I am a mature married male (M3) as some might want to refer to me and I have been around the Online Forum World since its inception and have watched its transition, read positings, and posted many myself; many of which were ignored, made fun of, critized, removed, while many of which were responded to by thoughtful, caring, empathetic, and emotionally stable (or so it appeared) respondents...
For those of you who want to review my comments and postings please do so as it might give you a better understanding of who I am...
It is difficult to post a thread and say that I am this way or that way because I am curious about so many areas that I do not want to limit myself to just one area. For instance:
I am interested in having bi experiences both with males and couples
I am interested in experiencing D/s and BDSM experiences as a Switch
I am interested in meeting an individual (female preferred) or a couple who will guide me through some of my fantasies with thoughtful understanding
I am interested in just watching
I am interested in exploring aspects of semi-public nudity or flashing in the car
I am interested in golden showers
I am interested in dogging
I am interested in online collaboration of erotic stories



I am interested in exploring discreet relationships with a CD
I like the idea of being dominated by a female (never a male) and I think that is because I dominate (manage) at work all the time that it would be nice to be on the other side of the process and see what that experience is like...
When I was young or younger, I was interested in myself and one-night stands and wham bam thank your mam types of experiences before the onset of AIDS and it was a purely ego building experience
But, as one matures, one realizes that there is more to it than that both inside and outside of marriage... For years, affairs have been taken place at all levels of society because the spouse needs more than the partner is willing to provide but does not want to ruin the security of the marriage in the process. We have seen this from President Clinton on down to the man-in-the street.
We have webpages after webpages for people who are in this frame of mind, like: silverdaddies, collarme, altcom, adultfriendfinder, swinginglifestyle, etc., all of which not only promote this kind of behavior but charge a fee in the process, which is all fine and good as this is a nation of small business economics...... But, why should one pay for it when there are so many out there who want to have the experience or the fulfillment of the fantasy and do not want to pay either...
Hence, the purpose of this posting thread.....
I am located in the northeast corridor of East TN that one could say stretches from Greeneville down to Knoxville and maybe a little beyond say to Loudon and them widens out to the Sevierville area and Rogersville and all points in between.....
I would like to meet couples, females, and select males so that we can trusting, discreet relationships while we explore mutually agreed upon facets of our fantasies without drama or ego trips. I would like to be put in touch with people who could help me if individuals do not want to get personally involved. Needless to say, developing these relationship works best with co-workers or people with whom one socializes in clubs and groups but oftentimes that is risky and taboo, especially if one needs to discipline equally at work... so, new relationship I believe is more appropriate here....
If you know someone, yourself or someone else, who you think might be interested in this type of activity exploration, please contact me and I will contact them or have them contact me at aledon05 and then that would need to be sent to gmail and do not forget to put a dot com at the end....
I know some of you are going to comment both positively and negatively in reagrds to this posting and that is fine and those comments will be read even though I may elect not to respond, but that is not the intent of this posting. I am trying to find, locate and hook up with people (via email and then in person perhaps) who are are like minds in this area.
Thanking all of you in advance for your help......
For those of you who want to review my comments and postings please do so as it might give you a better understanding of who I am...
It is difficult to post a thread and say that I am this way or that way because I am curious about so many areas that I do not want to limit myself to just one area. For instance:
I am interested in having bi experiences both with males and couples
I am interested in experiencing D/s and BDSM experiences as a Switch
I am interested in meeting an individual (female preferred) or a couple who will guide me through some of my fantasies with thoughtful understanding
I am interested in just watching
I am interested in exploring aspects of semi-public nudity or flashing in the car
I am interested in golden showers
I am interested in dogging
I am interested in online collaboration of erotic stories


I am interested in exploring discreet relationships with a CD

I like the idea of being dominated by a female (never a male) and I think that is because I dominate (manage) at work all the time that it would be nice to be on the other side of the process and see what that experience is like...
When I was young or younger, I was interested in myself and one-night stands and wham bam thank your mam types of experiences before the onset of AIDS and it was a purely ego building experience
But, as one matures, one realizes that there is more to it than that both inside and outside of marriage... For years, affairs have been taken place at all levels of society because the spouse needs more than the partner is willing to provide but does not want to ruin the security of the marriage in the process. We have seen this from President Clinton on down to the man-in-the street.
We have webpages after webpages for people who are in this frame of mind, like: silverdaddies, collarme, altcom, adultfriendfinder, swinginglifestyle, etc., all of which not only promote this kind of behavior but charge a fee in the process, which is all fine and good as this is a nation of small business economics...... But, why should one pay for it when there are so many out there who want to have the experience or the fulfillment of the fantasy and do not want to pay either...
Hence, the purpose of this posting thread.....
I am located in the northeast corridor of East TN that one could say stretches from Greeneville down to Knoxville and maybe a little beyond say to Loudon and them widens out to the Sevierville area and Rogersville and all points in between.....
I would like to meet couples, females, and select males so that we can trusting, discreet relationships while we explore mutually agreed upon facets of our fantasies without drama or ego trips. I would like to be put in touch with people who could help me if individuals do not want to get personally involved. Needless to say, developing these relationship works best with co-workers or people with whom one socializes in clubs and groups but oftentimes that is risky and taboo, especially if one needs to discipline equally at work... so, new relationship I believe is more appropriate here....
If you know someone, yourself or someone else, who you think might be interested in this type of activity exploration, please contact me and I will contact them or have them contact me at aledon05 and then that would need to be sent to gmail and do not forget to put a dot com at the end....
I know some of you are going to comment both positively and negatively in reagrds to this posting and that is fine and those comments will be read even though I may elect not to respond, but that is not the intent of this posting. I am trying to find, locate and hook up with people (via email and then in person perhaps) who are are like minds in this area.
Thanking all of you in advance for your help......