MMM_wms
Really Really Experienced
- Joined
- Dec 4, 2019
- Posts
- 318
I better admit it right away, I am a complicated fellow. Sure enough I’d love to give you a lot, but not for altruistic reasons. And my gift for you takes a true connoisseur to appreciate. Because it is companionship, and it’s a kind not every woman likes and appreciates. Deep down inside I am a man with a need for a fairly all-encompassing mutuality of feelings. Meaning I want back from you everything I give away to you, for reasons not so pleasant: my wife no longer wants it from me.
Now you might ask yourself: if another woman no longer wants my gifts, why should you go for them? Only one good reason comes to mind: YOU are in a rather similar situation as I am. Deeply longing for a “taker” of your affection, and of your unique liking, of your lust and of your horniness. Because your husband no longer wants all that from you either.
And something else might apply to you, as it does to me: sensible reasons speak against either of us ending our marriages, despite the terrible voids existing in them.
Now it may be ludicrous, to dream of compensating for your voids and for mine, by means of a virtual love affair with another married “seeker”. Because this works only in the rarest of circumstances. Nothing can ever compensate perfectly for missing erotic affection or for not being able to make love with a partner. Any “virtual way out” will have its shortcomings for sure, there’s no use kidding ourselves about it.
BUT partial compensation is possible for sure. One example you and I know already: how we now compensate for the orgasms we are not getting from love-making. With our partners, I mean, we make love to ourselves.
So my thinking goes as follows: If we already practice one form of compensation now, how much better would it feel, if there existed a virtual partner for you and for me, on the other end of the internet? And if our virtual partner added something else to my life and to yours, something our spouses cannot do or have no knack for. In that case, something other gets added to this imperfect compensation for real-life love-making.
Maybe you and I will discover some intellectual connection we never experienced before. Or maybe “heart & soul fondling” via e-mails becomes much more intensive than it can be had in real life? Or perhaps you and I dream up erotic fantasies for each other, which are hard to imagine pursuing IRL? Or dangerous? And cumming with such fantasies in our head adds a special kind of thrill for both of us.
I have experienced all of the above, partially and not forever. Never totally right and fully satisfactory for both, but still quite pleasurable. And I keep asking myself: why should the next time not be far better than the last time? Particularly when both of us apply ourselves more diligently. Should you have similar thoughts run thru your head, why not respond back by PM?
Now you might ask yourself: if another woman no longer wants my gifts, why should you go for them? Only one good reason comes to mind: YOU are in a rather similar situation as I am. Deeply longing for a “taker” of your affection, and of your unique liking, of your lust and of your horniness. Because your husband no longer wants all that from you either.
And something else might apply to you, as it does to me: sensible reasons speak against either of us ending our marriages, despite the terrible voids existing in them.
Now it may be ludicrous, to dream of compensating for your voids and for mine, by means of a virtual love affair with another married “seeker”. Because this works only in the rarest of circumstances. Nothing can ever compensate perfectly for missing erotic affection or for not being able to make love with a partner. Any “virtual way out” will have its shortcomings for sure, there’s no use kidding ourselves about it.
BUT partial compensation is possible for sure. One example you and I know already: how we now compensate for the orgasms we are not getting from love-making. With our partners, I mean, we make love to ourselves.
So my thinking goes as follows: If we already practice one form of compensation now, how much better would it feel, if there existed a virtual partner for you and for me, on the other end of the internet? And if our virtual partner added something else to my life and to yours, something our spouses cannot do or have no knack for. In that case, something other gets added to this imperfect compensation for real-life love-making.
Maybe you and I will discover some intellectual connection we never experienced before. Or maybe “heart & soul fondling” via e-mails becomes much more intensive than it can be had in real life? Or perhaps you and I dream up erotic fantasies for each other, which are hard to imagine pursuing IRL? Or dangerous? And cumming with such fantasies in our head adds a special kind of thrill for both of us.
I have experienced all of the above, partially and not forever. Never totally right and fully satisfactory for both, but still quite pleasurable. And I keep asking myself: why should the next time not be far better than the last time? Particularly when both of us apply ourselves more diligently. Should you have similar thoughts run thru your head, why not respond back by PM?
