makemetick
Virgin
- Joined
- Aug 9, 2009
- Posts
- 3
Hey all.
I'm a 21-year-old female with a few years of experience in D/s. However, said experience has been only as a sub. A submissive role came easily to me, especially when I was first exploring my sexuality, and it's something I still very much enjoy.
However, in my last relationship, my boyfriend was kind of a switch. We were together a little over a year, and for the most part he was happy to take on the role of Dom in our sex life. However, there were a few times he requested I try being the dominant one. At first it was kind of awkward for me as I wasn't used to giving instruction and felt a little self-conscious. And yet, there were moments that most definitely turned me on. Seeing my boyfriend tied up and blindfolded on my bed. Teasing him slowly and denying him orgasm for a while. Making him strip for me. Listening to him beg and moan.
And what's more, outside of our sex life, I was undoubtedly the dominant one. I seem to date and feel attraction to the lost little boy type. He was older than me by two years, but I took on an almost maternal role with him. I supported him, calmed him down, felt a twinge in my heart whenever he snuggled into me, felt like I was protecting him from the world. He was far from a doormat, but I was kind of like his emotional rock, in a way. And looking back on my big crush that took place my freshman year of college (he was my best friend, and had a girlfriend, so I had to hold back), our relationship was similar, in some ways. I supported him, helped edit his papers, gave him advice, took care of him. However, unlike my ex, he turned me on because he intentionally provoked me and obviously enjoyed it. I tried to tell myself I just found him annoying, but I really got turned on by his provocations and, looking back, clearly longed to dominate him.
So, despite the fact that I'm still talking with Doms and playing as a submissive casually, I figured I'd take my new single status as an opportunity to explore the Domme side of me that might be lurking below the surface.
For this, I need a submissive male. My ideal age range would be 18-25. I'm not looking for someone without a personality who responds in only "yes" and "no". I'd love it if you were intelligent and capable of holding up a great conversation. A good sense of humor is pretty much a requirement as that's a main mode of communication for me and without it, things will probably get awkward pretty quick. I'm going to be new at all this and will probably make mistakes, so patience is a virtue, dears, as well as a willingness to communicate your preferences and whether or not I'm absolutely boring you.
Physically, I'd prefer you be in shape. I'm not talking crazy-athletic olympian shape. Just take care of yourself. Boyish figures are very much welcome. If you're somehow a virgin, or sexually inexperienced, DO APPLY. Not a requirement, certainly. Webcam, exhibitionist tendencies or interests and free time are all great things to have.
As far as my style, I don't think I'm the type to really humiliate or degrade. A little humiliation is always fun, but nothing mean-spirited. I think maternal is a good description for my approach. I want to support and engage with you, earn your admiration instead of demanding mindless fawning right off the bat. The only time I could see myself getting more demanding and confrontational is if you kind of play the insufferable wiseass because you get off on being put in your place and dominated by a woman. That could be really fun too. Really, this is all a big experiment for me, so I can only sketch a rough outline of my approach for now. I guess if I had to identify some basic interests, it would be orgasm control/denial, exhibitionism (on your part), bondage and a teensy bit of teasing-type humiliation. I think that's a good start to work towards.
I'm in the northeast US, so eastern time zone. Am a night owl and tend to have more privacy/free-time past 11 pm anyway. I'm cute, brunette, 5' 4'', average weight. Have pictures and a webcam of my own.
Hopefully that covers everything. If you have any questions and/or interest, feel free to PM me and tell me a little bit about yourself. I'm hopeful to get to talk to some great guys.
Thanks for reading, everybody.
I'm a 21-year-old female with a few years of experience in D/s. However, said experience has been only as a sub. A submissive role came easily to me, especially when I was first exploring my sexuality, and it's something I still very much enjoy.
However, in my last relationship, my boyfriend was kind of a switch. We were together a little over a year, and for the most part he was happy to take on the role of Dom in our sex life. However, there were a few times he requested I try being the dominant one. At first it was kind of awkward for me as I wasn't used to giving instruction and felt a little self-conscious. And yet, there were moments that most definitely turned me on. Seeing my boyfriend tied up and blindfolded on my bed. Teasing him slowly and denying him orgasm for a while. Making him strip for me. Listening to him beg and moan.
And what's more, outside of our sex life, I was undoubtedly the dominant one. I seem to date and feel attraction to the lost little boy type. He was older than me by two years, but I took on an almost maternal role with him. I supported him, calmed him down, felt a twinge in my heart whenever he snuggled into me, felt like I was protecting him from the world. He was far from a doormat, but I was kind of like his emotional rock, in a way. And looking back on my big crush that took place my freshman year of college (he was my best friend, and had a girlfriend, so I had to hold back), our relationship was similar, in some ways. I supported him, helped edit his papers, gave him advice, took care of him. However, unlike my ex, he turned me on because he intentionally provoked me and obviously enjoyed it. I tried to tell myself I just found him annoying, but I really got turned on by his provocations and, looking back, clearly longed to dominate him.
So, despite the fact that I'm still talking with Doms and playing as a submissive casually, I figured I'd take my new single status as an opportunity to explore the Domme side of me that might be lurking below the surface.
For this, I need a submissive male. My ideal age range would be 18-25. I'm not looking for someone without a personality who responds in only "yes" and "no". I'd love it if you were intelligent and capable of holding up a great conversation. A good sense of humor is pretty much a requirement as that's a main mode of communication for me and without it, things will probably get awkward pretty quick. I'm going to be new at all this and will probably make mistakes, so patience is a virtue, dears, as well as a willingness to communicate your preferences and whether or not I'm absolutely boring you.
Physically, I'd prefer you be in shape. I'm not talking crazy-athletic olympian shape. Just take care of yourself. Boyish figures are very much welcome. If you're somehow a virgin, or sexually inexperienced, DO APPLY. Not a requirement, certainly. Webcam, exhibitionist tendencies or interests and free time are all great things to have.As far as my style, I don't think I'm the type to really humiliate or degrade. A little humiliation is always fun, but nothing mean-spirited. I think maternal is a good description for my approach. I want to support and engage with you, earn your admiration instead of demanding mindless fawning right off the bat. The only time I could see myself getting more demanding and confrontational is if you kind of play the insufferable wiseass because you get off on being put in your place and dominated by a woman. That could be really fun too. Really, this is all a big experiment for me, so I can only sketch a rough outline of my approach for now. I guess if I had to identify some basic interests, it would be orgasm control/denial, exhibitionism (on your part), bondage and a teensy bit of teasing-type humiliation. I think that's a good start to work towards.
I'm in the northeast US, so eastern time zone. Am a night owl and tend to have more privacy/free-time past 11 pm anyway. I'm cute, brunette, 5' 4'', average weight. Have pictures and a webcam of my own.
Hopefully that covers everything. If you have any questions and/or interest, feel free to PM me and tell me a little bit about yourself. I'm hopeful to get to talk to some great guys.
Thanks for reading, everybody.
