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degrepski
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Looking for a woman to help soothe my soul. I've been on a constant circuit of getting burned and hurt lately, and it's started to wear me down quite a bit. I'm looking to both get my confidence back up as well as enjoy the company of a beautiful woman--two things I've been too long without.
Figure it's only fair to tell you what you're getting into. I am 25 years old, 6'4", with dirty blonde hair and green eyes (though they sometimes change color). I guess I have what can be considered an above average body. I am no titan, no Greek god, but I am by no means obese. I am intelligent, yet oftentimes a little naive despite that. I can be equal parts emotional as well as logical. I tend to give more than I take, and have, to date, been entirely focused on pleasing others before myself, including sexually. I tend to pamper where I can with whatever I can, and I'm loyal to a fault. I am calm, collected, and understanding, yet can be extremely unreasonable if I fear my heart is to be broken. But, to be honest, who isn't?
Currently, I'm a veteran from the US Air Force, attending school under the GI Bill in Tampa, Florida. Because of this, I do not have a car or a job; I require neither to survive and decided to focus on my studies to improve my chances of a long lasting career as an English Teacher.
I'm a bit of a nerd and a geek, yet at the same time can have a spirited argument over sports despite not knowing all that much. I enjoy a few drinks now and then, quit smoking back on Feb 1, and sing a mean Dean Martin. I am both a gentleman and a scoundrel. I want romance and warm feelings as much as I want passion and romps in the bedroom. I am an everyman--I can be anything you want me to be.
Now, after that extensive preamble, here's what I'm hoping to find. I've spent my entire life seeking someone I could take care of, build a family with, maybe live out my days in that blissful happiness that comes from wedlock. Sadly, I've grown weary of trying and now just want someone I can enjoy the moment with. Someone I can share equal parts romance and humor without the pressure of trying to prepare for some future that never materializes. I want the movies, the dinners, the drunken karaoke, and the sex. I want to be able to experience and enjoy life again.
Most of all, I want someone who's willing to teach me how to love myself again. To this day, I can't remember the last time I had.
Now for the "shallow" part of what I'm looking for. Now, I truly believe that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If two women can look at me and one be aroused while the other repulsed, I hope it's ok that I can look back at the women and be equally aroused or repulsed by them.
First off, I wouldn't mind meeting a woman who's a bit taller than average. Being 6'4", I've had my share of bending over backwards to kiss a girl. I wouldn't mind bending a little less. However, that would just be "nice", not necessary.
Second, I currently weigh about 220-230 lbs, depending on the scale. That's a little over my ideal body weight, but not by much. I ask that you not be closer to my weight than to your own body type's ideal. I'm not asking you to be super skinny or uber fit. I just ask that you not be wider than I am (which, I think, for your own health is not a bad thing).
Third, I ask that you be female. I know, I would hope I've been obvious at this point, but you'd be surprised how many bi and gay men have decided to proposition me. Gentlemen, I'm flattered, by I do not swing that way, have never swung that way, and will never swing that way. If you have the choice to be your way, please respect my choice to be mine.
Fourth, I do have an age limit. I try to stick by the rule of "5 up, 5 down". If you are younger than 5 years below me, that's too young. If you're older than 5 years above me, that's too old. The main reason I do that is to try and stay within my maturity level, if possible.
[EDIT: If, perchance, you are over the five year limit, I might consider it if only to maybe learn a bit more on how to fully please a woman. I will never turn down a good lesson
]
Finally, I ask that you are open minded. My life has been far from typical, and has led to many different views on life in general. I tend to think and perceive the world through different lenses than most. By no means am I crazy, but it does mean that I can be radically conservative, and vice versa.
Hopefully, something I've said has piqued your interest and, even better, hopefully you're in my area and would like to meet and see what happens. Until your message reaches my inbox, I will be waiting.
Sincerely,
-D
Figure it's only fair to tell you what you're getting into. I am 25 years old, 6'4", with dirty blonde hair and green eyes (though they sometimes change color). I guess I have what can be considered an above average body. I am no titan, no Greek god, but I am by no means obese. I am intelligent, yet oftentimes a little naive despite that. I can be equal parts emotional as well as logical. I tend to give more than I take, and have, to date, been entirely focused on pleasing others before myself, including sexually. I tend to pamper where I can with whatever I can, and I'm loyal to a fault. I am calm, collected, and understanding, yet can be extremely unreasonable if I fear my heart is to be broken. But, to be honest, who isn't?
Currently, I'm a veteran from the US Air Force, attending school under the GI Bill in Tampa, Florida. Because of this, I do not have a car or a job; I require neither to survive and decided to focus on my studies to improve my chances of a long lasting career as an English Teacher.
I'm a bit of a nerd and a geek, yet at the same time can have a spirited argument over sports despite not knowing all that much. I enjoy a few drinks now and then, quit smoking back on Feb 1, and sing a mean Dean Martin. I am both a gentleman and a scoundrel. I want romance and warm feelings as much as I want passion and romps in the bedroom. I am an everyman--I can be anything you want me to be.
Now, after that extensive preamble, here's what I'm hoping to find. I've spent my entire life seeking someone I could take care of, build a family with, maybe live out my days in that blissful happiness that comes from wedlock. Sadly, I've grown weary of trying and now just want someone I can enjoy the moment with. Someone I can share equal parts romance and humor without the pressure of trying to prepare for some future that never materializes. I want the movies, the dinners, the drunken karaoke, and the sex. I want to be able to experience and enjoy life again.
Most of all, I want someone who's willing to teach me how to love myself again. To this day, I can't remember the last time I had.
Now for the "shallow" part of what I'm looking for. Now, I truly believe that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If two women can look at me and one be aroused while the other repulsed, I hope it's ok that I can look back at the women and be equally aroused or repulsed by them.
First off, I wouldn't mind meeting a woman who's a bit taller than average. Being 6'4", I've had my share of bending over backwards to kiss a girl. I wouldn't mind bending a little less. However, that would just be "nice", not necessary.
Second, I currently weigh about 220-230 lbs, depending on the scale. That's a little over my ideal body weight, but not by much. I ask that you not be closer to my weight than to your own body type's ideal. I'm not asking you to be super skinny or uber fit. I just ask that you not be wider than I am (which, I think, for your own health is not a bad thing).
Third, I ask that you be female. I know, I would hope I've been obvious at this point, but you'd be surprised how many bi and gay men have decided to proposition me. Gentlemen, I'm flattered, by I do not swing that way, have never swung that way, and will never swing that way. If you have the choice to be your way, please respect my choice to be mine.
Fourth, I do have an age limit. I try to stick by the rule of "5 up, 5 down". If you are younger than 5 years below me, that's too young. If you're older than 5 years above me, that's too old. The main reason I do that is to try and stay within my maturity level, if possible.
[EDIT: If, perchance, you are over the five year limit, I might consider it if only to maybe learn a bit more on how to fully please a woman. I will never turn down a good lesson
]Finally, I ask that you are open minded. My life has been far from typical, and has led to many different views on life in general. I tend to think and perceive the world through different lenses than most. By no means am I crazy, but it does mean that I can be radically conservative, and vice versa.
Hopefully, something I've said has piqued your interest and, even better, hopefully you're in my area and would like to meet and see what happens. Until your message reaches my inbox, I will be waiting.
Sincerely,
-D
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