Would you introduce your partner to Lit?

[higherlevel4u]

People! Can I just clear up what seems to be a little misunderstanding here? This is NOT my thread, I am just 'hosting' it for a friend of mine who is trying to get HER sweetheart onto LIT.



So, now here's my friend, using her own words ....

Okay, I'm setting out on a mission. I want to introduce my sweetheart to the boards at Lit.

But before I do so, it would be good to hear people's views on the subject. Do you and your darling one (or ones...I'm not judging ) post together? Or do you guiltily cover the screen when they walk in the room? Maybe you've already tried to introduce someone else to the fun - how did it go? Did it end in fiery roaring success or was it something of a damp squib under a wet blanket in the rain?

How would you go about doing it, or how did you? He is already aware of Lit, and reads the stories, but as far as I'm aware, has never used the boards (now that could be an interesting twist...)

Of course, I don't want to make it easy for him. So the lovely Higher is starting this thread for me to ensure that if he accepts my invitation, then the challenge will be to come figure out who I am...it might give the game away if my name was at the top. So if that's you sweetness, nice try...but no cigar.

Talk to me everyone! Tell me if this is going to work...
And if you want to try and figure out who this is in the process...well, you can pick your own prize ...

 

[Guest]

Okay, I'm setting out on a mission. I want to introduce my sweetheart to the boards at Lit.

But before I do so, it would be good to hear people's views on the subject. Do you and your darling one (or ones...I'm not judging ) post together? Or do you guiltily cover the screen when they walk in the room? Maybe you've already tried to introduce someone else to the fun - how did it go? Did it end in fiery roaring success or was it something of a damp squib under a wet blanket in the rain?

How would you go about doing it, or how did you? He is already aware of Lit, and reads the stories, but as far as I'm aware, has never used the boards (now that could be an interesting twist...)

Of course, I don't want to make it easy for him. So the lovely Higher is starting this thread for me to ensure that if he accepts my invitation, then the challenge will be to come figure out who I am...it might give the game away if my name was at the top. So if that's you sweetness, nice try...but no cigar.

Talk to me everyone! Tell me if this is going to work...
And if you want to try and figure out who this is in the process...well, you can pick your own prize...

Heheh...I have tried to introduce my partner to Lit he isnt interested thank god ...cant have him drooling over all the hot women on Lit when he has me to drool over now can I ???


Hmmm I have NO idea who this may be ???

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[higherlevel4u]

Heheh...I have tried to introduce my partner to Lit he isnt interested thank god ...cant have him drooling over all the hot women on Lit when he has me to drool over now can I ???


Hmmm I have NO who this may be ???

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And I'm not telling .... my lips, unlike yours, are sealed ....

 

[Guest]

And I'm not telling .... my lips, unlike yours, are sealed ....

My lips are always sealed unless they are busy doing something else ​

 

[DLL]

Okay, I'm setting out on a mission. I want to introduce my sweetheart to the boards at Lit.

But before I do so, it would be good to hear people's views on the subject. Do you and your darling one (or ones...I'm not judging ) post together? Or do you guiltily cover the screen when they walk in the room? Maybe you've already tried to introduce someone else to the fun - how did it go? Did it end in fiery roaring success or was it something of a damp squib under a wet blanket in the rain?

How would you go about doing it, or how did you? He is already aware of Lit, and reads the stories, but as far as I'm aware, has never used the boards (now that could be an interesting twist...)

Of course, I don't want to make it easy for him. So the lovely Higher is starting this thread for me to ensure that if he accepts my invitation, then the challenge will be to come figure out who I am...it might give the game away if my name was at the top. So if that's you sweetness, nice try...but no cigar.

Talk to me everyone! Tell me if this is going to work...
And if you want to try and figure out who this is in the process...well, you can pick your own prize...

ok i am confused???? and i usually can figure out written contracts and such nicely but i am lost here???
i need another cup of coffee

 

[higherlevel4u]

My lips are always sealed unless they are busy doing something else ​

Which lips are you on about?

 

[babydoll2u]

ok i am confused???? and i usually can figure out written contracts and such nicely but i am lost here???
i need another cup of coffee

LOL... you aren't the only one DLL.
I thought omg.... this is Higher and he wants to intro his sweetheart (a HE) to Lit?
damn near 'bout fainted

 

[Guest]

Which lips are you on about?

Hehehe both ​

 

[DLL]

LOL... you aren't the only one DLL.
I thought omg.... this is Higher and he wants to intro his sweetheart (a HE) to Lit?
damn near 'bout fainted

me too i was like damnnnnnnnnnn highers a switch hitter I was wondering if he was a catcher or pitcher for a second...what can I say baseball starts this weekend

 

[babydoll2u]

ok here's my take on it.

I let my hubby know I was posting on Lit....
our divorce is final next month

'nuff said?

 

[babydoll2u]

me too i was like damnnnnnnnnnn highers a switch hitter I was wondering if he was a catcher or pitcher for a second...what can I say baseball starts this weekend

LOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL....!



hey I'm subbing to this thread...
gonna be interesting to follow

 

[DLL]

Hehehe both ​

smiles..hi sxy

 

[omahaman2]

I feel you should share with your SO things you enjoy.If you are attracted to each other, you are probably attracted to some of the same things. I didnt
have to introduce my SO to LIT, I met her here at chat,she wrote poems and stories about our relationship for LIT, then we finally proceeded to the boards together!GO FOR IT! How can you have a good relationship if you hide things and keep secrets from each other? I never would cover up anything,like you
talked about doing to your PC screen.

 

[Guest]

smiles..hi sxy

Morning ((((DLL)))) (((babyD)))) Have a good day g/f's​

 

[babydoll2u]

Morning ((((DLL)))) (((babyD)))) Have a good day g/f's​

you too sweetie

 

[DLL]

I feel you should share with your SO things you enjoy.If you are attracted to each other, you are probably attracted to some of the same things. I didnt
have to introduce my SO to LIT, I met her here at chat,she wrote poems and stories about our relationship for LIT, then we finally proceeded to the boards together!GO FOR IT! How can you have a good relationship if you hide things and keep secrets from each other? I never would cover up anything,like you
talked about doing to your PC screen.

well thats cool but some just like to play and its a safe form of cheating in a way...
i know alot of married posters like the idea their SO doesnt know about this place...for whatever reasons..maybe its an escape in a way...

 

[Sapphiregem]

Okay, I'm setting out on a mission. I want to introduce my sweetheart to the boards at Lit.

But before I do so, it would be good to hear people's views on the subject. Do you and your darling one (or ones...I'm not judging ) post together? Or do you guiltily cover the screen when they walk in the room? Maybe you've already tried to introduce someone else to the fun - how did it go? Did it end in fiery roaring success or was it something of a damp squib under a wet blanket in the rain?

How would you go about doing it, or how did you? He is already aware of Lit, and reads the stories, but as far as I'm aware, has never used the boards (now that could be an interesting twist...)

Of course, I don't want to make it easy for him. So the lovely Higher is starting this thread for me to ensure that if he accepts my invitation, then the challenge will be to come figure out who I am...it might give the game away if my name was at the top. So if that's you sweetness, nice try...but no cigar.

Talk to me everyone! Tell me if this is going to work...
And if you want to try and figure out who this is in the process...well, you can pick your own prize...

{{Higher}}, Everyone may have different opinions, and may offer you advice. Yet I think that you, and only you, can know if he will accept this...Don't ever be afraid to tell someone you truly care for, or show them something you enjoy doing....Trust, and Honesty are the two most important things in any relationship. Now I can only speak for myself, as I have opened up to someone I cared for, showed him Lit, and he thought it was a place where ...well lets just say, it wasn't a place for him ...He couldn't see why I would come here ?....Yet, I have found many new friends like, YOU who was the first, to ever start talking to me. GOOD LUCK on your mission {{{J}}}....Now this is only my opinion...GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!!!

 

[higherlevel4u]

ok here's my take on it.

I let my hubby know I was posting on Lit....
our divorce is final next month

'nuff said?

Right on, BabyD ..... my wife knows NOTHING about Lit, and it's sure gonna stay that way if I have anything to do with it .....

 

[higherlevel4u]

well thats cool but some just like to play and its a safe form of cheating in a way...
i know alot of married posters like the idea their SO doesnt know about this place...for whatever reasons..maybe its an escape in a way...

Exactly, Dee-licious .....

 

[babydoll2u]

Right on, BabyD ..... my wife knows NOTHING about Lit, and it's sure gonna stay that way if I have anything to do with it .....

as a side note....

I almost lost everything J, including my son
be careful.....

 

[69forever]

me too i was like damnnnnnnnnnn highers a switch hitter I was wondering if he was a catcher or pitcher for a second...what can I say baseball starts this weekend

Noooo!!! I'm a lefty and a righty! *maybe it was the steroids?*

Not sure how I'd feel. There's no comparison. My three relationships that became R/L in the last year and a half were with women who I've met here.

I always said that if/when I meet a woman who fullfills my needs and I hers, my posting time would diminish to a much lower level. That's true. BUT, I have met many outstanding people here in cyber. Being an attention whore doesn't mean that I don't have something to offer in the gentlest manner that may help someone else either.

Any relationship that I engage in has no subterfuge involved. So, what better way for someone to see, in print, what is and has been me than inviting them to Lit.

Even if they never speak with me again.....LOL!

 

[higherlevel4u]

as a side note....

I almost lost everything J, including my son
be careful.....

I know, P .... I am careful ... I've been doing this for two years now, and I'm sure she would have said something if she suspected anything .... fortunately I do most of my playing during the day when I'm at work ....

But thanks for your concern ....

 

[Scottie62]

well thats cool but some just like to play and its a safe form of cheating in a way...
i know alot of married posters like the idea their SO doesnt know about this place...for whatever reasons..maybe its an escape in a way...

Hi All

I think DLL has it right.. in here can be an escape... not necessarily in a bad way but help you get through other things.

I haven't introduced my SO into / onto the board but I would like to.. I would like to have the envelope widened... and that in itself is part of the problem

Anyway it's good to hear there are people out there with similar issues to deal with.

In here caters for all tastes

Keep on posting I say !!

 

[babydoll2u]

I know, P .... I am careful ... I've been doing this for two years now, and I'm sure she would have said something if she suspected anything .... fortunately I do most of my playing during the day when I'm at work ....

But thanks for your concern ....

I know sweetie... I just had to say it.
please understand... I wasn't prying......

 

[higherlevel4u]

I know sweetie... I just had to say it.
please understand... I wasn't prying......

No, not at all, Baby .... by and large I'm very happy at home .... I'm just such an inveterate flirt that it's much safer for me to do it on Lit .... after all, my willpower in the flesh, so to speak, is nonexistent .... and has got me into trouble in the past in r/l ....