You came to BDSM Talk to find?

What brang you here and what do you want?

  • Other

    Votes: 22 50.0%
  • Sex stuff and bonking

    Votes: 2 4.5%
  • Writing ideas

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Ideas on being a submissive

    Votes: 8 18.2%
  • Love, romance and long term relationships in BDSM

    Votes: 5 11.4%
  • Ideas on being dominant

    Votes: 1 2.3%
  • How to manage short term bdsm relationships

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Techinique ideas on being dominant

    Votes: 1 2.3%
  • Technique ideas on being submissive

    Votes: 3 6.8%
  • Switch Ideas

    Votes: 2 4.5%

  • Total voters
    44
  • Poll closed .

pierced_boy

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What was your motivation in engaging BDSM Talk.

What brang you here man(woman)? What do you want?
 
I checked OTHER,...

...I came for two reasons,...to expose a novice sub to the truth,...and to learn more about BDSM, ...as I might want to experience myself.:rose:
 
Geeeee - has anyone seen my asset tag?

I ticked "other"

Truth to be told, I was here already before the BDSM section of Lit existed. So when at some stage it turned into an own little corner I just followed the "mother thread".

As why I was participating in the Mother Thread .. well, it was a "How To" thread and I thought I could help spread some info on BDSM to those who were seeking information.

So basically I didn't find BDSM talk, "it" found me and has held me captive since!

this is my story and I stick to it!
 
Another other here. What brought me to BDSM Talk was a search for information and real people to get it from. Found it.

~smile~
dixi
 
Another "other" here. I had been at Lit for a long time reading stories before I even knew that the BB's existed.

It wasn't until Laurel and Mano featured the "Mother Thread" in the Lit newsletter, that I found the BB... and I have been here ever since...
 
I voted other also.

I've been here since way before Cym started the mother thread in the How To section. {Had to change my name because of the loss of an email address and problems with cookies}

I believe that the original purpose of the thread as a teaching/learning tool was invaluable to anyone just starting to explore BDSM. I am interested in how others conduct their relationships.

I campaigned for this forum but. at times, wish the old mother thread was still going. It was interesting to see the twists and turns it took.
 
Another "other" info seeker here!

i came to Lit to read stories and such, and found the BB by accident. i had just found out about the whole BDSM lifestyle, and was trying to figure out if this was for me.. i found so many wonderful people who were more than willing to answer any questions that i had, and i will be forever grateful for that!! :rose:
 
I was here before it became a forum too. I put "other" just because I would have checked them all as well as listed my own.

PBW "What the hell *am* I doing here?"
 
other....i fit here for reasons that don't fall in the categories listed below, and reasons that do. "other" was the only round hole (how i like that word) for my distinctive, but definitely NOT round, peg...<snicker>
 
Other.
I found this board at a time when I was a doubtful Mistress. I started to read and felt reassured by the strong Dommes here. I was reminded of why I am a Domme. This place has helped greatly in My relationship with My boy. I am grateful. :kiss:


Helena :rose:
 
Yet another "other"

I was here a long while before the forum, or even the Mother thread. Actually, I was here a long while before the originator of the Mother thread, even.

This is what I do, so it seemed a fairly natural fit when the time came to start the forum. After all, somebody had to run it; I was drafted (among others) to do so.

RS
 
Well, I picked "switch ideas" but actually I came here for several reasons too, including seeking more info. As to another major reason, refer to the thread I'm about to start in just a minute. :D

-3eyes
 
Basically, i am here to talk about the lifestyle, and what being a submissive means to me and to others
 
I was brang here for the high intellihentual discussions. That and them there pictures of the women with those big breats.


Yeah..
I see the sections of Literotica as being arbitrary and their boundaries as existing only in the minds of those who wish to believe in them. The whole of Literotica is mine. I walk through it the same way I'd walk through the various rooms in my house.
 
For myself, I started coming to lit to read the stories, and eventually found myself in the boards as well, now I find myself hooked, coming to talk, for advice and to hear other peoples takes and stories, and to realise that I'm not alone in my preferences.
 
I came here to find everlasting love..........

Okay not really, but someone voted for it. ;)
 
Hey, you never know lovetoread. I found my everlasting love here: Insulting people without them knowing it.
 
Never said:
Hey, you never know lovetoread. I found my everlasting love here: Insulting people without them knowing it.

I like LTR's better! Your love sounds rather unfulfilling at best.
 
Another "Other"

I like to chat about femdom, and to meet new people. I found my own subs in my own way other places. My vanilla I found in another way too.

Maybe I am here to lobby for PBW's ass.

Eb
 
I have to chime in with "other" also like many I was around way before most of the other forums were here. I was in the begining of the mother thread watched it grow and then blossom into a forum also.

I still come to learn and share thoughts with fellow bdsmer's .........There are alot of good folks here to learn from and from many diffrent aspects of the relam.....;)
 
zipman7:
"I like LTR's better! Your love sounds rather unfulfilling at best."


Although I haven't reached every goal I've set for myself I'd have to say that I'm quite fulfilled with myself, my life, and the progress I'm making with both.

I think expecting love to fulfill you does more damage than good in the long run. A person's love should, ideally, be a gift that enhances your fulfillment. Not a plug for the gaping holes in your life.
 
dixicritter said:
Another other here. What brought me to BDSM Talk was a search for information and real people to get it from. Found it.

~smile~
dixi
Ditto, though I still just lurk here... :)
 
I voted for ideas on being a submissive.

I was posting stories before I discovered the boards were even here, and was interested in learning more about the lifestyle, trying to determine if it was something I wanted to explore w/ a partner i was pretty sure was a Dom.

The relationship has ended, but I am still lurking and learning and writing.

TR
 
Thanks to all who voted and commented

It seems most came here for other or multiple reasons. and er bump

H
 
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