Would you Rather ???

[Nicole]

I'm not to sure how to word this question, but this is to the women ... When you orgasm would you rather be

A. Multi Orgasmic

B. Once per session

C. Once per week

D. Once per month

E. None of the above, in which case what would you like to be?

I'm A. Multi Orgasmic, and although it's fun, it's not all it's cracked up to be sometimes. I sometimes feel guilty for being able to cum more than once (and then some), and feel the need to make the person I'm with stop, as I know there are women out there (my best friend for one) that can't cum. All part of life I know and maybe I shouldn't complain about being that way, but if I could pass on some of my Orgasms to someone out there that's never had one I'd feel a lot better for it.

MEN which of the above would you rather be with? Please answer me seriously, I need to put how I feel in perspective, and would appriciate some serious answers.

This is something I have had to deal with (the guilt), but with the help of a friend and being able to talk about it, I'm accepting it more.

Thanks for even taking the time to read this, Take Care now

 

[Guest]

Personally, I'd rather be with any of the above, as long as it's the woman I love that I'm with. But that's just me

 

[Melody_lane]

A. Multi_Orgasmic.

And I don't feel guilty. I think it's wonderful gift to any guy I am with. I mean, hell even if he is shitty in bed, I'm liable to cum...and then he'll feel like The Man.

Sometimes it's nice to be senitive.

 

[Nicole]

Melody I never actually thought of it that way ... Thanks.

I guess I just know how good it feels that I feel bad that there are some out there that can't cum. I worry too much don't I?

 

[Sammyjo]

On another note....

...what is your definition of multi-orgasmic? I've heard some people talking about multiple orgasms...and what they are talking about is not what I would consider muliple orgasms...

 

[CW]

'A' or 'B' with no preference,,, unless it's someone like Melody_Lane that can reach a multi- orgasm thru "shitty" efforts,,, in which case I'd feel that it was fakery,,, and be dissappointed, not devastated, just disappointed that fakery was felt to be needed.

I personally enjoy the thought that my partner can reach an orgasm as a result of our making love. Does it make me feel like "THE man"? No. It just makes me feel good and I am happy for her. My attitude comes from being a giver instead of a taker though.

An orgasm is not a gift to your partner, it's a gift to yourself, whether it is self induced or induced by a partner. It's also something that you have little or no control over as far as the quantity of peaks goes.

I can't see that ANY guilt is to be involved here concerning the number of orgasms acheived per session. Accept who you are, embrace this gift and let your lover know that you are feeling fine.

Maybe this doesn't exactly answer you Nicole, but at 7am it's the best I could do.

 

[Nicole]

Thank-you CW and that was a lovely answer and yes it helped me out. You don't know how much actually.

Sammy, I have this ability (if you can call it that) to cum, and then within say a couple more hard fast strokes I'm cumming right on top of the last.

Then there are times that I cum, then keep going and Cum a little while later. Depends really on what is happening and what my partner is doing to me at that point.

Hope this clears up any questions cause I'm going to bed shortly.

Thanks for taking the time to answer.

 

[Roll-One]

Good Morning

Nicole, i have read and reread your post, you are a warm and caring loving person, and i could feel this as i read it.
I'm going to answer this much the way CW has. His answer is the way i feel to.
I don't make a woman have an orgasm, to make me feel like THE MAN. It satisfies me in my heart to be able to bring a woman to orgasm, and to have her experience the pleasure and the feeling of being satisfied. What a feeling hu?
This question was no surprise to me, coming from you. You have a gift given to you and you want to share it with your friend. That is so wonderful.
There should be no guilt involved on your part.You having Mult.orgasm was a gift given to you, this is apart of you, like the loving and caring you have for other people. you should never feel guilty of who you are..k
You have probably helped your friend in other ways you don't even know.

Sooooo, stop feeling guilty..smile..
and have a wonderful day.

 

[Juspar Emvan]

Hers for Me

When I make love and my partner has an orgasm I love it. I have been known to orgasm myself without direct stimulation while giving cunnilingus that resulted in cum all over my face. I have also been known to snuggle comortably up to my partner after she has a few, but I didn't at all. This doesn't make me 'The Man', or special in any way, but I just love to see/feel womens orgasm.

Nikki - A

 

[Cheyenne]

"Don't hate me because I'm beautiful"

Anyone remember that old commercial with the tag line "Don't hate me because I'm beautiful"? For some reason, that's the first thing that came to mind reading the opening question.

 

[Sammyjo]

Thank you Nicole..I have this "gift" as well...I'm thinking it's not really a gift, but only that some people don't foster their abilities. Anyway, that is the definition I use when describing multiple orgasms. The people I'm referring to describe it as a few minutes later...ummm...no pal, it's immediate...thank you very much.

Ok...back to discussion.

 

[jcgirl]

hehe

A.

Yeah baby, A, yes oh my god A!!!!

 

[KillerMuffin]

Well, it's hard to get me to start, I'm pretty prickly at times. But once I start to orgasm, I don't stop for quite some time. Waves of it over and over until I'm too tired to move and he looks like a bloody mess... well, he would if I didn't keep my nails trimmed. I feel like the world is swirling away, I guess, and I feel the irresistable urge to hold onto the only solid piece left with tooth and claw. So, I warn everyone, when I start to cum don't put anything near my mouth that you'd like to keep.

I don't always orgasm during sex, don't always want to. There are times when I just want to have sex to feel him inside of me, a part of me, to feel the heat of it. I have been known to smack when I feel fingers snaking towards my clit when I feel like that.

Men will say they feel don't try to make a woman cum to feel like the man, this is pretty much the truth. However, you must admit guys, that when you get your woman off to the point where she's writhing on the sheets, screaming your name as orgasm after orgasm hits her, that you don't feel like Super Stud. If you say you don't, you're just glad she got to cum, then you can lie to yourself. The smug cat that ate the canary expression you carry around for days tells the real story. You don't do it to make yourself feel like a real Studpuppy in bed, but you still feel like it anyway.

 

[Roll-One]

Killermuffin, i did feel that way when i was younger, hell yeah, i'm the super stud, but i have grown out of that, now that i'm older

 

[Nicole]

Thanks for all taking the time to answer, I appriciate all your thoughts.

KM, it's true what you say in the last part Men will say they feel don't try to make a woman cum to feel like the man, this is pretty much the truth. However, you must admit guys, that when you get your woman off to the point where she's writhing on the sheets, screaming your name as orgasm after orgasm hits her, that you don't feel like Super Stud. If you say you don't, you're just glad she got to cum, then you can lie to yourself. The smug cat that ate the canary expression you carry around for days tells the real story. You don't do it to make yourself feel like a real Studpuppy in bed, but you still feel like it anyway. You see it in their eyes afterwards, makes you smile though, because you had a hand in that too.

Cheyenne, I'm the type of girl that doesn't feel I deserve what pleasure I'm recieving, that's why I feel guilty, I feel the need to pass what I have onto others, I just don't know how too.

I'm sure I'll come to accept what I have eventually, and I'm slowly learning to open up about my feelings on certain matters, I just wondered what other women and men liked.

Anyhow, thanks for taking the time to respond and let me know what you all feel

Now onto my next question (hehehehe).

 

[Jeff726]

Re: A. Multi_Orgasmic.

And I don't feel guilty. I think it's wonderful gift to any guy I am with. I mean, hell even if he is shitty in bed, I'm liable to cum...and then he'll feel like The Man.

Sometimes it's nice to be senitive.

Yes it is. I 2nd your sentiment there. I am sensitive to a woman's touch myself. Hell even if all I am doing is just holding her, I get harder than a diamond. Shows you something don't it Melody?

Orgasm: the perfect physical feeling.

 

[Chuckus]

I am a giver not a taker, although I do like to take on occasion. I like to bring my partner pleasure and if that involves a woman who is multi orgasmic or can cum, then that is cool. I just plain and simple like to give pleasure and that is that. If that involves orgasm for her, so be it. If she is unable to, then maybe we can explore ways to get there. It really does not matter to me, sure I like to make her cum/orgasm, but I have found that there are in fact some women who are unable thru penentration alone to orgasm, that is where my other talents come into play. I am just happy to bring pleasure and that is the bottom line, if I can find a way to enhance that, then lets do it. Don't know that I answered your question, at least directly, but to me being "the man" is not what it is all about, it is about pleasure.

 

[Guest]

 

[Stormy]

A. Multi-orgasmic. Only one person has ever done that to me in my life and he will be remembered always.

 

[Rocky Springs]

Personally, I would like a woman who could have MO. It makes the experience that much better by knowing that the glow will last longer than the after smoke....

 

[Angel]

I'd rather be consistant heh.

Sometimes I can cum repeatedly, sometimes I can't cum at all.

Depends on the partner too. My ex could eat pussy like a demon, and I would cum until I nearly died, but then when we got to actual intercourse, I was bored to tears.


My boyfriend now I cum once if I'm lucky during oral, but I usually cum like a machinegun during intercourse.



Now if only I'd met someone who could do BOTH..

 

[Stormy]

Rocky, seems I finally caught up w/ you. Care to tell me who you are?

 

[Ezzy]

A + B AB AA AAB ABB

I like to be able to assist my girl friend to orgasm as many times as she wishes to fly to the heights of passion.

Cuddly sex without orgasms is good too.

As I sat here thinking about this I have realised, that there is also a control or power situation implied, in the ability to assist (make) another human cum till they ask you to let them stop.



EZ http://cwm.ragesofsanity.com/s/cwm2/sleep.gif

Thank you for the thought provoking thread.

 

[Angel]

Re: A + B AB AA AAB ABB

the ability to assist (make) another human cum till they ask you to let them stop.

Which in my opinion, is the best orgasm I have ever experienced.

 

[Rocky Springs]

Well now that you have caught up with me, would you answer the question at hand.....