Would you tell a fib for sex?

[ANiceGuy]

A while back I read about study of college students. When asked if they would lie to get sex a large percent would.

1) Would you tell a fib if you thought it would help you get physical?

It could be anything from telling the other person that you love the "Inane Clowns" CD they are playing when you really hate it to telling them a really big lie.

2) Have you already told a fib to get sex and if so what was the situation and fib.

3) Have you ever been lied to by some one wanting sex with you and what was the fib.

4) Do you think guys ar girls would be the most likely to fib?

 

[Bobtoad777]

If it would mean loosing my virginty sure

 

[ANiceGuy]

To what level would you "fib"

How big a lie would you tell Bobtoad777?

(Doesn't seem like the "have you had sex with anyone else recently" question would be difficult for you at least! hehehe

 

[Mustang Sally]

Sure, I'd be willing to tell a fib to get laid. A fib being the CD thing - being agreeable and flattering. I would NOT lie about something bigger, ie. no, I don't have a boyfriend OR yes, I've recently been tested for STD's... lol you get the picture.

I don't think I have fibbed or been fibbed to in the name of sex.

I think the pursuer in the game would be more likely to fib to convince the other, whether it's false flattery or some other placating lie. And, even in today's enlightened girl-power age, the male is more often the pursuer. Therefore, the male is more often the liar.

 

[Unclebill]

Absolutely NO!

My integrity is more valuable than sex and in fact, anything else that comes to mind.

 

[Bobtoad777]

Re: To what level would you

How big a lie would you tell Bobtoad777?

(Doesn't seem like the "have you had sex with anyone else recently" question would be difficult for you at least! hehehe

ROTFLMAO


I am not sure what kind of fib exactly or how big a fib I would go.

 

[ANiceGuy]

I told a girl her that her "C" tits were the best and.....

I met a girl in a bar and we ended up at my place. I told her that her "C" cup tits were the sexiest I'd ever sucked on. (More than a mouthfull is too much. etc. ) I hadn't dated a girl with smaller than D's in years. I really wouold have preffered her to have bigger tits but.... Well we ended up getting married. Lasted ten years and only ended then when her drinking became more important than a relationship.

 

[Mustang Sally]

Interesting. MY "C" cups are quite a bit more than a mouthful. Maybe it's time to move up a size, eh Sal? LOL

Let me try this on for size:
"I'm a "D" and proud of it!"

 

[Sammyjo]

I don't think I've lied to get sex. I know I've been lied to, and that really pisses me off...I was 4 months pregnant and the sperm donor called me up. He coerced me into sleeping with him. Telling me all sorts of things, talking about the baby, saying he'd be there...of course I fell for it...haven't seen him since...oh, except when I had to drag him into court for child support...I was so self-conscious. I took one look at him and thought...hell, I am doing way better than he is. I may not have a job yet, but I'm going to school full-time. I'm taking care of myself and my child. I have a roof over my head...he looks like a strung out crack addict.

Ok, way off topic...sorry...was just feeling good...thanks Xander for yesterday You always know how to lift my spirits.

Now, I'm going to march right over to that cute boy across the street and tell him I've had a crush on him for 10 years. Maybe honesty will get me laid.

 

[Melody_lane]

I don't think that I have lied to get sex. I think I would be offended if I had to, as if my cute little ass is not enough to get me laid-I have to lie, too? I don't think so.

As for being lied to-I don't know, I guess it is possible. The only instance that really sticks out in my head is with a guy I already fucked. We were having the pillow talk thing afterwards, and he told me he was a carpenter(while he's actually a chef), and he lied about his last name, and I think a couple other things. He called me about a week and a half later to apologize. He said that he thought it was the thing to do with a one-night stand, which we both agreed it was going to be. We hooked up again and still see each other on occasion. However, that initial benefit of the doubt has been removed, so I always question the things that he tells me-which he's not too appreciative of.

And so, word to the wise-don't lie unless you know positively you don't want something more than a one-night stand. Actually, don't fucking lie at all...kinda pointless, there are enough easy people out there, male and female, that it's just not necessary.

 

[ANiceGuy]

Lost integerety.

Yeah once a person has lied to some one they lose integerety from the other person. My first wife fibed to me constantly about her drinking and I got so I assumed she was sneaking drinks and drugs. She wasn't fibbing for sex but to keep the relationship going. My sexond wife used to kid me that she couldn't ask my opinion about clothes because I'd tell her she looked good in anthing. Well I did do that but she did!! Honest, Really she did!!!

 

[Skibum]

I never told a lie to get laid, but I did tell one to keep the girl from learning more about me afterwards. It has haunted me for more than twenty years.

 

[ANiceGuy]

Wow haunted for twennty years, Skibum. Why did that event stick so long?

I had a girl friend who had been traveling a lot to keep the business she and her husband owned going. Turned out as fast as she would get something going he would goof things up at the home base. She came home to stay one week and had hot sex with him on Sunday. She got diviorce papers on Monday. He didn't mention diviorcing her until after the papers arrived so he could a get week end of fun!!!

 

[rightbobsure]

..we all lie when it gets to the point of..

" I won't cum in your mouth ...!!

 

[Unclebill]

Re: ..we all lie when it gets to the point of..

" I won't cum in your mouth ...!!

Speak for yourself, bozo. You're certainly not qualified to speak for me!

 

[El Toro]

First off, I hope everyone had a great Thanksgiving! To answer the question (if I'm not too loaded), yes, I have and would tell a little white flattering innocent lie in order to get into a good looking lady's sweet little pussy. I wouldn't tell a hurtful or harmful lie, but you only go around once, and you should go for the gusto!

I've got to hit the sack, night folks..

 

[riff]

ouch...

yeah, i have lied. and probably would lie again. can't say i lied a lot, but i am as human as the next guy

don't wanna hurt nobody with a little fib- all i want is a little honey... but i've hurt people with little fibs (what is a little fib to you might be something completely different to someone else- just remember that)

doesn't it suck when a harmless lie hurts?

and doesn't it suck when the harmless lie (I love that band etc) actually makes a difference? (actually, I don't think love of a band could make a difference.

heh- i am a medical student, my dad owns a ranch in New Zealand - doesn't it REALLY suck that lies like these can make a difference? (but they do work...)

The worst lie of all is "I'll call you..."

the trouble with lying is that you can never be 100% certain that you could have crossed the goalline honestly.

better not to lie. sorry if I am 2 serious

btw- i have been lied to also. it was so stupid and pointless

 

[Ambrosious]

Yeah, I've done it.

Then, halfway through the act, I look down at her and think to myself, "WHAT are you DOING here?" It's a baaaaad felling, I tell ya'.

Ah, to be young and stupid.

 

[TN_Vixen]

hmmm

I'm not so gullible to believe that no one has lied to me, but I'm thinking-- have I?

I can't remember telling a lie to GET sex. That seems redundant to me.

 

[Roll-One]

I've never lied to get sex, never had to..

I've always tried to live my life by these rules:

Never lie or steal or cheat ppl

I've done pretty good so far, and i don't think i'll change now...

 

[Unclebill]

ouch...

doesn't it suck when a harmless lie hurts?

This is why I presume that there's no such thing as a harmless lie. There is no way of knowing if your dishonesty is going to hurt someone else. What you consider a triviality they may see as gravely serious.

And let me clarify just a bit on truthfulness. It is my position that I owe truth to everyone I deal with until I you have proven you're not worthy of it.

For example, when we first meet, I presume you're being honest with me as I am with you. I may withold details because I'm not certain of the level of trust I can have in you. But I will not deceive you.

As another example, if I know you're a burglar and ask me where such a person lives, I won't tell you even if I know because I have reasonable cause to believe your intent is malicious.

And finally, if you deceive me and I learn of it, I know longer owe you the courtesy and obligation of honesty. However, I still will not deceive you. I simply cease to deal with you unless that is inescapable.

My motivation is personal respect. I respect honest and decent people and my desire is to gain and maintain the respect of honest people. The respect of those whom I hold in disdain is worthless because they have given me reason to devalue them by being dishonest, cruel, or somehow otherwise unworthy of the basic respect I hold for the anonymous human being. If you demonstrate to me that you are not worthy of my respect, then whether you respect me or not is inconsequential and of no concern to me. And the easiest way to do that is to betray a trust.

 

[riff]

ouch...

doesn't it suck when a harmless lie hurts?

This is why I presume that there's no such thing as a harmless lie. There is no way of knowing if your dishonesty is going to hurt someone else. What you consider a triviality they may see as gravely serious.

that was my point, Uncle Bill, I couldn't have expressed it better myself.

 

[Mustang Sally]

Re: hmmm

I can't remember telling a lie to GET sex. That seems redundant to me.

Wow, that sounds so cynical, but it goes right over my head. What on earth do you mean, TN?

 

[BlueRooster]

CHERI CHERI, read this! ALLY! ALLY!

I've been lying to get sex for 27 years! Come on Cheri, Ally, give in to me, be my first!

Who's first?

Big BR

 

[Cheri]

He's all your's Ally my dear!

Wait a goll durn minute, you've been lying to me? On never mind, I just realized I've never talked to you before. Whew, much better!