Would you do it?

[Thumper]

Yep....

...every last one of'em! If they would have me...

I'm sure my wife knows I would if I had half a chance...

Flame away...

 

[Chuckus]

I agree that cheating is cheating. HOWEVER, since I am quite single and playing the field these days I would do it. Given a different scenario, I would consider it and do some soul searching and see what came to the top of the ole minds eye.......I think I would but don't really know as I have never been in that situation as relates to "online" meetings and having a RL sweetie or otherwise.

I have had the chance while I was married and declined graciously. Cheating is cheating. Being married is one thing I suppose, a GF is a totally different arena and maybe there are a different set of rules. Maybe if I was really really serious with the GF and all, NOPE. But on the other hand if it were not really serious at all, I would tend to say sure i would meet the online sweetie.

 

[Patryn]

Stop with the bitching and self pitty "why me"s Patryn! It's getting old. No one gives a shit about you! No one cares that you and your EX didn't know how to respect each other even in a swinging marriage, and no one cares about you being a married man's sloppy seconds!

I'm getting really tired of this. I thought I simply explained what happened to me when I did what the topic starter was thinking of doing. I don't see any self pity or "why me's" in that.

I don't expect anyone to "give a shit about me", but ya know, troll, you sure are speaking for a lot of people when you say that. Better make sure that absolutely no one gives a shit about me.

No, my ex and I didn't respect each other. We didn't communicate. It's as much my fault as it was his. And I'm not getting into it again. But thanks, troll, for proving I'm not GUH!!

 

[CelestialBody]

 

[shadowsong]

1-I agree. No self pity in the post that got trashed. That was unfair and unkind. Play nice, kiddies... If I have to turn this car around, we are NOT going to Grandma's house...

2-Heck yes. I've done it before, and had a lot of fun. I might get in that situation again soon... Admittedly now that I'm dating a perfectly loverly lady it'd require her permission for more than just a spiffy evening with a friend... But if everyone knows and is happy, then go for it. 8)

 

[Temptress_1960]

Definitely not

It would be cheating. I think a little fantasy, or role playing, can be fun and exciting. As long as the lines between real-life and fantasy don't get blurry.
Even cybering, if you want to consider it an interactive masturbation fantasy, can be OK. But if it gets too real, or you develop serious emotional attachment, well, that is cheating.
And if you're going to cheat, don't get married. Or be prepared to get your ass kicked.
I've been married almost 19 years, and have never been unfaithful. Why would I be?
No one has ever satisfied me as much as my husband does. He knows all the right spots to touch, lick, suck and nibble. He will do whatever I want him to do, is always open to trying something new.
And in all the sex I had before I met him (hey, it was the 70s, it was expected), he is the only one besides myself who ever made me cum. (And you know, it really isn't that hard to do - what the hell was wrong with all you guys???)

 

[Guest]

Only one?

 

[Countess DeWinter]

A man and a woman meet (or a woman and a woman or a man and a man or a man and a goat or a woman and a dog - I don't discriminate!)...and sex HAS to be a given? I don't think so. There are many people just from Lit that I would love to meet and would go out of my way to do so. But I don't think sex has to be a given. I can give and enjoy a good mind-fuck that can be better than the sex lives of half of America.
But, if sex was a possibility, or even "on the agenda", it would be cheating. But when has that stopped anyone? So is getting emotionally involved with someone else online in a way that replaces your spouse/SO.

But, all that rationality aside -- ahem!! One maiden ready to be swept away, Indy

 

[Cheyenne]

Yes. Had you asked me this question 6 or 7 months ago, I would have answered "no." I am single, but came very close to meeting my married sweetie a few months ago. He got cold feet- perfectly acceptable since he was the married one, not me. His choice. Now we are good friends only, and he is faithful to his wife.

Almost met one person from this bb this weekend, but schedules didn't work out to get together. Might have just been dinner, but who knows? Maybe next time.

 

[Guest]

Countess, you will be the first.

 

[Guest]