Womens opinions needed

[Tom Simms]

Hi all-

Thanks for reading this. I'm new to this page and this is my first posting here. Here goes:

I'm 21 and my girlfriend is 23. We've been going for about 3 months now and have lots of fun sex (her using toys infront of me, me giving her sexy massages and then oral sex, dirty talk, etc). We've fulfilled a bunch of her fantasies, most of which involve watching lesbian porn while we have sex or talking with a 900 number girl while I give her oral sex. She is drop dead gorgeous and I'm enjoying being with her.

There's a fantasy of mine that I haven't mentioned to her yet because I'm afraid she'll flip out. I've had this fantasy for several years but I've never mentioned it to a girlfriend because I'm worried that she'll freak out or think I'm a freak or something.

So here it is- I want to give my girlfriend a "facial." Bluntly, I want to ejaculate onto her beautiful face, just like in a Peter North porn video. I have NO idea why, but as I said it's a fantasy and I can't get it out of my mind. So I collect pic off the internet of this, and porn videos and everything, but I've never done it.

Please be frank: am I a freak for wanting to do this? I've found pics of this all over the place so I know I'm not the only guy to have these thoughts. Is there a good way to tell her this fantasy?


Thanks!
-Tom

 

[Bs]

Hey Tommy-

you know, I would not normally respond to this one but since I'm here and trying to get advice for a freind ... why not....here goes:

If she feels its OK for her to share her fantasy with you why not TRUST her with yours?

(tongue in cheek houmor to follow)

I mean come on now I just knew for sure you were going to ask about her mom and little sister, your Dalmation dog, maybe even somthing with whips and chains, and the tree in the back yard? Then you said you wanted to give her a facial ? And I'm thinking this guy is really off his rocker!! Then you go on to add that you want to use warm Cum Cream well now thats a horse of different color.

Why not start by seeing if she has any objections to any of the things mentioned above? Hells bells if she don't you got it made! If she does ask her if maybe you could put some love lotion on face. And if she hasn't walked out on you by now.... (you may want to start thinking about getting married cause this one will be a keeper!)

a few thoughts and

 

[SteamyChik]

Sound like ya'll have a pretty hot sex life as it is, why not print off a few of the cum facial shots off the net and show them to her and say how hot it makes you? If she backs away in horror screaming, then you'll know you will have to do a little bit of warming up to it. If she looks at them and just says, "Mmm, neat!" Then you'll know you can probably go for it.

On another note, I think some of the facial cum shots have just got to be joking! I mean, how can one guy have that much cum in him to give a facial you know? Huge gooey white globs all over her forehead and cheeks, chen and eyelids, great gloms of it - one guy? I don't think so!

Anyway, sheesh, just ask her.

And I LIKE the idea of whips and chains

 

[Guest]

It's not a problem at all. I did it with my bf several times, but I think that it's important for you to let her know is something you would love to do and she has to agree, don't have her do something she might not like. But you need to be open and don't be shy with her!

 

[Derya]

Go for it

It sounds as if you both must communicate fairly well in the area of sexual interests and are open minded and at a good comfort level so far. Let your GF know how much you would enjoy cumming all over her face. She may love it too who knows? Try not to be nervous when talking with her, try to be SSS(sensual, sexual, and sensitive)Remember 1)there could always be something that one or the other of you doesn't want to engage in this may or may not be one of those activities 2) sometimes you warm up to an idea over time even if hesitant for reasons at first 3) you may both be on the same playing field but unsure of the other so you hesitate

You never know until you communicate and communication is the key to extraordinary sex

 

[Celestiale]

You're not a freak at all! I think that your fantasy is definitely within the realm of normal! Don't be afraid to ask for what you want, if she's as open as you have been with her fantasies, she'll be fine with it. If it was me, and I loved the man who wanted to perform this act, I'd do it even if I didn't want to...for him, out of love and mutual respect.

 

[Tom Simms]

Thanks!

This site is great! Thanks for the opinions, I feel far less dumber

My girlfriend is coming over tonight and I'll talk with her about it then. I'll definately feel more confident in talking about it than I would if I hadn't heard some women's opinions first.

Thanks again!


-Tom


PS yah some of those facial pics off the net can't be real. I think its hand cream or something.

 

[SallyIsHere]

I had a boyfriend who liked that too. It was kinda strange because I love to swallow. I suggest that you let her close her eyes when you cum and it will be easier. I really enjoyed it and it drove him crazy. Just have fun.

 

[Tom Simms]

success!

Hi again! All I can say is DAMN! Thanks for everyone's great suggestions and opinions. I gave my girlfriend the facial of my dreams the other night and it was different and better than I imagined. If anyone cares to hear about it, I'd love to share so just let me know.

Thanks again. I'll definately post at literotica more often.



-Tom

 

[Jayderek]

congrats!

[bump]

Tom>

If you'd care to share the details...i'm sure others would be interested too!

congrats!

~jay

 

[Whispersecret]

Cool. Glad to hear everything "came" out all right.

Did you get a pic?

No? Damn.

 

[cymbidia]

Why don't you write us a story about the "Facial Of My Dreams"?

This is a story site, after all, and you seem decently literate. We won't tell your gf that you're writing about your sex life. C'mon... you know you want to...

 

[lyk2cum69]

Reply 2 cumming on a girls face...

You're not crazy at all. If you've helped your girlfriend fulfill her fantasies why should you think twice about asking her to help you with one of yours? I think you should go for it and if it was my b/f id be more than happy to let him finally live out his fantasy. Good luck!

 

[Mr_Neb]

Hey SteamyChik,

I'm not sure I got your point. Could try explaining that again, maybe with even more detail? I promise to pay much more attention.

Thanks,

Neb

 

[Jayderek]

Tom> are you still there?

well, does anyone else care to elaborate on their experiences w/ their first facial? either giving or receiving?

Did you partner enjoy it?
Have you done it more than once?

~j

 

[Mr.G]

Geez, it sounds like she's cum on your face more than once. If it turns you on that much she should return the favor. Tell her it'll make her hair all shiny and new. Tell her it rubs out wrinkles. Tell her, "Oh baby, you are so gorgeous I want to splooge all over your face." If she bites off a nut ya know you have to be a little more diplomatic.

What bugs me is the dumbness of cuming on her face. It's only done in the doity muvies so the idiots know the guy is cuming. Like who in their right mind wants to pull out of a hot sucking mouth and wave it around in the cold night air while you cum? I don't care what's underneath. Coitus interruptus stupeedus, if ya ask me.
What ever turns ya on tho....