You can now call me the bionic single Dom

[Richard49]

At what point do you release her?

At what point does she ask for release?

At what point does everyone just admit that there is no and never was a D/s relationship?

 

[Rosie_Riveter]

I'm sorry.

 

[Richard49]

It sure is dusty here

no coffee or sweet rolls
man what's a Dom to do <smile>

Lots has happened
brats hubby almost dies
it is doing better now and is working
but still needs another surgery

her youngest son was arrested last night for something he did 2 years ago

She and I see each other when we can

health wise my general health is better than it has been in several years

I am headed to Ann Arbor next week for some test
I think part of it is for evaluation for heart reduction surgery

yup I am still alive
spring is sort of here

( there was a rumor that Father Winter and mother Nature were having an affair and he was not excited about it ending )

Each year the VFW ( veterans of Forieghn Wars )
that be me amount a couple of million
anywho
we pass out Buddy Poppys to help people
remember what Memorail Day is really about
and any donations we collect go to help disadvantage veterans and there families.....

I did 3 four hour shifts
thrusday,friday and satuday

I was verbal accosted Thrusday and Friday
they said they would not help veterans because they did not believe in the war
Satuday I was accosted verbal twice and physically once
the person who physical acostd me said "I was shame to my country"
later at a local restrsunt a guy said he wanted to run over the guys "selling" poppys

I am mental and emotional back to 1969 when I returned from VN and was told I was a baby killer

 

[FurryFury]

I'm glad you are feeling better, Brat and her husband are doing better but sorry people are so confrontational, and rude to vets.

 

[Richard49]

I'm glad you are feeling better, Brat and her husband are doing better but sorry people are so confrontational, and rude to vets.

Thank you

I posted it ... why did I post that event ... cause
I am tired of people abusing us veterans ... I oppose the war also ... but I do not leave my fellow veterans behind

( psst want to cum kiss my boo boos? )

 

[Richard49]

brat's life is being turned upside down in many ways
one is that her youngest son is in jail
may be there for many years

I just got back from trip to Ann Arbor VA
results of tests were not great
actually for the most part rather bad

but I refuse to die
won't do it
nope

 

[Richard49]

thought I would drop in for a sweet roll and coffee
but does not appear to be either

 

[rida]

Sorry to hear about the problems in Brat's life and your health condition.
Good vibes to you both.

And here are some sweet rolls and coffee in a thermic pot for your next visit

 

[Richard49]

Well well well
coffee and sweet rolls

Maybe I will kick back and stay a while
Tell me about yourself rida

 

[rida]

Well well well
coffee and sweet rolls

Maybe I will kick back and stay a while
Tell me about yourself rida

Well ... nothing much to say
I'm married (open to poly), trying to find where I stand in the BDSM & power exchange relationship dynamics, juggling everyday life commitments with desires and needs and overall trying to be the best person I can be (but failing more often than not)

 

[Richard49]

Well ... nothing much to say
I'm married (open to poly), trying to find where I stand in the BDSM & power exchange relationship dynamics, juggling everyday life commitments with desires and needs and overall trying to be the best person I can be (but failing more often than not)

IMHO a Dom's role is to assit his submissive to be all she can be

As to where you fall in the power exchange ...
what gives you the most left short term?
How about longer term?

Would you get me another cup of coffee,please.

Which of your pictures would you want me to most see?

 

[rida]

IMHO a Dom's role is to assit his submissive to be all she can be

As to where you fall in the power exchange ...
what gives you the most left short term?
How about longer term?

Would you get me another cup of coffee,please.

Which of your pictures would you want me to most see?

*gets another cup of coffee from the pot and pass it over*

I'm very lucky that Hubby is totally supportive. He is also exploring his Dominant side with me, and also letting me explore outside as well.

As for your question on the power exchange ... well, there is the ideal and then there is reality with the limitation imposed by life commitments. So short term I am doing a lot of reading up & thinking, and some RL bottoming/submitting. As for long term ... will see where the journey will bring me/us.

As for which pictures I think you would like ... mmmm ... the kimono series are usually appreciated by the Dominant types

 

[Richard49]

*gets another cup of coffee from the pot and pass it over*

I'm very lucky that Hubby is totally supportive. He is also exploring his Dominant side with me, and also letting me explore outside as well.

As for your question on the power exchange ... well, there is the ideal and then there is reality with the limitation imposed by life commitments. So short term I am doing a lot of reading up & thinking, and some RL bottoming/submitting. As for long term ... will see where the journey will bring me/us.

As for which pictures I think you would like ... mmmm ... the kimono series are usually appreciated by the Dominant types

Thank you for the coffee

cum set here by my feet
I think you will like the following post

 

[Richard49]

My variety (sp) of D/s includes s/m
To me there is only one thing more beautiful than a submissive
in subspace ..... she glows and is so tranqauil ...
the one thing more is when she cums well in subspace

the brat,Mr Belt and I had a s/m session
she goes into subspace so quickly
this time she went deeper than ever before
and stayed there longer than ever ...

she had many cums

I almost went into Dom space

The day was good

that was a couple of days ago
her mood has been wonderful since

she tells me her nipples and ass are in the reminder mode

 

[Kierae]

~hugs Richard. Good to see you back around the boards (and good to see brat is still around too!).

 

[rida]

Thank you for sharing!

I love the remainder feeling afterwards.
But alas, the belt has not sent me in subspace yet, let alone made me cum.
I'm still at the beginning of my learning in dealing with pain.

No hurry thou, I'm enjoying the journey.

 

[Richard49]

~hugs Richard. Good to see you back around the boards (and good to see brat is still around too!).

Hello there swet one

Want to join us for coffee and conversation?

 

[Richard49]

Thank you for sharing!

I love the remainder feeling afterwards.
But alas, the belt has not sent me in subspace yet, let alone made me cum.
I'm still at the beginning of my learning in dealing with pain.

No hurry thou, I'm enjoying the journey.

What have you found takes you to subspace?

deal with pain?
not all submissives are into pain for it's pleasure
for some it is only part of punishment

 

[rida]

What have you found takes you to subspace?

deal with pain?
not all submissives are into pain for it's pleasure
for some it is only part of punishment

What have I found that takes me into subspace?
It has happened only a couple of times, and both times clothespin/clamps where involved. Dealing with the pain of the clamps and getting to suck on a cock seems to be the fastest way.

Yes, pain is not pleasurable for me. At least not yet. Pain is something I endure for my Dominant's pleasure. And there is nothing that pleases me more than pleasing him.

As for punishment, there is no bigger punishment than failing to please him.

 

[Richard49]

What have I found that takes me into subspace?
It has happened only a couple of times, and both times clothespin/clamps where involved. Dealing with the pain of the clamps and getting to suck on a cock seems to be the fastest way.

Yes, pain is not pleasurable for me. At least not yet. Pain is something I endure for my Dominant's pleasure. And there is nothing that pleases me more than pleasing him.

As for punishment, there is no bigger punishment than failing to please him.

Would you consider cloths pins pain?

Was that sucking a cock while you had cloths pins attached to you?

I assume we are talking clothspins on your nipples...????

 

[wanderingbrat]

*peeks in* wow Here is where the coffee is..

 

[Richard49]

*peeks in* wow Here is where the coffee is..

Welcome home brat

 

[rida]

*get some more coffee brewing and few extra cups*

Would you consider cloths pins pain?

Was that sucking a cock while you had cloths pins attached to you?

I assume we are talking clothspins on your nipples...????

I know many consider clothespins and clamps just sensation. But to me, especially the butterfly clamps, are painful.
It is just a different kind of pain than the one from a belt, or any other impact object. Impact pain is sharp and instantaneous ... the clamps instead is a continuously building up one.

Yes, they where attached to me: on my nipples/breasts mostly, but also on my picky bits once or twice.

And when they get released ... the surge of blinding pain just brings me back in a screaming melting heap.

Yes, I love and hate them at the same time ...

 

[Bachlum Chaam]

Hello Richard I'm glad you haven't croaked mate its been a long time since I visitd here

Look after yourself

 

[Richard49]

*get some more coffee brewing and few extra cups*



I know many consider clothespins and clamps just sensation. But to me, especially the butterfly clamps, are painful.
It is just a different kind of pain than the one from a belt, or any other impact object. Impact pain is sharp and instantaneous ... the clamps instead is a continuously building up one.

Yes, they where attached to me: on my nipples/breasts mostly, but also on my picky bits once or twice.

And when they get released ... the surge of blinding pain just brings me back in a screaming melting heap.

Yes, I love and hate them at the same time ...

pass the coffee please ....

I will not mention specfic whos
but I know several that can and do both cum and go to subspace from nipple pain ... I know some who go to subspace well sucking cock ....\
what takes one to subspace and not another?
Who knows?
What brings one to a cum and not another?
Who knows?

But
(psst I think this is important)
What makes ( in terms of behavors ) the submissive feel owned and the Dom feel like the owner needs to be built on.