Would you want to know?

Salvor-Hardon

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IF someone thought about you while they were masturbating, would you want to know? Not your stories, not even your avatar but you.

Would you want to know details of the fantasy you were starring in or just that you were stroke fodder?

Would you want to know if its just certain people, or is it a compliment from anyone and everyone?
 
Oh! Sure! Especially if it was Karl Rove or Janet Reno.
 
IF someone thought about you while they were masturbating, would you want to know? Not your stories, not even your avatar but you.

Would you want to know details of the fantasy you were starring in or just that you were stroke fodder?

Would you want to know if its just certain people, or is it a compliment from anyone and everyone?

I'd be quite curious about how they know me, as opposed to my stories or my avatar.
 
IF someone thought about you while they were masturbating, would you want to know? Not your stories, not even your avatar but you.

Would you want to know details of the fantasy you were starring in or just that you were stroke fodder?

Would you want to know if its just certain people, or is it a compliment from anyone and everyone?

It's nice to know in general that I'm attractive.

It's more difficult when a situation like this happens, because people tend to make this disclosure because they want the same disclosure from me.

So although it's flattering, it also puts me in a place where although it might seem like a gift, it slowly over time becomes an obligation.

So on the whole...no.

If I were single, though, hell yeah. Only a couple of people though. Not everyone. Ew.
 
It would depend. If it was some stranger, not particularly. It would be because, as glyndahh pointed out, they were thinking of my stories or my avatar. which isn't quite the same thing as me.

If it's people I know fairly well, and female, I'd be enormously flattered. :D
 
IF someone thought about you while they were masturbating, would you want to know? Not your stories, not even your avatar but you.

Would you want to know details of the fantasy you were starring in or just that you were stroke fodder?

Would you want to know if its just certain people, or is it a compliment from anyone and everyone?

I wouldn't mind knowing at all if it were a friend or someone I admired. Never hurts to raise the ego a little bit. Might be a hell of a lot of blushing knowing but damn it is nice to know you still have it. And as long as they aren't expecting a return from it. :D
 
I wouldn't mind knowing at all if it were a friend or someone I admired. Never hurts to raise the ego a little bit. Might be a hell of a lot of blushing knowing but damn it is nice to know you still have it. And as long as they aren't expecting a return from it. :D

Ditto :kiss:
 
I wouldn't mind knowing at all if it were a friend or someone I admired. Never hurts to raise the ego a little bit. Might be a hell of a lot of blushing knowing but damn it is nice to know you still have it. And as long as they aren't expecting a return from it. :D

Yes.

:kiss:
 
Well, I'd be flattered if it were someone I found intriguing/attractive/intelligent. Otherwise, not.
 
I can't imagine any circumstance where that knowledge would be advantageous - at a personal level. I can imagine situations where the knowledge would be dangerous ;)
 
Again, it depends on who it is, neon - if a hunk I like confided in me that he thinks of me when he jerks off, and I can get a chance to fulfill his (hopefully not too kinky) fantasies, then I think it's great.

Ofcourse, if it's a person I find disgusting, I'd report him to the police if he told me he likes to think of me when he's jerking off!
 
Again, it depends on who it is, neon - if a hunk I like confided in me that he thinks of me when he jerks off, and I can get a chance to fulfill his (hopefully not too kinky) fantasies, then I think it's great.

Ofcourse, if it's a person I find disgusting, I'd report him to the police if he told me he likes to think of me when he's jerking off!

I'll didn't say nuffin :D

Nice to see you again :kiss:

The kind of fantasy you describe is fair, I'd hope my partner fulfills that role for me... but I'd hate to discover she was thinking about the guy next door :rolleyes:
 
I'll didn't say nuffin :D

Nice to see you again :kiss:

The kind of fantasy you describe is fair, I'd hope my partner fulfills that role for me... but I'd hate to discover she was thinking about the guy next door :rolleyes:

Well, if you think of an underwear model and she thinks of a male stripper, you'll be in balance, no?
 
I actually had someone tell me that she masturbated thinking about me, and frankly it gave me the willies. We dated for a while, but she was a bit of an odd duck, and it came across a bit fatal attraction.

So I suppose a lot of it is how you find out the knowledge. Sometimes I would be blown away and it would feel awesome, other times... not so much.
 
If somebody were to tell me they fantasize about me while masturbating, I wouldn't believe it. :confused:About my stories or my AV, sure. :cool:That's the dea of the stories. But about me? No Way!!:(
 
I actually had someone tell me that she masturbated thinking about me, and frankly it gave me the willies. We dated for a while, but she was a bit of an odd duck, and it came across a bit fatal attraction.

So I suppose a lot of it is how you find out the knowledge. Sometimes I would be blown away and it would feel awesome, other times... not so much.

Don't you think it sort of depends on how emotionally involved you are with the person, as well? Also how they tell you.
 
Yeah, I mean, you'd sort of EXPECT your so to think oy fou, wouldn't you? I think that there's a scale where the more you're already intimate with someone, the less you want to know what they think when you're having sex.
 
If it's a mutual attraction, DEFINITELY.

If it's someone I find icky, I'd still want to know -- just not directly from that person 'cause then what do you say in response? "Um, thanks?" :eek: Still, a compliment's a compliment -- and masturbation is the sincerest form of flattery.
 
IF someone thought about you while they were masturbating, would you want to know? Not your stories, not even your avatar but you.

Would you want to know details of the fantasy you were starring in or just that you were stroke fodder?

Would you want to know if its just certain people, or is it a compliment from anyone and everyone?

Friggin' A-doodle I would. Granted, I'd be more interested in knowing if it's some blazing hot female stirring her honeypot about me, but no matter who it was, I'd be pleased to know.
 
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