would you see a man with ERD if he was willing to use fingers and oral?

[underworldwriter]

I have ERD issues. What's weird is at night while waking up during sleep, I'm fully erect and will stay that way until I become fully conscious. Out here, the doctors don't know anything and have become glorified pill pushers for big pharma (I asked the doctor about ERD and their reaction was either pills or rebuild the penis somehow...or it was stress--yeah, awesome research).

That being said, there's people using sonic frequency machines to break the plaque up in the penis veins that is supposed to bring it back to life (says the issue is circulation).

**Question--if you were a woman, would you see a man (date, whatever) if you knew he had ERD but was quite willing to perform oral and use his fingers...in any imaginative way?

As for marriages, I've spoken with many married people, and it's amazing just how many people are NOT happy in their marriage with sex, intimacy, and how it's become monotonous, where they're roommates at best. What I observe is that people will only do what they want to do, not what is needed to get it done, from sex to laundry. Is that sad or what?

So this is a few topics, but am curious to see what others think.

Thanks!

 

[glBock]

ERD issues

I got stuck reading your post. And one of my impressions is: it would have helped me tremendously, if I had known what "ERD" means for you. Googling the term brings up all sorts o crap, but not what you are talking About. I imagine it is some kind of erectile dysfunction.

My first impression is: why ask Litsters about a problem that needs professional advice and treatment? Do you really believe that random people can help you? I am writing this out of concern, not to bug you.

And what if a woman would answer with delight over a fellow who wants to treat her well instead of just getting fucked by you? I know at least two of them, but would that help YOU any?

I am really convinced you need to seek the advice of professionals. And if there aren't any where you live, how about investing money in a trip to a diagnostics clinic? Preferably after you have done some Internet searching.

 

[Chris_Michael]

Yeah because with everything going on in healthcare, doctors and researchers should really prioritize their time in keeping dicks hard.

 

[StarGazer58]

Yeah because with everything going on in healthcare, doctors and researchers should really prioritize their time in keeping dicks hard.

I remember when Viagra first Came out there were a lot of unhappy women who did not want to resume a sex life.

In regards to the OP, I would say that relationships are more than just sex but each woman would have to answer that individually according to her needs.

 

[Chris_Michael]

I remember when Viagra first Came out there were a lot of unhappy women who did not want to resume a sex life.

In regards to the OP, I would say that relationships are more than just sex but each woman would have to answer that individually according to her needs.

So? There are many women, who have men with rock solid cocks, who do not want to resume a sex life.

Non-sequitur.

 

[StarGazer58]

So? There are many women, who have men with rock solid cocks, who do not want to resume a sex life.

Non-sequitur.

It was just a comment dude. No deeper meaning but you can read what you want into it.

 

[tripleflip]

I have ERD issues. What's weird is at night while waking up during sleep, I'm fully erect and will stay that way until I become fully conscious. Out here, the doctors don't know anything and have become glorified pill pushers for big pharma (I asked the doctor about ERD and their reaction was either pills or rebuild the penis somehow...or it was stress--yeah, awesome research).


That being said, there's people using sonic frequency machines to break the plaque up in the penis veins that is supposed to bring it back to life (says the issue is circulation).

**Question--if you were a woman, would you see a man (date, whatever) if you knew he had ERD but was quite willing to perform oral and use his fingers...in any imaginative way?

As for marriages, I've spoken with many married people, and it's amazing just how many people are NOT happy in their marriage with sex, intimacy, and how it's become monotonous, where they're roommates at best. What I observe is that people will only do what they want to do, not what is needed to get it done, from sex to laundry. Is that sad or what?

So this is a few topics, but am curious to see what others think.

Thanks!

My answer to your question is, "Yes." Intimacy is so much more than the cock and pussy stuff. BTW, if you really wake up fully erect. Get some ED genius to explain to you why you have ED. (Hint: you don't)

There are other reasons not to be able to achieve or maintain an erection.

 

[MistyTrina]

I have ERD issues. What's weird is at night while waking up during sleep, I'm fully erect and will stay that way until I become fully conscious. Out here, the doctors don't know anything and have become glorified pill pushers for big pharma (I asked the doctor about ERD and their reaction was either pills or rebuild the penis somehow...or it was stress--yeah, awesome research).

That being said, there's people using sonic frequency machines to break the plaque up in the penis veins that is supposed to bring it back to life (says the issue is circulation).

**Question--if you were a woman, would you see a man (date, whatever) if you knew he had ERD but was quite willing to perform oral and use his fingers...in any imaginative way?

As for marriages, I've spoken with many married people, and it's amazing just how many people are NOT happy in their marriage with sex, intimacy, and how it's become monotonous, where they're roommates at best. What I observe is that people will only do what they want to do, not what is needed to get it done, from sex to laundry. Is that sad or what?

So this is a few topics, but am curious to see what others think.

Thanks!

I absolutely would.

And I totally agree. In my opinion, doing the hard stuff is how you grow.

 

[Spiritedlady]

Yeah because with everything going on in healthcare, doctors and researchers should really prioritize their time in keeping dicks hard.

Woah! Hang on a minute. Why shouldn’t Drs etc be involved in doing that ? Where would Viagra have come from otherwise? . ( so zero empathy clearly... duly noted )

Firstly OP I would say that not every cause of ED is physical - some of it is psychological. So there will be professionals and resources available to help you depending on what the cause is. If the doctors have exhausted all their tests and have no solutions then perhaps a psychosexual therapist would be a good option for you. Of course there will be women who are still interested in you if you’re a good guy but wouldn’t you rather have the option of a complete sex life for both of you ?

 

[underworldwriter]

she's awesome and takes initiative. mine won't.

 

[underworldwriter]

doctors where I live are pill pushers for big pharma and dumb, dumb, dumb. West Coast Canada was better in the 90s than this place today. Lots of computers and techno crap, idiots at the wheel.

 

[underworldwriter]

Woah! Hang on a minute. Why shouldn’t Drs etc be involved in doing that ? Where would Viagra have come from otherwise? . ( so zero empathy clearly... duly noted )

Firstly OP I would say that not every cause of ED is physical - some of it is psychological. So there will be professionals and resources available to help you depending on what the cause is. If the doctors have exhausted all their tests and have no solutions then perhaps a psychosexual therapist would be a good option for you. Of course there will be women who are still interested in you if you’re a good guy but wouldn’t you rather have the option of a complete sex life for both of you ?

I'd love the option. My state seems to be LAST for everything except basketball (priorities). One would think that during masturbation one would maintain an erection but most days I do not, hence the problem.