sterculius
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Ladies, would it bother you if you found out your husband was a Cocksucker? I've been a Cocksucker all my adult life but my wife doesn't know. Should I tell her?
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My wife knows that I want to suck cock and the idea really turns her on. However that is only in fantasy land as she isn't offering her consent to me. Which is a tad annoying because she too is very bi curious and has my consent to have a girlfriend.
Ladies, would it bother you if you found out your husband was a Cocksucker? I've been a Cocksucker all my adult life but my wife doesn't know. Should I tell her?
I have a sort of similar scenario, she likes pics of curvy woman and gets hot and bothered when we talk about it. When we are busy I talk dirty creating scenes with both her licking pussy and us sharing a cock and she really gets into it. The 'But' is she has concerns of the post coital nature and how she would feel about herself and us after the act.
So it lies dormant for a time until I find the right moment to recirculate the idea - we'll see what happens
When my husband told me he had sucked cock before I jumped his bones! He has never been sexier to me than when he opened up to me about it. I don't know why it turns me on so, but it does!
When my husband told me he had sucked cock before I jumped his bones! He has never been sexier to me than when he opened up to me about it. I don't know why it turns me on so, but it does!
Depends. Quite honestly to "find out" means he hid it from me. In that case.....yes. It would bother me a lot. For several reasons. I want him to trust me enough to let me share in his sexual fantasies and desires. IF he hid it from me and went out and gave guys blowjobs, then it would actually piss me off. For starters he cheated. Period. Second he put ME at risk for a disease. Oh he gave a blowjob with the other dude wearing a condom? Doubt it. So my point is involve me in it. A threesome like that could be beyond wild. Having a guy that can admit that he is sexual beyond the norms is wonderful but do not sneak around and suck off guys and think I'm gonna do cartwheels over it. Do it the right way.
I agree with your perspective, but I find it interesting that the comment right after yours stated that it isn't something she would even want to think about.
Women can be every bit as judgmental as men, just about different things. In my cynical observation women will talk a big game about being accepting of all people but expect their man to be the definition of heterosexuality. Just like they'll slag a guy for not being attracted to their ugly girlfriends yet treat any guy who isn't up to their standards like he is spoiled fruit.
This isn't like raising the idea of a threesome which might get shot down but won't end the relationship. A LOT of women would drop a guy like yesterday's news at the mere mention that he might be slightly bi-curious. That makes it prey difficult to broach the subject.
I think you're being selective here. The OP asked and one woman said she is hands-down not into it. Another just said she loves the idea. Everyone is entitled to his or her preferences and it's not a matter of being "judgmental" but honest if something isn't one's cup of tea. Yes women can be solipsistic about attraction, but most people here are of the "to each his own" philosophy when it comes to fetishes.
I have a sort of similar scenario, she likes pics of curvy woman and gets hot and bothered when we talk about it. When we are busy I talk dirty creating scenes with both her licking pussy and us sharing a cock and she really gets into it. The 'But' is she has concerns of the post coital nature and how she would feel about herself and us after the act.
So it lies dormant for a time until I find the right moment to recirculate the idea - we'll see what happens
My bf and I fantasize about it often. It's absolutely amazing
I wouldn't mind at all, in fact, I would find it exciting. I would love to be part of it too, either to watch or in an mmf scenario.
Awesome ladies
While some women might find it a turn off we find it exciting and I actually initiated him into his first experience during a threesome.![]()
We share a similar outlook, when i was in my mid 20's I decided "i wasn't going to die wondering" and never looked back.
Your wife's attitude... Is that the by-product of a 'good little girls don't', roman catholic, upbringing?
Same same brother! She has said that 'if' it were to ever happen it would be in a holiday type situation a long way from home. So, whilst the idea isn't totally discounted, I don't hold out much hope. But I don't stop dreaming either.