you ever have this problem?

[little_dragon]

So you like someone, like really, but they aren't gay or bi. What do you do...? Or, you wanna find someone who is gay, but you don't want to make a fool of yourself by asking---then what do you do? I just wanna be able to hold someone again and protect them, etc....but it looks as if no one's out there that I can care about! Sure.....there are some girls who are into me, but they just aren't my type. Sigh. Any suggestions?

Little Dragon

 

[bisexplicit]

What about going to a gay/lesbian bar (or function, or event), so that you're sure that most people who are there are GLBT (if you're really that nervous)?

 

[little_dragon]

I would if I could, but currently I can't, lol. So I guess I should just wait...but being alone sucks.

 

[bisexplicit]

Would GLBT personals online work for you?

 

[little_dragon]

Maybe....but I still live with the rents, so.....ugh. And mom isn't so keen on me being bi. And I guess in sayin that, I could go for a guy, but...it just isn't the same.

 

[Xelebes]

So... you're like 18/19 living at home?

 

[little_dragon]

Yeah.

::edit::
I mean, ok, so I'll be out soon.....but....still. Maybe I'm just a hopeless bi romantic, lol.

 

[Xelebes]

Similar situation here, except 20 and hopefully moving out. Though not too keen on going out with someone yet. I'm keeping it straight for now, deviating later.

 

[little_dragon]

Sounds cool and easy in a post....but isn't that painful to wait?

 

[bisexplicit]

So, actually, you couldn't really have a (bisexual) relationship at all?

Then, it doesn't really matter if you can't tell if people are GLBT or not.

 

[little_dragon]

Yeah....you got a point there, rofl.

But realizing that I want to be with a girl and then not having that "chance" sucks.

 

[Xelebes]

Sounds cool and easy in a post....but isn't that painful to wait?

Not really. It's has only been recent my realisation of it so no realwait has been made.

 

[little_dragon]

Ah, I see. I've been with two girls already....one who I really liked--but I think she thought I was too loyal---and another one who just wanted me because everyone else did.

...too bad I don't want to get with "everyone else", lol.

 

[Etoile]

Too loyal?

 

[little_dragon]

Yeah......I'm too commited or some shit like that. Not that I wasn't fun....and I wasn't the overly jealous type.....so I really don't know what her problem was, and she never told me.

 

[Etoile]

Yikes, that's a pretty harsh reason to dump someone. It happens a lot at your age though - some people, like you (and me when I was your age) are ready for and prefer committed relationships. Other people, like your ex-girlfriend, aren't ready to settle down yet.

 

[little_dragon]

Sigh. She was cute, too. Hopefully once I get into college I can find someone.

 

[PredatorSmile]

Yeah, I once had a crush on a tall, butch-looking girl who played rugby. We became pals. I thought she was a dyke for sure. Nope. She had a crush on my brother and she freaked out when I tried to kiss her. Gave me a black eye, too. Yeah, you can't tell who's what these days.

 

[little_dragon]

Yeah, I once had a crush on a tall, butch-looking girl who played rugby. We became pals. I thought she was a dyke for sure. Nope. She had a crush on my brother and she freaked out when I tried to kiss her. Gave me a black eye, too. Yeah, you can't tell who's what these days.

Amen....I wish there was an easier way....

Oh? She did!? Wow......*hugs* thats gotta suck big.

 

[PredatorSmile]

Yep. My only consolation is that my beloved bro wouldn't go out with any woman who hurts his sister. No matter how tempting. Hmm, come to think of it, both me and my brothers have a thing for butchy, masculine-looking women. Think it's a genetic family thing >?

 

[little_dragon]

LOL might be......

I wish my bro would understand (does yours? I don't want to assume anything )...but he's sooo "anti" homo....not in a big way, but it's there.

 

[Chicklet]

My school had a Gay/straight alliance club, with lots of members. Maybe your highschool has the same? If not, your college probably will, and that could be a good way to meet some people before you're old enough to hang out in the bars.

 

[PredatorSmile]

Yeah, my bro is cool with it. So's my dad. It's my stepmother who's the religious freakazoid.

 

[CuriousNiceGuy]

Yikes, that's a pretty harsh reason to dump someone. It happens a lot at your age though - some people, like you (and me when I was your age) are ready for and prefer committed relationships. Other people, like your ex-girlfriend, aren't ready to settle down yet.

I HATE it when this happens..
I'm can feel that longterm relationships are the only way for me, but I'm still in my twenties and everybody around me is so one-night-stand-ish(It really isn't a word..)
Btw, Etoile happy to see you again! I haven't posted for a while.

 

[Etoile]

Hi CNG