Would you be interested in… a friend?

Ashley81

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I very rarely post on here (maybe once every 2-3 years!) but I thought I’d give this a try because what’s the worst that can happen? I’m somehow really busy and pretty happy in general, but also bored and lonely at the same time, and often wish I had someone to talk to.

I can be very silly at times and find it fun to joke around, but I can also hold a serious conversation. I’m an introvert, I get very anxious at times, and I love being creative. I like people who can appreciate the positive things in life even when things aren’t perfect, who are open, and who like to talk about random things. Being respectful towards women is an incredibly attractive quality in a man (although isn’t it crazy that it’s apparently rare enough to be so attractive?).

I’m 40, and if I’m honest I tend to find I get on best with people in their 30s or early 40s. I should add that I’m female - it’s not necessarily clear from my name…

If you think we might hit it off, send me a message and tell me something interesting about yourself. Or ask me a question. Or answer my rhetorical one about what IS the worst thing that could happen after me posting this?

(Oh, and if you supported Trump or Brexit, or if you think the Covid vaccine is dangerous, you probably won’t like me. I like things like science and not being xenophobic.)
 
Hello there, I saw you that you were looking for a friend so I decided to throw my hat in the ring and see if we clicked.



I'm a 32 year old dork of a man who has been single for far too long, and can't find a way to abandon work long enough, to rectify the situation.



Here's what I'm hoping to find...

Someone who I can be silly and flirty with, to make my day to day a bit more positive.

Something I can pretend to cuddle with and have a deeper conversation about something, whether it be some personal philosophy, belief, or even something they just enjoy. Something that cannot be discussed with others, because of how embarrassing or personal that topic is.

Lastly, somebody who isn't shy about admitting, that she enjoys a good self frisk.


What I want to avoid...

Anything real. Like names and personal scenarios. For example, if you one day decide to spice up my day by taking a picture of one of your private toys. (doesn't have to be sexual, I think a lady owning a stuffed animal is cute) I would never, however, want to see a picture of your family. I want us to fantasize about each other and avoid anything that might ruin a potential fantasy.

Yes, being a male living without a partner means that my personal needs are not being met. So horny comes with the territory. But I also have nobody I can talk about video games, movies, books and manga with.

I would like to end this message by claiming that Arcane is the best show on Netflix and Firefly is the greatest show ever made.
 
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Hello there, I saw you that you were looking for a friend so I decided to throw my hat in the ring and see if we clicked.



I'm a 32 year old dork of a man who has been single for far too long, and can't find a way to abandon work long enough, to rectify the situation.



Here's what I'm hoping to find...

Someone who I can be silly and flirty with, to make my day to day a bit more positive.

Something I can pretend to cuddle with and have a deeper conversation about something, whether it be some personal philosophy, belief, or even something they just enjoy. Something that cannot be discussed with others, because of how embarrassing or personal that topic is.

Lastly, somebody who isn't shy about admitting, that she enjoys a good self frisk.


What I want to avoid...

Anything real. Like names and personal scenarios. For example, if you one day decide to spice up my day by taking a picture of one of your private toys. (doesn't have to be sexual, I think a lady owning a stuffed animal is cute) I would never, however, want to see a picture of your family. I want us to fantasize about each other and avoid anything that might ruin a potential fantasy.

Yes, being a male living without a partner means that my personal needs are not being met. So horny comes with the territory. But I also have nobody I can talk about video games, movies, books and manga with.

I would like to end this message by claiming that Arcane is the best show on Netflix and Firefly is the greatest show ever made.
Did you just hijack my personal ad? ;) I like your style! I am probably about half of what you’re looking for, but half not - but we could keep each other company on this thread while we’re both looking?
 
I very rarely post on here (maybe once every 2-3 years!) but I thought I’d give this a try because what’s the worst that can happen? I’m somehow really busy and pretty happy in general, but also bored and lonely at the same time, and often wish I had someone to talk to.

I can be very silly at times and find it fun to joke around, but I can also hold a serious conversation. I’m an introvert, I get very anxious at times, and I love being creative. I like people who can appreciate the positive things in life even when things aren’t perfect, who are open, and who like to talk about random things. Being respectful towards women is an incredibly attractive quality in a man (although isn’t it crazy that it’s apparently rare enough to be so attractive?).

I’m 40, and if I’m honest I tend to find I get on best with people in their 30s or early 40s. I should add that I’m female - it’s not necessarily clear from my name…

If you think we might hit it off, send me a message and tell me something interesting about yourself. Or ask me a question. Or answer my rhetorical one about what IS the worst thing that could happen after me posting this?

(Oh, and if you supported Trump or Brexit, or if you think the Covid vaccine is dangerous, you probably won’t like me. I like things like science and not being xenophobic.)
So Howz your box @Ashley81 inbox of course 🤣🤣 you will be there for another 2 to 3 years sorting thru the messages. lobe your style tho
 
I’ve sorted it a couple of times already… it’s nowhere near as bad as I was warned it was going to be. I must have said something to scare off most of the men.
I would have inboxed you but alas I think I'm past my sell date if you get on better with 30 to 40 year olds as Im 64 good luck
 
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I very rarely post on here (maybe once every 2-3 years!) but I thought I’d give this a try because what’s the worst that can happen? I’m somehow really busy and pretty happy in general, but also bored and lonely at the same time, and often wish I had someone to talk to.

I can be very silly at times and find it fun to joke around, but I can also hold a serious conversation. I’m an introvert, I get very anxious at times, and I love being creative. I like people who can appreciate the positive things in life even when things aren’t perfect, who are open, and who like to talk about random things. Being respectful towards women is an incredibly attractive quality in a man (although isn’t it crazy that it’s apparently rare enough to be so attractive?).

I’m 40, and if I’m honest I tend to find I get on best with people in their 30s or early 40s. I should add that I’m female - it’s not necessarily clear from my name…

If you think we might hit it off, send me a message and tell me something interesting about yourself. Or ask me a question. Or answer my rhetorical one about what IS the worst thing that could happen after me posting this?

(Oh, and if you supported Trump or Brexit, or if you think the Covid vaccine is dangerous, you probably won’t like me. I like things like science and not being xenophobic.)
I'm sort of in the same boat. I live in Las Vegas. I'llshoot you some pictures if we click.
 
I very rarely post on here (maybe once every 2-3 years!) but I thought I’d give this a try because what’s the worst that can happen? I’m somehow really busy and pretty happy in general, but also bored and lonely at the same time, and often wish I had someone to talk to.

I can be very silly at times and find it fun to joke around, but I can also hold a serious conversation. I’m an introvert, I get very anxious at times, and I love being creative. I like people who can appreciate the positive things in life even when things aren’t perfect, who are open, and who like to talk about random things. Being respectful towards women is an incredibly attractive quality in a man (although isn’t it crazy that it’s apparently rare enough to be so attractive?).

I’m 40, and if I’m honest I tend to find I get on best with people in their 30s or early 40s. I should add that I’m female - it’s not necessarily clear from my name…

If you think we might hit it off, send me a message and tell me something interesting about yourself. Or ask me a question. Or answer my rhetorical one about what IS the worst thing that could happen after me posting this?

(Oh, and if you supported Trump or Brexit, or if you think the Covid vaccine is dangerous, you probably won’t like me. I like things like science and not being xenophobic.)
Hit me up I'm good people 💪
 
with the world the way as it is we all need a place and time time to talk to some new i am older then yu like be younger then you know what in the us would you like to see
 
Did you just hijack my personal ad? ;) I like your style! I am probably about half of what you’re looking for, but half not - but we could keep each other company on this thread while we’re both looking?
Just checking up on you, how's it going? Lately I've had this song stuck in my head, so now I'm passing it on.

 
I very rarely post on here (maybe once every 2-3 years!) but I thought I’d give this a try because what’s the worst that can happen? I’m somehow really busy and pretty happy in general, but also bored and lonely at the same time, and often wish I had someone to talk to.

I can be very silly at times and find it fun to joke around, but I can also hold a serious conversation. I’m an introvert, I get very anxious at times, and I love being creative. I like people who can appreciate the positive things in life even when things aren’t perfect, who are open, and who like to talk about random things. Being respectful towards women is an incredibly attractive quality in a man (although isn’t it crazy that it’s apparently rare enough to be so attractive?).

I’m 40, and if I’m honest I tend to find I get on best with people in their 30s or early 40s. I should add that I’m female - it’s not necessarily clear from my name…

If you think we might hit it off, send me a message and tell me something interesting about yourself. Or ask me a question. Or answer my rhetorical one about what IS the worst thing that could happen after me posting this?

(Oh, and if you supported Trump or Brexit, or if you think the Covid vaccine is dangerous, you probably won’t like me. I like things like science and not being xenophobic.)
I feel like I could have written a variation of this same message. Meaningful conversations and connections, in person or online, seem to be few and far between these days. Every interactions intent seems to either just be to graze the surface or be "the one", but we probably learn the most from a moment of vulnerability with a stranger. New ideas and ways of thinking outside our bubble. Hope you find what you are looking for and I'm always open to a conversation.
 
I very rarely post on here (maybe once every 2-3 years!) but I thought I’d give this a try because what’s the worst that can happen? I’m somehow really busy and pretty happy in general, but also bored and lonely at the same time, and often wish I had someone to talk to.

I can be very silly at times and find it fun to joke around, but I can also hold a serious conversation. I’m an introvert, I get very anxious at times, and I love being creative. I like people who can appreciate the positive things in life even when things aren’t perfect, who are open, and who like to talk about random things. Being respectful towards women is an incredibly attractive quality in a man (although isn’t it crazy that it’s apparently rare enough to be so attractive?).

I’m 40, and if I’m honest I tend to find I get on best with people in their 30s or early 40s. I should add that I’m female - it’s not necessarily clear from my name…

If you think we might hit it off, send me a message and tell me something interesting about yourself. Or ask me a question. Or answer my rhetorical one about what IS the worst thing that could happen after me posting this?

(Oh, and if you supported Trump or Brexit, or if you think the Covid vaccine is dangerous, you probably won’t like me. I like things like science and not being xenophobic.)
You sound like a witty, beautiful woman. Unfortunately I don't fit your criteria. If you ever need a friend I'm here.
 
I very rarely post on here (maybe once every 2-3 years!) but I thought I’d give this a try because what’s the worst that can happen? I’m somehow really busy and pretty happy in general, but also bored and lonely at the same time, and often wish I had someone to talk to.

I can be very silly at times and find it fun to joke around, but I can also hold a serious conversation. I’m an introvert, I get very anxious at times, and I love being creative. I like people who can appreciate the positive things in life even when things aren’t perfect, who are open, and who like to talk about random things. Being respectful towards women is an incredibly attractive quality in a man (although isn’t it crazy that it’s apparently rare enough to be so attractive?).

I’m 40, and if I’m honest I tend to find I get on best with people in their 30s or early 40s. I should add that I’m female - it’s not necessarily clear from my name…

If you think we might hit it off, send me a message and tell me something interesting about yourself. Or ask me a question. Or answer my rhetorical one about what IS the worst thing that could happen after me posting this?

(Oh, and if you supported Trump or Brexit, or if you think the Covid vaccine is dangerous, you probably won’t like me. I like things like science and not being xenophobic.)
Hello I'm new here but I am a 44m if you'd like to chat
 
I would have thought the worst that could happen is that her inbox blew up but maybe it was not as bad as imagined. Of course, it might be that there are a lot of older guys on Lit that decided not to send a PM. I am curious if Ashley has found anybody yet.
 
I would have thought the worst that could happen is that her inbox blew up but maybe it was not as bad as imagined. Of course, it might be that there are a lot of older guys on Lit that decided not to send a PM. I am curious if Ashley has found anybody yet.
My inbox is currently feeling a bit overwhelmed… mainly with perfectly polite messages, probably too early to tell whether any of them will become a genuine friendship, but I’m always hopeful :)
 
So I agree with you Trump pls dont get me started as for Brexit a disaster - yes i'm in the Uk and happy to chat and be a friend
 
My inbox is currently feeling a bit overwhelmed… mainly with perfectly polite messages, probably too early to tell whether any of them will become a genuine friendship, but I’m always hopeful :)
Guess it is better for your inbox to be overwhelmed rather than underwhelmed since that would be a bit boring. Who knows, you find might prince charming or some rouge in your next message, whatever your preference.
 
My inbox is currently feeling a bit overwhelmed… mainly with perfectly polite messages, probably too early to tell whether any of them will become a genuine friendship, but I’m always hopeful :)
Good luck! All good things in moderation of course.
 
I very rarely post on here (maybe once every 2-3 years!) but I thought I’d give this a try because what’s the worst that can happen? I’m somehow really busy and pretty happy in general, but also bored and lonely at the same time, and often wish I had someone to talk to.

I can be very silly at times and find it fun to joke around, but I can also hold a serious conversation. I’m an introvert, I get very anxious at times, and I love being creative. I like people who can appreciate the positive things in life even when things aren’t perfect, who are open, and who like to talk about random things. Being respectful towards women is an incredibly attractive quality in a man (although isn’t it crazy that it’s apparently rare enough to be so attractive?).

I’m 40, and if I’m honest I tend to find I get on best with people in their 30s or early 40s. I should add that I’m female - it’s not necessarily clear from my name…

If you think we might hit it off, send me a message and tell me something interesting about yourself. Or ask me a question. Or answer my rhetorical one about what IS the worst thing that could happen after me posting this?

(Oh, and if you supported Trump or Brexit, or if you think the Covid vaccine is dangerous, you probably won’t like me. I like things like science and not being xenophobic.)
Hi Ashley my name's is Carl I'd very much like to spend time talking to u and seeing if it goes anywhere I'm 35 retired from the army
 
I very rarely post on here (maybe once every 2-3 years!) but I thought I’d give this a try because what’s the worst that can happen? I’m somehow really busy and pretty happy in general, but also bored and lonely at the same time, and often wish I had someone to talk to.

I can be very silly at times and find it fun to joke around, but I can also hold a serious conversation. I’m an introvert, I get very anxious at times, and I love being creative. I like people who can appreciate the positive things in life even when things aren’t perfect, who are open, and who like to talk about random things. Being respectful towards women is an incredibly attractive quality in a man (although isn’t it crazy that it’s apparently rare enough to be so attractive?).

I’m 40, and if I’m honest I tend to find I get on best with people in their 30s or early 40s. I should add that I’m female - it’s not necessarily clear from my name…

If you think we might hit it off, send me a message and tell me something interesting about yourself. Or ask me a question. Or answer my rhetorical one about what IS the worst thing that could happen after me posting this?

(Oh, and if you supported Trump or Brexit, or if you think the Covid vaccine is dangerous, you probably won’t like me. I like things like science and not being xenophobic.)
Dear Ashley,

You sound like the right girl at the right moment for me.

I could use a friend and some fun, creative conversation.

PM me and/or look in your inbox.

xo
 
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