. I don't think it should matter what MY definition of a "true Dom" is. Just because you don't fit my standards / definition doesn't make it invalid.



You always pick on people when they don't fit your mold. So i could care less about your dead language (its dead for a reason) or anything else you have to say for the matter. You go ahead and take credit for whatever you "think" you did. Cause if anything you've just made me dislike you just a bit more. And I'm sure my disdain, wont end here; especially when I see other things you have said rudely to others. Best part is I'm actually hoping your a nice person who chooses to portray yourself as a jerk.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1ytCEuuW2_A

And this if for you "Strong" daddy....

http://youtu.be/t7Y0I91rubg

enjoy

 

[Primalex]

I don't think it should matter what MY definition of a "true Dom" is.

You are right, it doesn't matter.

It starts to matter when you pretend that your definition would hold some kind of special relevance. Or in other words, if I would have written that every submissive who doesn't strip for me isn't a true submissive, I'm quite sure submissive women would have strongly disagreed with me. Even you.