Won't someone please cheer me up?

[Exxxcaliber]

I am approaching the 1 year anniversary of my first (hopefully last) heart attack. The closer I get to this date, and it is an important one for all the romantics here in Literotica, Valentines Day, I am alomost overcome with anxiety about what I went through. Any kind words, or an occasional inspirational pic, would be greatly appreciated. Thank you, my friends.

PS If I was inapproprate in posting thsi here, I do truly apologize.

 

[SexyAmber]

Exxxcaliber

Well first I really wish I had some words of knowledge to help you through this time and make all fears go away. All I can say is that is always darkest before the dawn. And dawn always does come. Thank you for being so opening and sharing your feelings. My thoughts are with you.

::hugs him ever so tightly::

Amber

 

[Exxxcaliber]

Thank you Amber, you send me off to my job with a smile, and that helps

 

[Exxxcaliber]

And Wow! I am not a Virgin anymore!

 

[Mystical]

Excalaber I am sorry to here you are feeling fear of the up coming date but I do understand it. When I had my stroke that first year was the hardest to get through till the day came and then it really felt like I had worried for nothing. I hope you have a better Valentines day this yr.

Hugs and Loves

 

[ZoeKat]

you will be fine, cos i say so!

Never had a stroke, **thanks the universe**

can only imagine what you're going through, it's a perfectly appropriate fear..but you will be fine, i promise
cos i say so, and it's a BAD IDEA to piss me off...that stroke ghost had better run!..LOL

seriuosly though,
i bet you've really looked after yourself since?
**huggy** and a big salmon crepe**..oily fish is good for the heart

 

[White_Tigress_]

I know we don't know each other exxxcal but my feelings go out to you. Think to yourself "I made it through that hard time and Im a stronger person for it".

Not to change directions and talk about me (thats not my point here) but I did go through a hard time in '97 when I was attacked (almost murdered) and when the year mark was coming up I was terrified. I did realize though, what did hurt me mentally (and very little physically) made me such a stronger person. I now look at the world so differently....the scenery, the animals, the sky, family and friends... everything.
I know it sounds mushy, but its true. I value life much differently and don't take it for granted anymore. The year mark did come, and went just as if every day would. I stayed in the house and sobbed, but afterwards I realized I didn't need to because things could have been much worse and I should have been out celebrating living instead of being scared.

((((((((((huggs to you ))))))))))) and I know you will make it through the year mark with your head held high. Try not to remember the bad, but only the good...your still alive and able to share your feelings with us. Be strong.
Take care of yourself!

 

[Exxxcaliber]

I want those of you who replied to this thread to know how much you have brightened me! To know that there are people who would share and care like this really humbles me. Thank you all so much. I truly love you all!

 

[SexyAmber]

Day two

*dances in, in her high school cheerleading outfit with poms poms and all and a huge smile* Well you want cheer and here it is ...*takes his hand and tugs him to the Guess the bodypart thread to play a game with all of us*