Wondering about responses

[JennyCapricorn]

Earlier I posted a personal about trying to find a playmate for my husband in my general area and didn’t get any real response. I’m curious if people thing there would be a real difference if my hubby were to post something looking for a playmate for me.

And why the difference if any? Just the gender breakdown of lit? The kink breakdown?

Curious for opinions

 

[Ched21]

I'm pretty sure there are far more men here than women, perhaps that's the reason

 

[Sparky74]

I think it might be a bit of both to be honest although I haven't had a good response rate myself.

When I've posted similar.

 

[LIDiver]

Earlier I posted a personal about trying to find a playmate for my husband in my general area and didn’t get any real response. I’m curious if people thing there would be a real difference if my hubby were to post something looking for a playmate for me.

And why the difference if any? Just the gender breakdown of lit? The kink breakdown?

Curious for opinions

Three things immediately come to mind, JenCap:
1- Yes gender breakdown, no need to discuss that further.
2- There are many cat-fishers on Lit, guys pretending to be women, people are wary of such.
3- Lit is primarily an anonymous site. Very few are willing to cross over into the real world. And then only after slowly building a trusting relationship.

Just my three cents worth.
Cheers- Diver

 

[JennyCapricorn]

Three things immediately come to mind, JenCap:
1- Yes gender breakdown, no need to discuss that further.
2- There are many cat-fishers on Lit, guys pretending to be women, people are wary of such.
3- Lit is primarily an anonymous site. Very few are willing to cross over into the real world. And then only after slowly building a trusting relationship.

Just my three cents worth.
Cheers- Diver

That second point is fair. Being on the married woman side of things looking for a woman to meet a man that hadn’t occurred to me for this but I’ve had chats in the chat room that twigged my “this isn’t right” radar.

I mean all of them are fair but I legit hadn’t thought of 2

(Though again if it were reversed… well I’ve already had men say they are interested. You men aren’t cautious enough!)