Wondering .................

[mtnman2003]

I read all the authors’ names. I create images of each in my head. I use the level of comments in threads, the depth of thought, the witticism presented and more.

I create “wonder what/wonder if” fantasies.

I wonder what the person is like in real life? I wonder if they are really sexual beings like presented here?

I wonder if we would hit it off? I wonder what they look for in another?

I wonder if they play beyond their immediate mate? I wonder what they like?

We all write stories. I wonder if they actually have had 3-somes? I wonder what responses would be to same sex play?

I wonder what the response would be if the situation presented in the story were presented in real life? I wonder if we are as sexual as we pretend to be?

Do you wonder?

 

[Wills]

This should be interesting

Will's

 

[damppanties]

I wonder if we are as sexual as we pretend to be?

WHY would I need to write all these stories then?

 

[Guest]

Well, here goes...

WYSIWYG. Too damn right!

Probably. Honesty, sense of humour, ability to natter on for hours about a complete load of bollocks, and must be willing to tend to my every need.

Taking the Fifth on that one. Anything and everything, the more outrageous and daring the better, oh, and I like the intimate stuff, too, particularly hidden under a cover in the sand dunes, hot summer sun beating down, long grass swaying in the wind around us.

That's an affirmative, boo ya! That's also a definite yes, bring it on!

What took you so long? Of course, as I said, WYSIWYG.

Hell, yeah!

Lou

P.S. Wonder about me no more.
P.P.S. I'm praying some others put me out of my misery.

 

[OldnotDead]

Keep wondering

after all, isn't that the point?

Good morning, Mountain Man,

Or, maybe, at least one of the points. I've been married for over 25 years and I'm still learning things about my spouse. But I do not mean to be flippant about your questions.

In my case, my writing is based in reality. The characters stem from real people. The sites are places I know. The situations have happened. Not necessarily all at the same time, in the same places, with the same people. Besides, to provide too much personal information about reality vs fiction would cross the border on what I consider good etiquette. A gentleman doesn't tell or ask.

Along with all your wonderings about us, haven't you ever wondered 'what if' about someone else? Hasn't everyone thought, "if only I had done . . ." In my writings I get to have some second chances that I didn't have in real life. In my writings I get to put someone in a situation that I wish they had been. In my writings I get to do some things that I will probably never get to do in real life.

Am I as sexual as represented? I think so. But the only person that can really answer that is a lady and it is impolite to ask. All I can say for sure is that she hasn't left me and from time to time has been known to attack me, for which I am grateful.

That's enough for now,

 

[raphy]

I think people are pretty damn close to how they represent themselves on here. As was mentioned in that other thread about internet relationships, to construct and maintain a fake persona (even online) means more work than most folk are willing to put in.

Out of the 150-ish people I've met from the internet, only 1 or 2 have ever been different than I'd expected them to be.

I like to think I'm pretty much like I am online. Confident, chatty if a subject interests me, dynamic with a regrettable tendency to let my ego get in the way of things and take leadership of situations.

Am I as sexual as represented? Well, I dunno. You'd have to ask whisper..

 

[Guest]

I wonder what the person is like in real life? I wonder if they are really sexual beings like presented here?
A few persons here know much about my real life, but alas they cannot participate. I am probably more a sexual being than you or others might imagine.

I wonder if we would hit it off? I wonder what they look for in another?
'We' would not, not that way. I look for a particularly peculiar intelligence and virility, rarely find it but found it here a few months back (don't ask).

I wonder if they play beyond their immediate mate? I wonder what they like?
Do not have a RL mate at present but was never unfaithful or wanted to be. What I like? Good communication and good mutually satisfying fucking.

We all write stories. I wonder if they actually have had 3-somes? I wonder what responses would be to same sex play?
My stories are all utter fiction, would not invite any of the scenes into reality. Have desired same-sex sex at times but it came to nought, still open though.

I wonder what the response would be if the situation presented in the story were presented in real life?
Leave the scene.

I wonder if we are as sexual as we pretend to be?
No pretence here.

Perdita

 

[MaxSebastian]

I read all the authors’ names.

Is the word 'read' in your opening sentence in the past or the present tense? Tell me you didn't read all the authors' names!

That would be insane.


Anyway, I'm not nearly the sexual being I'm presented on Literotica. In fact in real life I'm a nun.

 

[Gary Chambers]

Truth or dare

I wonder what the person is like in real life? I wonder if they are really sexual beings like presented here?

We are mostly fiction writers. Nuff said. Not to say we aren't as sexual as we say, just that we may not be as athletic as that implies.

I wonder if we would hit it off? I wonder what they look for in another?

This is why I doubt whether we are all as active in real life as we are in our fiction. I wouldn't be surprised if the vast majority of people see themselves as being very sexual, and have good reason to believe that, but we all have some assumptions and fantasies about how that sexuality should play out. The trick is finding a partner or partners with the same set of assumptions and fantasies. For those like Destinie who seems to have found that partner, life is one big carnal merry-go-round, for the rest of us it's a seemingly endless search.

EDITED TO ADD: Like others I look first for intellect, honesty, free spirit, good manners, taste etc. The package is secondary, although I'm not going to pretend a pretty face and gorgeous figure can't melt me, because it can.

I wonder if they play beyond their immediate mate? I wonder what they like?

My wife and I live about 10,000 miles apart and have granted each other total freedom to play as we please. We remain married because we still like and trust one another. Answering the second question could overload the thread.

EDITED TO ADD: On the whole I like one-at-a time relationships. Having more than one lover in my life at one time is too complicated. But that isn't a moral thing, just a matter of practicality. Also I find most women I like want a monogomous relationship, so those are the terms. My current relationship with my wife is an exception, but we are separated and live on different continents so it isn't surprising really.

We all write stories. I wonder if they actually have had 3-somes? I wonder what responses would be to same sex play?

Never done the threesome thing, because although it sounds like fun I think I'd be disappointed. I may feel like a dog with two dicks some days, but reality is a bit more limiting. I'd be into a good orgy with the right people, however. A sexy weekend at a villa with say 30 friends who just want to have as much sex as possible before Monday morning, that sounds like great fun.

EDITED TO ADD: Same sex play doesn't interest me at all, but I do find out of the closet gay men make good friends. Most I've met have had interesting minds and refined manners. Macho bullshitters bore me to tears, and hidden homosexuals (in the closet) are irritating. I like most gay and bisexual women too, but sadly find many of them don't want to get friendly with men.

I wonder what the response would be if the situation presented in the story were presented in real life? I wonder if we are as sexual as we pretend to be?

Depends on the story. In some cases I'd be in heaven, in other cases in hell. Some are just plain impossible.

 

[Guest]

 

[Icingsugar]

I didn't know that I presented myself as a particualry sexual being.

I am a reagular Joe with regular Joe sexuality, which doesn't mean boring, bad or uninterresting. Every Joe and Jane in the world has loads of fantasies, dreams and desires. And when a Joe and a Jane with matching desires get it on, sparks will fly. It's not a matter of extreme sexual beings versus the rest.

This regular Joe happens to be into writing stories, so he makes up erotic fiction that he post on the Internet. If there was no Internet to post it on, I don't think I would had written any. But that would not make me less of a horndog.

 

[Guest]

Regular Joes: my favorites.

Perdita

 

[Guest]

I wonder what the person is like in real life? I wonder if they are really sexual beings like presented here? I am what I am like here on the boards.

I wonder if we would hit it off? I wonder what they look for in another? I can't say about this. I am still new here, though I have seem to hit it off with at least one person as a good person to cut up with and flirt with a little.

I wonder if they play beyond their immediate mate? I wonder what they like? Play? no Flirt? yes

We all write stories. I wonder if they actually have had 3-somes? I wonder what responses would be to same sex play? No threesomes here, my stories are absolute fiction. Same sex play? never experienced it, not sure I would want to

I wonder what the response would be if the situation presented in the story were presented in real life? I wonder if we are as sexual as we pretend to be? I would probably run the other direction. I don't pretend to be anything. I have no doubt that I have the potential to be as sexual as I wish I could be, but I don't have the time or the energy at present (having 4 small kids will do that to you.)

CM

 

[Icingsugar]

Ok, more proper replys too, since I thought the questions were quite good:

(I wonder, did you expect all those hands-on answers? )

I wonder what the person is like in real life? I wonder if they are really sexual beings like presented here?
See previous post. Everyone's a sexual being.

I wonder if we would hit it off? I wonder what they look for in another?
I look for the same thing in everyone I ever meet, in person, online, on the phone... decent people. And not decent as in repressed and prude, quite the opposite. Brains, spine and heart.

I wonder if they play beyond their immediate mate? I wonder what they like?
What I like? I could send you the list. I hope you have a roomy mailbox.

We all write stories. I wonder if they actually have had 3-somes? I wonder what responses would be to same sex play?
Tried both. Felt equally dumb each time. Decided that a singular female was the best focus of my attention. Have worked fine ever since.

I wonder what the response would be if the situation presented in the story were presented in real life? I wonder if we are as sexual as we pretend to be?
Already covered that in post above. I write fiction. It is not my sexuality, but my creativity. (Although they interlace a great deal.)

Do you wonder?
Honestly, naah. I know there are people here who write more unconventional things then me, but who are just Joes and Janes in theor personal life. Also, I know that there are people who have more unconventional lives in general both outside the sack and elsewhere than me. The funny thing is, that when it really gets down to it, like here, where I can't see and can't know more than I am told about people, we're all pretty much alike. So you may be a snobby wall street exec, or sport a percing setup that will get you banned from all commersial airtraffic until you die, of be a freak in a gimp suit. Here, where I don't see that, I get to know your character instead of your fashion statement.

 

[oggbashan]

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I wonder what the person is like in real life? I wonder if they are really sexual beings like presented here?

I am a King killed by the Israelites, as they recorded in the Old Testament. Since I have been dead for thousands of years I don't think I'm a particularly sexual being now. I was - but that was then.

I wonder if we would hit it off? I wonder what they look for in another?

You can't have much of a relationship with a pile of bones that turned to dust in the Bekaa valley a few millennia ago. I look for similar piles of female dust. Cleopatra is a couple of thousand years too young. Helen of Troy was about the right age but she was and is such a cock-teaser.

I wonder if they play beyond their immediate mate? I wonder what they like?

Using my memory I didn't have as many wives and concubines as Solomon but I had enough to have a different one every night for a few months and even if I had three women at once they lasted a few weeks before I met the same trio again.

We all write stories. I wonder if they actually have had 3-somes? I wonder what responses would be to same sex play?

Threesomes, foursomes, perm any numbersomes - done it. Same sex play? Watched them at it while occupied with a few more. Not interested in sex with men. Men are for filling the vacancies in my armies.

I wonder what the response would be if the situation presented in the story were presented in real life?

What could anyone do with a heap of dust?

I wonder if we are as sexual as we pretend to be?

I was. I ain't any more. I'm dead. That is D E A D.

Og

 

[gauchecritic]

I wonder what the person is like in real life? I wonder if they are really sexual beings like presented here?

Real Life? You wouldn't want to know me in real life, or at least not be seen with me.

I wonder if we would hit it off? I wonder what they look for in another?

Hitting it off. I could hit it off with just about anybody that could get past the way I sound and look. I look for exactly what I find on the boards, people who use words.

I wonder if they play beyond their immediate mate? I wonder what they like?

Only in conversation and flirting.

We all write stories. I wonder if they actually have had 3-somes? I wonder what responses would be to same sex play?

Got close to a 3-some once. Never since. Same sex play is intriguing to me but I think to wholly entice me there would need to be a soft mouth and a pair of breasts. Yes I am fascinated with transexuals.

I wonder what the response would be if the situation presented in the story were presented in real life? I wonder if we are as sexual as we pretend to be?

Given that all my stories so far present me as the protagonist (except for Xmas stories when they represented my Aunty Lo- oops) when I was much younger then yes to both.

Do you wonder?

I try to avoid wondering at all costs, because that just gives me more ideas for stories I still haven't even started.

Gauche

 

[Colleen Thomas]

I wonder what the person is like in real life? I wonder if they are really sexual beings like presented here?

I don't think I present myself quite the way I am in real life. I am a lot more open, out spoken and opinionated here, I am actually quite shy in real life situations. I do not however have to fein an interest in sex here

I wonder if we would hit it off? I wonder what they look for in another? I think I would hit it off with most people if they could get past my shyness and I could getpastmy irrational fears. All I really look for in people is brains, charm and respect of other people's ideas and feelings. Everything else is icing on the cake.

I wonder if they play beyond their immediate mate? I wonder what they like?

I don't have an immideate mate, but when I am in a relationship I demand that it be monagamous. I suppose I might make exception if my mate truely wanted to try something with more partners, but that hasn't come up as an issue in many many years.

We all write stories. I wonder if they actually have had 3-somes? I wonder what responses would be to same sex play?

I have had at least one threesome and sam sex play is fine by me. (Gee, major surprise there I am sure)

I wonder what the response would be if the situation presented in the story were presented in real life? I wonder if we are as sexual as we pretend to be?

I seriously doubt I would react to the situations I plae my characters in the way they do. But one never knows till the situation arises.

-Colly

 

[mtnman2003]

Answers to some of my own questions

Thought it would be fair to provide some personal insight:

I wonder what the person is like in real life? I wonder if they are really sexual beings like presented here?
WYSIWYG - due to position in life, under cover/in closet sexual
being........ gots to be quiet!

[I wonder if we would hit it off? I wonder what they look for in another?
Personally friendly, often come across as arrogant, elite, tactless..... but I am fun?

I wonder if they play beyond their immediate mate? I wonder what they like?
Married 30-yrs, only about 200 times......... lol. Most everything

I wonder if they actually have had 3-somes? I wonder what responses would be to same sex play?
No, came close but no luck! Still hoping for a FMF. No interest in same sex play. Have wanted to do F while hubby watched. But no luck there either.

I wonder what the response would be if the situation presented in the story were presented in real life? I wonder if we are as sexual as we pretend to be?
I have had very good encounters in real life, but stories have been on edge of what could happen. Don't think the scenario would occur, but willing to consider......... As with lots of men, little brain runs lots of thoughts...... to whether pretend or open, often sexual nature.

I hope more responses get posted. Thanks

 

[Wills]

Originally posted by mtnman2003
I wonder what the person is like in real life? I wonder if they are really sexual beings like presented here?
Pretty much what you get, Will's is an abbreviation of William. I'm 54 - elegantly grey, small beard and obligatory moustach (in Portugal for males) I range from dry to humorous depending on mood. Enjoy my own space and freedom. Perceptive of others, blind to my own achievements and shortcomings though that is changing. Sexual being? Yes, but regrettably a thinking womans plaything seeking to restore libido through writing erotica and exorcism of personal ghosts.

I wonder if we would hit it off? I wonder what they look for in another?
Depends upon too many variables. I look for intelligence, humour and strength of personality/character, everything else is secondary, though most friends are female.

I wonder if they play beyond their immediate mate? I wonder what they like?
Nope, never have, never will. Part of my libido problem is recognition of mortality and the clear knowledge that I will almost certainly never have the opportunity/desire at my age to 'play away', hence the writing. The writing also tells you my preferences.

We all write stories. I wonder if they actually have had 3-somes? I wonder what responses would be to same sex play?
Nope and No thanks.

I wonder what the response would be if the situation presented in the story were presented in real life? I wonder if we are as sexual as we pretend to be?
Been married for nigh on 30 years, had more opportunities than I care to mention, never once been tempted. I get everything I need, including support to write here. Currently all of my sexual expression is in my head, partly due to us living in seperate countries for business reasons and partly the big 'L' mentioned above.

Do you wonder?
About who the others are? Yes - but I'm getting to know some of them with time, they are just like you and me on the whole.

 

[pop_54]

Hmmmmmmm

I wonder if I should answer this honestly, the authorities monitor these sites you know

In brief I suppose I'm with Lou on this one, (wish I fucking well was), anything goes really.

Of course my good friend's Perdita's have summed it up as well, (another one I wish I could be with )

I am what I am, and I am sometimes what I claim to be, like my lad gauche, you'd probably have problems understanding me in real life, (I too take the piss without folks realising sometimes).

Yes I would, well have lived out my story lines in real life, I didn't get married until I was 30, loved those liberated 60's & 70's. Then to top it up the lovely woman I married is a kinky tart as well

Yes I have tried same sex, a number of times and to varying degrees of, shall we say, disgustingness, (is that a word?) Trannies are fun gauche lad.

Threesomes, hehe!! don't ask daft questions, been in a room full.

I do wonder if everyone here's real sometimes, but being the up front and honest sort of place it is I think there are more real one's in here AH, than any other forum.

OK, I'm off to change my name, byeee.

That really is me in the Avatar, minus the bird of course, he isn't real I'm afraid to say, and I don't think he's ever done a threesome. Oh and the patch isn't real, God I think I may have shattered a few illusions.

 

[Rumple Foreskin]

MM: I wonder what the person is like in real life?

RF: I'm as boring in RL as I am here at AH.

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MM: I wonder if they are really sexual beings like presented here?

RF: Whether in RL or at AH, sexual being-wise, I'm really uninteresting.

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MM: I wonder if we would hit it off?

RF: I've been able to get along with everyone from members of the Black Panther Party to David Duke. Hell, I even have friends who are Republicans. So depending on your tolerance for pain, we might not become chummy, but we'd probably be able to tolerate each other.

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MM: I wonder what they look for in another?

RF: If the person's IQ is higher than their BO, I'm satisfied.

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MM: I wonder if they play beyond their immediate mate?

RF: At my age, that'd be work not play.

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MM: I wonder what they like?

RF: Fudge ripple ice cream or strawberries and cream, both served inside an edible female dish.

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MM: We all write stories. I wonder if they actually have had 3-somes?

RF: From 1970-72, I was living in NYC a few blocks north of the Filmore East. You figure it out.

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MM: I wonder what responses would be to same sex play?

RF: It beats the hell out of no-sex play but IMHO, that's about it. Never turned me on after I discovered girls were usually softer and smelled better.

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MM: I wonder what the response would be if the situation presented in the story were presented in real life?

RF: About the same.

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MM: I wonder if we are as sexual as we pretend to be?

RF: If we really are as sexual as we pretending to be, then it's not pretending. Now if you meant to ask are we as sexual as we PURPORT to be, that'd be different.

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MM: Do you wonder?

RF: Nope. For me, it's not a matter of believing or not believing. I accept folks here for what they claim to be. Even it that persona is a facade, it's one they've chosen. That's good enough for me.

 

[cynter]

I wonder what the person is like in real life? I wonder if they are really sexual beings like presented here?
probably a lot more different in real life than how i represent myself here as opposed to my online persona at other sites. as for "sexual beings"...we are all sexual beings. as for my characters, they are works of fiction. the poetry, words on a page.

I wonder if we would hit it off? I wonder what they look for in another?
as for "hitting it off"...depends. what i look for.*******, simply interesting people to get to know. chat/correspond with.

I wonder if they play beyond their immediate mate? I wonder what they like?
no immediate mate to play beyond. although i have played online with others who had immediate mates. in some cases, that created difficulties and in others, not. my likes are better discussed in private.

We all write stories. I wonder if they actually have had 3-somes? I wonder what responses would be to same sex play?
never had a 3-some. or same sex play. considered both though. would like to think i'd be open if the right opportunity presented itself.

I wonder what the response would be if the situation presented in the story were presented in real life?
depends on which of my stories you're talking about....

I wonder if we are as sexual as we pretend to be?
frankly, think it is always more bravado than action. certainly has been more fantasy than reality for me of late....sigh.

well, that was mildly interesting.....yawn.....

 

[janus40s]

I wonder what the person is like in real life? I wonder if they are really sexual beings like presented here? I have not presented much here yet. However, I am very sexual in my real life.

I wonder if we would hit it off? I wonder what they look for in another?Intelligence, femaleness, intellectual/emotional strength and a willingness to use it, sensuality, tolerance.

I wonder if they play beyond their immediate mate? I wonder what they like?Occasionally and always with my spouse’s knowledge/consent. I like touching and being touched, especially with/by women in sweaters. Softness… “Inflicting” pleasure.

We all write stories. I wonder if they actually have had 3-somes? I wonder what responses would be to same sex play? Yes, wonderful experiences. Play with my same sex, no… the result of early conditioning. However, teaming up with a man to pleasure a woman, that’s fun.

I wonder what the response would be if the situation presented in the story were presented in real life? I wonder if we are as sexual as we pretend to be? I haven’t posted stories yet but I am more timid in RL than in my story writing. I am more sexual in real life than I could possibly describe.

 

[McKenna]

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[A7inchPhildo]

Oh, you didn't ask! You did ask didn't you?

My real life is a lot more interesting than my Lit life. Well, my stories are tame as no one would ever believe the true stories. My life at most times is outrageous, beyond the normal safe zone.
All I can say is Hedo rules! And it is all down hill form there babe.

I am not, (being careful not to shatter any illusions) really a 7 inch dildo with a face. I have much more stamina.