Working theories {or reasons why i need the interaction of Literotica BB}

[Bobtoad777]

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[Edited by bobtoad777 on 09-03-2000 at 11:24 PM]

 

[Bobtoad777]

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[Edited by bobtoad777 on 09-03-2000 at 11:25 PM]

 

[Patryn]

Now you're replying to your own thread WHEN YOU JUST COULD HAVE EDITED THE ORIGINAL!!!! DEAR GOD I'M GONNA GO MEDIEVIL ON YOUR ASS!!!

And please keep that lame "chain letter" crap on your site off the board. THAT has been discussed before. No one really likes it.

 

[Bobtoad777]

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[Edited by bobtoad777 on 09-03-2000 at 11:25 PM]

 

[Nicole]

Hey Bobtoad, I have pretty much avoided you because I try my hardest not to be nasty or arrogant to people. Take this more as advice than me being horrible ...

Get off this site, go out, find a woman, get laid. You need sex, truly you really need to get out and find someone to have sex with. You are trying too damn hard, it's annoying, if you have annoyed me (someone that is nice to the Dickheads of this board) then you are obviously annoying others too. Get a life and get laid Bob.

Please stop answering every little thing, I mean most of the time you make no sense whatsoever. You answer yourself when no-one else will, and some of the responses that you give are just so fucking stupid.

Please go get laid.

Remeber this is advice Bob ... please take it.

 

[Bobtoad777]

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[Edited by bobtoad777 on 09-03-2000 at 11:25 PM]

 

[Sonora]

Bob, sorry about your life, but Nicole DID NOTtell you to go rape some girl.

I'll repeat that: Nicole DID NOT tell you to go rape some girl.

 

[Nicole]

Calm down Bob ... I didn't ask you to go out and rape someone. I said that you need to get away from a porn site and try to find someone to have some fun with.

I took offense to the whole silver spoon thing. I work hard to be the way that I am ... Happy, friendly, outgoing, if you think that means having a silver spoon shoved up my ass and me having things handed to me on a silver platter then so be it. I'm a big believer in ... YOU make YOUR OWN Happiness, no-one else can do it for you.

If that means for you to come to a porn site and post all day/night then so be it. All I'm saying is that you need to answer subject's that you can put some input into, sometimes that means one-liners, other times it doesn't. Take your time to respond, it isn't a race to see who can answer the quickest.

I answered you under my own name, something that you asked someone else to do earlier. I took the time to let you know that if you are annoying me (someone who is nice to even the biggest dickheads that come here) then you really are annoying the others too. Just please take your time in responding and think your response through, proofread it and see if it's what you had in mind.

As for the High and Mighty Miss Nicole ... I have never put myself above anyone else here, and if you think that I have then I'm sorry for that. I take time to get to know people Bobtoad, if you think that I'm picking then I can only imagine what others are thinking about you.

Calm down and please whatever you do, think before you go out and hurt someone, even if that someone is yourself.

Try to find a site that will make you laugh, or stay with us but calm down and only answer when you really feel you have something to add. I know that I flirt and have fun, but if you notice lately I am taking more time to respond to post's and threads and I have actually been enjoying myself a lot more too.

Please Take Care Just think before you do anything.

 

[Nicole]

answer to nicole - humour was my only escape and after talking with one of you tight friends, i apologize, without humour i have nothing and if i dont have anything, right now it makes life not even worth the going on. again i said that you did not tell me to rape some one but to get laid and with all the comments about my looks today the only way for me to get laid would be to rape someone. so i guess i will just go back out into reality and wallow in the chit that is life, but thanks to your friend i wont dull out the pain of life with drugs or alcohol, ill just deal with it, probably do something ill regret but hey htats better than wasting peoples time with oneliners on the internet now isnt it.

have a nice day.

Humor is a great escape I know that, and I'm not putting you down for that. I am trying to tell you that you need to get out and find someone to make your life at least a little happy. Bob I'm the last to talk, I found my love over the net, so I'm not putting you down for that. Come online and have fun by all means, just think before you post sometimes (not all the time) just sometimes. You see some of us don't understand your sense of Humor, and that is what makes it hard.

I'm not asking you to go to drugs and alcohol, and I really don't think that my posting to you would have that affect at all. I really think you have underlying problems, as we all do in our lives.

I have said Nothing about your looks and apologize for anyone that has, but again this isn't the only problem. As far as going back into the shit of life, well Bob like I said in my last post ... You are responsible for your own happiness, I can't help you there.

Look I truly do mean good luck with all that you do, try to be happy, smile at someone walking down the street, when they smile back remember the feeling, and how you made them feel for smiling at them. Of course not everyone will smile back, just forget them (LOL). Try to make friends through clubs and groups, you would be surprised by what you find.

I'm only saying all this Bob, because it does indeed take a lot to piss me off, you managed that somehow, so I can only imagine how everyone else feels. I'm sorry that you took that as me having a go at you.

Take Care Bob

[Edited by Nicole on 09-03-2000 at 09:57 PM]

 

[Naked Hunny]

WHOA MR. TOAD!!

You do not attack people for responding to your thread!! Now i have talked to dear Nicole before and she is a sweet and caring person!! I have never seen her say anything bad before and she didnt now she gave advice. If you dont want people to respond to your threads then why the hell are you posting them?

 

[Nicole]

Naked Hunny Thank-you.

But it doesn't really matter now because Bobtoad thought it might just be better if he erase everything.

Bob if your going to stay just have fun and enjoy yourself, that's what were all here for isn't it??? Just try to make sense to ALL of us please.

Take Care

 

[Naked Hunny]

OK Mr. Toad not only is it annoying but its a NO NO to erase threads why do i have a feeling when Lasher comes back hes gonna kill Mr. Toad!!

 

[RemovedByRequest]

Hi Nicole and Hunny, You don't know me, and I should probably stay out of this, but I'm worried about bob's self esteem in all of this. He shouldn't have yelled at you, I agree, but you are telling him to have fun and make sense of all of you, but are you trying to make sense of him? It's just a question I thought should be asked, because how is he supposed to have fun when a lot of people won't let him without a big guilt trip first. He doesn't even want to be at his own party right now, and he won't hang out with me and make me laugh anymore. Please don't think I'm against you guys, cause I'm not. I have no opinion about your feelings on this matter. It's just that hasn't he taken enough?

Shyguy's plea got pretty much shot to shit by bickering on there. Several times I've tried to remind people that we can't all be alike, or be easily understood. We have to have patientce with each other. I know you are most likely trying to help, so I understand if this is not appreciated. I just think there is a butt load of hypocracy going on today>not intended to be taken personally by anyone. I don't even keep track that well of who said what here to point fingers anyway. Some may be taking this with a grain oa salt, while others may not, namely bob. He may act the uncaring tough guy, and he's being cynnical now ontop of it, but this is really bugging him and it's showing. I hope this all just blows over without the expense of loosing bob. Sincerely, B&B

[Edited by Blondandbare on 09-04-2000 at 12:10 AM]

 

[Naked Hunny]

B&B, Mr. Toad and i get along fine now we had our moments but its a lil better. Mr. Toad has emotional problems i swear. hell at one point i made a thread about a friend of mine and underage sex and his response was the girl should be raped by a group of dogs!! dont you see something wrong with this!! Trust me he isnt innocent here!! He also needs to learn some of the BB ettiquitte(sp?) before he pisses to many people off!!

 

[RemovedByRequest]

I understand where you're coming from. I realize some people don't know when certain jokes are not appropriate. I'm a little mentally ill at times though, so I guess that's why I think he can be funny. I am glad that things are better between you guys now. The biggest problem with a situation like this here BB is that people jump on and start blabbering what they think without determining what's appropriate and what's not to asy to others on here. The other problem is that it is so easy to misunderstand the meaning of what some people say.(not excuseing the dog thing and I'm sure others)

We all need video chat. It'd make it so much easier to get meanings when you can see expression. It's kind of a shame that there is more to language than words, in this case. I love it here and don't want anyone to be unhappy. I am sorry that I lost my magic wand. It just up and disappeared......Hey Wizzy!?!?!!!!! Thanks for the fill in Hunny. I'll catch ya later.

 

[Nicole]

BlondeandBare you're right .... you don't know me, and if you did you would know that it takes a lot for me to finally open up and say something.

I was NOT Putting Bob down at all, his self esteem shouldn't have even been brought into this, I know what it is like to have people jump on you (and I'm not talking on here, although it HAS happened), I was simply trying to tell Bob that he needs to get away from his so called escape "The Net", and try to find someone to love and respect him.

The Net IS a good escape and I DO know of some of the things happening in his life, but you know what ... we all have some sort of shit happening in our lives (me included), if you want to come to the net and have some fun do that, don't come on in and be an idiot. He offended Naked Hunny from the start and although that is now over he has offended others with his supposed sense of humor since.

Bob I don't want you to leave ... Far form it, but what I am asking (not telling) is that you think before you post, think of what it is that you want to or need to say and then post it. I have said on many occasions that it would kill me if someone left this board from something that I said, but Bob you really need to find the underlying problem here. This site may not be the best place to do that.

I really want for you to go out into the big world and find that special someone for you, I think that you need a big hug and some love from someone that can give you that. I do wish you the best of luck with that. But what you have to remember is that not everyone loves a smart ass and that is how you sometimes come across on here.

I'm sorry if anything I said offended you, but understand where I'm coming from too. It took a lot form you for me to say something here, you know I have already talked privately with you about something.

Bob Take Care and Good Luck

 

[Handy-Andy]

Sorry long ass post.

I woke up this morning and read this thread and I thought what the FUCK 'S been going on here edited post's with nothing there and what ever Bobtoad had done to piss Nicole off I'll never no. It taken me ages to write this and the apolgy thread has started but never mind better late than never at all.

I'm not replying to flame or slate anyone for what's happened that's not me in the words of Fred Durst "Hate is a feeling I don't really get and hate can get you in some serious shit".
I just want to try and give some advice from a single males point of view to Bobtoad and to let you know it genuine I'll let you know some details about me so you can see where the advice is coming from.

At the moment I'm single 32 , shy, I get embarrassed when a woman talks to me. I haven't had a serious relationship for just over 6 years, in that time I've had a few girlfriends nothing serious few months that's all more out of loneliness than anything else which I now realise as been wrong I'd rather be single. I work odd hour's and 6 days a week I don't go out that often and when I do it's for a quite drink with my friends not chasing women around all night but at this moment in time I'm content with my life and that's my choice.

Well Bobtoad if it's true love your looking for that can happen any time anyplace no matter what ,you will just know it's right, you could be on the net ,walking down the street or by crashing your car into the back of another and then your love of your life, your soul-mate appears , it could happen in an hour, next week or next year you never know when it will strike the only advice on this is keep you heart open and in the end you will find what you are looking for in life.

If it's sex and losing your virginity is your problem you've gotta get out into the real world you wont lose it in front of your monitor . You've gotta get out more meet people and enjoy there company and it wil happen. Like I said I don't go chasing women I've only had sex twice this year both occasion's I've not gone out looking for sex its just happened. The first was new years eve last year (1999-2000) I went to a party just been myself quite and unassuming a friends friend started chatting to me and after a while she said she wanted to have sex to celebrate the start of the new millennium so we ended back at my house havin sex has midnight struck and the other time was only two weekends ago I went with my friends to 3 day music festival , these two women were havin trouble putting there tent up (this was Friday night) I ended up giving them a hand we got chatting I mentioned it was my birthday on Sunday I left and never thought anything of it then on the Sunday evening I was watching Pulp play when they both turned up and invited me to there tent I realised one of my fantasy's that night.

So what I'm trying to say Bobtoad is GET OUT and you will GET LAID just be yourself treat women with respect , be polite, don't be a dumbass ,you don't have to be looking for sex or thinking about fucking every woman you talk to .

Hope everything works out Bobtoad anytime you want a word e-mail me or i.m you can find them in my profile, best of luck to ya.

Once again sorry everybody about this long ass post.
P.S if any authours would like to write about what happened in those two night's I would be willing to pass on detail's has i'm a crap writer and grammar is shite too.

 

[Skitten]

No wonder everyone gets pissed.