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cymbidia
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Bunzie? If this is the Dominic i know then he's a Dominant with 30+ years of experience playing our kinds of games and he's here sort of by my invitation.
If this is the Dominic i know then he and i talked about Lit at our munch yesterday when he was trying (with only partial success, i might add - i'm not obligated togive him my truth no matter how much he tries to tease it out of me!) to get me to spill all the details of the hot little water fun i had this weekend.
There are very few people that my sub side reacts to kinda without my dierct and concious decision, you know - it's a thing i give, it doesn't just spill out of me and splash all over just anyone but it, my sub side, sorta tiptoes all around Dominic whenever i'm anywhere near him (for all that he is contentedly in a relationship and we both know that), and sorta without my even vbeing aware of it, too, until it's out there.
Anyway, Bunz, if this is my friend, you can be assured he's a good person. He's the leader of one of the three monthly munches in my area, a long long time member of national BDSM organizations (like Janus, for example, in San Francisco) and gives lectures at such places on topics like "How To Find a Good Dominant: Info for Women Just Coming to BDSM" and "What To Do If The Police Show Up At Your Door During A Party" and stuff like that.
Your protective reaction is sweet and good (and amusing), my friend. We do have such a nice little community here, don't we? Don't want uglies coming in and trying to take over, that's for sure. However, if this is the Dominic i know, then he's not an ugly. I promise.
If this is the Dominic i know then he and i talked about Lit at our munch yesterday when he was trying (with only partial success, i might add - i'm not obligated togive him my truth no matter how much he tries to tease it out of me!) to get me to spill all the details of the hot little water fun i had this weekend.
There are very few people that my sub side reacts to kinda without my dierct and concious decision, you know - it's a thing i give, it doesn't just spill out of me and splash all over just anyone but it, my sub side, sorta tiptoes all around Dominic whenever i'm anywhere near him (for all that he is contentedly in a relationship and we both know that), and sorta without my even vbeing aware of it, too, until it's out there.
Anyway, Bunz, if this is my friend, you can be assured he's a good person. He's the leader of one of the three monthly munches in my area, a long long time member of national BDSM organizations (like Janus, for example, in San Francisco) and gives lectures at such places on topics like "How To Find a Good Dominant: Info for Women Just Coming to BDSM" and "What To Do If The Police Show Up At Your Door During A Party" and stuff like that.
Your protective reaction is sweet and good (and amusing), my friend. We do have such a nice little community here, don't we? Don't want uglies coming in and trying to take over, that's for sure. However, if this is the Dominic i know, then he's not an ugly. I promise.
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Cymbidia, I reread my post and it does sound sorta protective doesn't it? Geesh...
Your Dominic, or any other Dominic, is more than welcome here. If this is your Dominic I can see I have LOTS to learn from him. I loved your description of your reaction to the power in His presence. Hell, I reacted to one little word. LOL
In His time it would be nice if Dominic would let us know something about Him. In my defense he did say test. (like that should make a difference) I guess He just got my testie, playful side. If I was ~really~ upset I would have been curt and verbos. LOL Anyway, thanks for the clairification.
...hiding my toys, hoping Dominic doesn't laugh at my puny flogger...
Your Dominic, or any other Dominic, is more than welcome here. If this is your Dominic I can see I have LOTS to learn from him. I loved your description of your reaction to the power in His presence. Hell, I reacted to one little word. LOL
In His time it would be nice if Dominic would let us know something about Him. In my defense he did say test. (like that should make a difference) I guess He just got my testie, playful side. If I was ~really~ upset I would have been curt and verbos. LOL Anyway, thanks for the clairification.
...hiding my toys, hoping Dominic doesn't laugh at my puny flogger...
It was protective HotXBunz but very sweet.
Hey its amazing what a difference a few words can make, when I first read the post I dismissed it as another newbie trying their feet in the online world using a tagline to get our interest.
Fine no problem we often like to test things before we jump right in there. After reading Cym's post though, my word what a different reaction - I could see a masterful Dom, curt and to the point giving instructions to all us subbies out there - now I am eaten up with curiuosity - is this the Dominic Cym knows? pray tell
Hey its amazing what a difference a few words can make, when I first read the post I dismissed it as another newbie trying their feet in the online world using a tagline to get our interest.
Fine no problem we often like to test things before we jump right in there. After reading Cym's post though, my word what a different reaction - I could see a masterful Dom, curt and to the point giving instructions to all us subbies out there - now I am eaten up with curiuosity - is this the Dominic Cym knows? pray tell
Petrel, After Cymbidia's post I felt silly. The funny thing is when I first posted I was in a very playful mood. Not really defensive, just playful and full of myself. It DID NOT come across that way and I can see how. I was also taking her lead. What I got out of her post was
playful but instructional.
I envy Cymbidia's opportunity to know someone who is so knowledgable and powerful in her eyes and find her protectiveness over him touching as well. I hope he accepts her invite and joins our group as a member not as a Master. None of the other Dom/Dommes play that here.
playful but instructional.
I envy Cymbidia's opportunity to know someone who is so knowledgable and powerful in her eyes and find her protectiveness over him touching as well. I hope he accepts her invite and joins our group as a member not as a Master. None of the other Dom/Dommes play that here.
cymbidia
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Bunz, no one from my day-to-day life would join here, or even cruise through on occasion, and play head trips on us. Every single one of them are completely enmeshed in the world of sensate BDSM - in other words, they are most definitely not on-line players. Most of them don't spend much time online, either.
Two people from my local munch group have already posted here, Glaive37 (39? 30-something...) and btmbob. I know more have looked in. I'm constantly talking about the place, how could they not?
I'm going email Dominic and link this thread and ask him outright if he posted the initial post. Course, he may not answer me; he seems to have rather selective vision/hearing regarding some of my occasional questions.
Two people from my local munch group have already posted here, Glaive37 (39? 30-something...) and btmbob. I know more have looked in. I'm constantly talking about the place, how could they not?
I'm going email Dominic and link this thread and ask him outright if he posted the initial post. Course, he may not answer me; he seems to have rather selective vision/hearing regarding some of my occasional questions.
cymbidia
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Just so y'all know...
Soooooooooo, i emailed Dominic and asked him outright if it was he who made this thread-starting post. He said
Dominants.
Man.
Headstrong lot.
Soooooooooo, i emailed Dominic and asked him outright if it was he who made this thread-starting post. He said
To which i asked him to return here and post again, verifying his identity - but he hasn't. Yet.
Dominants.
Man.
Headstrong lot.
