Would Any Females Relocate for the right Person?

[sfldaddy]

When you've established a trust and phone contact with someone who excites you, and you have checked that person out, say, via his or her local sex-offenders registry, would you be willing to move into that person's home for a satisfying relationship?

 

[trina_jones26]

Yes, I would definately consider it.

 

[coquettish_one]

Yep, and am doing so this September. Well, for a man, but for myself, as well. However, my relationship is a big factor in my relocation.

NYC, here I come!

 

[soakersue]

yes, I would. But then, one I am thinking of leaving mich anyway, and two have been hoping to find companionship.

 

[Centauria]

Yep Id do that..would have to be pretty sure the upheaval of moving is worth it though..I hate packing!

 

[MelissaOB23]

*nods* I would. I'm single, and a nurse..so those two things enable me to relocate easily.

 

[cowgurlred]

now im not moving halfway across the country, but yes i would if it were reasonable distance, we had met, hit it off and felt it were the best

 

[roarlittlekitty]

Nope

Definitely not.

 

[rydia57]

Different house, maybe, different state, I don't think so.

 

[sfldaddy]

Maybe I should have started another thread at the same time, only for men: would you as a guy relocate for the right girl! Now that would be interesting to know.

Now a quick comment: I have had the privilege and pleasure of meeting by email, chat, and phone some of the nicest ladies ever, via Lit. But a few have chosen tyo stop communicating with me for no apparent reason..they ignore my mail altogether. One or more of you are within this thread. I'd just appreciate the courtesy of knowing "why." And I'll never contact you again in any way, if you like. I promise. I'm neither a perv or a stalker.

Y'all come back now, y'heah?

 

[Raidho]

I have moved across the country before, and it was a bust.

I can't say that I wouldn't do it again, though, just find it highly unlikely.

 

[Canadian169]

since you kind of posed the same question for the men. I would probably not move to a different province for a girl (im in Canada). Only because I like to have my family and friends close to me.

 

[Mel123]

I would never, ever, ever move any distance for a girl. There is no right reason to move for anyone. You have to move for yourself and not another person. There is just too great of a chance of things not working out by moving for another person and not yourself...

 

[DirtyKitten]

Maybe I should have started another thread at the same time, only for men: would you as a guy relocate for the right girl! Now that would be interesting to know.

Now a quick comment: I have had the privilege and pleasure of meeting by email, chat, and phone some of the nicest ladies ever, via Lit. But a few have chosen tyo stop communicating with me for no apparent reason..they ignore my mail altogether. One or more of you are within this thread. I'd just appreciate the courtesy of knowing "why." And I'll never contact you again in any way, if you like. I promise. I'm neither a perv or a stalker.

If someone isn't answering your PM's anymore its because of two reasons

1. They have a life. And sometimes that is more important and takes precedence over an internet message board.

2. They don't want to talk to you anymore and don't feel the need to explain why.

Posting a thread about one topic, waiting for the people who won't answer your PM's to respond to it, and then calling them all out to tell you why the won't answer you anymore, in fact, does make you look like a stalker.

If someone isn't answering your PM's anymore....let it go.

 

[dc_guy]

If someone isn't answering your PM's anymore its because of two reasons

1. They have a life. And sometimes that is more important and takes precedence over an internet message board.

2. They don't want to talk to you anymore and don't feel the need to explain why.

Posting a thread about one topic, waiting for the people who won't answer your PM's to respond to it, and then calling them all out to tell you why the won't answer you anymore, in fact, does make you look like a stalker.

If someone isn't answering your PM's anymore....let it go.

Haha. Word.

 

[cobrasangel]

*nods*...if he asked me to...nothing keeping me where I am at now...*sighs*

 

[Raidho]

I would never, ever, ever move any distance for a girl. There is no right reason to move for anyone. You have to move for yourself and not another person. There is just too great of a chance of things not working out by moving for another person and not yourself...

Valid point, but semantics, really.

I figure anyone who's willing to move to be nearer to a possible mate IS moving for himself or herself. If they see possible benefit in such a move, it's not just for the other person, now is it?

Relationships aren't one sided.

 

[Sterling]

I would totally relocate for a woman... I wouldn't, however, go back to the states. I haven't really liked living there.

 

[CheekyLady]

Anything for a happy ending

I'm the deeply-devoted-life-long-commitment-seeking kind of person and I realize that my kind seems to be dying out. Therefor, to ensure this does not happen just yet with my generation passing away, I'd be willing to consider relocation if I was convinced of having a like minded person waiting for me. Of course being my stubborn and selfish self I'd try to make him consider arranging things the other way around too, but I'd probably vote for going with the most practical solution.

Would I prefer having such a relationship close by? Of course! But sometimes life challenges and blesses you in the most unexpected ways ... and in the end, like most human beings, I'll end up listening to my .

ChL

 

[ForeverStiff]

I'm the deeply-devoted-life-long-commitment-seeking kind of person and I realize that my kind seems to be dying out. Therefor, to ensure this does not happen just yet with my generation passing away, I'd be willing to consider relocation if I was convinced of having a like minded person waiting for me. Of course being my stubborn and selfish self I'd try to make him consider arranging things the other way around too, but I'd probably vote for going with the most practical solution.

Would I prefer having such a relationship close by? Of course! But sometimes life challenges and blesses you in the most unexpected ways ... and in the end, like most human beings, I'll end up listening to my .

ChL

There are some os still left? *incredulous look* I thought we were almost extinct! Nice to meet you CL

Hell yes I'd move, gamble maybe but if your heart says yes and your head says no - do it!

 

[khlarrissa]

I would not relocate for a guy, which is why I wouldn't begin any kind of relationship like that with someone who doesn't live in my city. I feel that, because I'm the woman, most men will expect me to move and I love where I live, love my life here, love my friends here and no way would I give that up just because I'm the chick.

I have had the privilege and pleasure of meeting by email, chat, and phone some of the nicest ladies ever, via Lit. But a few have chosen tyo stop communicating with me for no apparent reason..they ignore my mail altogether. One or more of you are within this thread. I'd just appreciate the courtesy of knowing "why." And I'll never contact you again in any way, if you like. I promise. I'm neither a perv or a stalker.

My guess -- and I've never communicated with you, so this is not based at all on my personal experience with you, but more based on my experience with long-distance friends and guys I've e-mailed on Match -- is that it's one of the following reasons:

1. Got busy with other stuff -- work, family, friends, non-Lit goals, etc.
2. Lost interest. (And I don't mean that to imply that you're boring or whatever. Just that the "meetings" had served their purpose in her life and perhaps she just ran out of things to say to you or to ask you about. The worst e-mail/PM is when you're sitting there, trying to think of things to say or ask so that it's more than, "Hey, what's up? So, uh, hope things are well!")

Pretty much what DirtyKitten said. =.) In general, I wouldn't take it personally.

 

[DomRick]

I met my current sub over three years ago when we both lived in San Diego. Six months after we met, I moved to Dallas with a corporate transfer. She moved out her of her own doing last September and we're not in a 24/7 D/s relationship. So far, so good. She's a cool lady and we have a lot of fun together. Never say never and always avoid always. Best wishes to all.

 

[sfldaddy]

As I write this, a real woman (not an endless flirter, and not a man saying he's a woman) is making plans to be here with me in a few days. Yes, she is relocating, and neither of us will regret it.

I promised to keep her secret until she is ready to announce who she is. She is well-known on Literotica.

God, I hate flirters!!