Women who's greatest pleasure is giving pleasure....

[thedarkestfairy]

I have searched threads and been unable to find exactly what I want to talk about, so I thought I'd jump in and ask if this is a minority fetish. I truly love to please~whether my lover is a man or a woman or both~pleasing makes me wet. I love to be on my knees giving oral sex~the feel of someone's hands twisted in my hair~clutching my head and holding me still while they reach climax.... Absolutely divine!! I get so excited thinking about it that most times I have to arrange a meeting with a dear FWB to satisfy ( at least temporarily ) my wanton desires. I live in the U.P. and find myself quite alone in my sexual needs here~maybe someone here will see this!! ( Fingers crossed!! ) Even if they don't, I am hoping to find stimulating conversation here to hold me over!! So far Lit has NOT been a disappointment!!

 

[eric60red]

At last somebody who thinks as I do. I am a seeker of pleasure, I am a giver more than a receiver. I just love making other cum for me. What can we do for each other?

 

[MaddysSecret]

Actually this describes me perfectly. I love to please. Always have. I can orgasm just from the pleasure I perceive I am giving my partner.

 

[iusecreatine]

...yes!

very arousing for me
when the lady i am with is getting what she wants.

 

[Soberew]

I agree wholeheartedly. I have discovered that watching another person(man or woman) become overtaken by pleasure that I am giving is the ultimate aphrodisiac. It's almost more exciting than receiving my own pleasure. So glad to know that I'm not alone in this.

 

[MeltformySir]

This is a big factor of why I enjoy my sexually submissive nature so much. Pleasuring another is the ultimate turn on.

 

[thedarkestfairy]

It's a relief to know I'm not alone!! I thought I was crazy~someone (I'm awful with names lol) above mentioned that they can achieve orgasm simply from pleasing their partner!! and all this time.... I knew I was in the right place!! The eye roll is what I look for~that and curled toes lol those two things let me know every time I've managed to "hit the spot!!"

 

[shaved7]

My wife is the same way, she loves guving oral pleasure and most times will cum just by suckingssomeone off.

 

[rosco rathbone]

It's a good thing they exist, or self-centered bastards like me would be in trouble.

 

[TheLM]

Can I just say that I appreciate this fetish, as a recipient of massive pleasures?

 

[thedarkestfairy]

Can I just say that I appreciate this fetish, as a recipient of massive pleasures?

And people like you guys are the ones I derive the most pleasure from taking care of!! Those who are open and unashamed to voice their desires and take what they need~leaving those like myself breathless!!~are priceless!!

 

[Lostnhere262]

I have searched threads and been unable to find exactly what I want to talk about, so I thought I'd jump in and ask if this is a minority fetish. I truly love to please~whether my lover is a man or a woman or both~pleasing makes me wet. I love to be on my knees giving oral sex~the feel of someone's hands twisted in my hair~clutching my head and holding me still while they reach climax.... Absolutely divine!! I get so excited thinking about it that most times I have to arrange a meeting with a dear FWB to satisfy ( at least temporarily ) my wanton desires. I live in the U.P. and find myself quite alone in my sexual needs here~maybe someone here will see this!! ( Fingers crossed!! ) Even if they don't, I am hoping to find stimulating conversation here to hold me over!! So far Lit has NOT been a disappointment!!

So question: with the and on the head is it more of a forceful throat fuck or just a holding in place?

 

[thedarkestfairy]

So question: with the and on the head is it more of a forceful throat fuck or just a holding in place?

That depends on the mood lol Either way is perfectly exquisite for me!!

 

[aching1]

I completely agree... I love to please my partner first and foremost

 

[lavenderfresh]

Like ~ FWB too.

 

[tammyw]

I have searched threads and been unable to find exactly what I want to talk about, so I thought I'd jump in and ask if this is a minority fetish. I truly love to please~whether my lover is a man or a woman or both~pleasing makes me wet. I love to be on my knees giving oral sex~the feel of someone's hands twisted in my hair~clutching my head and holding me still while they reach climax.... Absolutely divine!! I get so excited thinking about it that most times I have to arrange a meeting with a dear FWB to satisfy ( at least temporarily ) my wanton desires. I live in the U.P. and find myself quite alone in my sexual needs here~maybe someone here will see this!! ( Fingers crossed!! ) Even if they don't, I am hoping to find stimulating conversation here to hold me over!! So far Lit has NOT been a disappointment!!

Guilty as charged! I find my deepest sense of pleasure from pleasing my sexual partners. Whether it is sex with my husband or the ladies I play with on occasion, what turns me on and gets me off the most is watching them writhe with pleasure and cum for me. Often I find that my own orgasms are triggered by my partner's orgasms. Pleasing my husband or partners makes me feel so fullfilled and is unbelievably gratifying. My desire to please my husband has even lead to my research and eventual introduction to our sex life of prostate massage.

 

[Hipshot1554]

I have searched threads and been unable to find exactly what I want to talk about, so I thought I'd jump in and ask if this is a minority fetish. I truly love to please~whether my lover is a man or a woman or both~pleasing makes me wet. I love to be on my knees giving oral sex~the feel of someone's hands twisted in my hair~clutching my head and holding me still while they reach climax.... Absolutely divine!! I get so excited thinking about it that most times I have to arrange a meeting with a dear FWB to satisfy ( at least temporarily ) my wanton desires. I live in the U.P. and find myself quite alone in my sexual needs here~maybe someone here will see this!! ( Fingers crossed!! ) Even if they don't, I am hoping to find stimulating conversation here to hold me over!! So far Lit has NOT been a disappointment!!

I'm curious...what happens when you are with someone that feels the same way as you do? Is it disappointing, or does it last twice as long?

 

[big_heart_nerd]

I get so turned on by people that love to give pleasure personally I do not want anything from them unless they love to give pleasure first. so you don't get none unless you love to give some

 

[soflabbwlvr]

A few years ago I knew a woman like that. She made no demands in bed, expressed no desire for gratification, and was completely happy to do anything I requested. She complied immediately and enthusiastically with any request. "No" was simply not in her vocabulary. To this day I still don't know if she was just a pleaser like the OP described, or if her submissive streak colored every response she gave, or if she was conditioned in some way by her preference for much older men. I never found out exactly what motivated her, but I sure enjoyed the hell out of knowing her.

 

[October46]

I have searched threads and been unable to find exactly what I want to talk about, so I thought I'd jump in and ask if this is a minority fetish. I truly love to please~whether my lover is a man or a woman or both~pleasing makes me wet. I love to be on my knees giving oral sex~the feel of someone's hands twisted in my hair~clutching my head and holding me still while they reach climax.... Absolutely divine!! I get so excited thinking about it that most times I have to arrange a meeting with a dear FWB to satisfy ( at least temporarily ) my wanton desires. I live in the U.P. and find myself quite alone in my sexual needs here~maybe someone here will see this!! ( Fingers crossed!! ) Even if they don't, I am hoping to find stimulating conversation here to hold me over!! So far Lit has NOT been a disappointment!!

I love to please, I revel in the feelings I get from someone enjoying my sexual stimulation and I live to hear them moaning with sexual excitement as I pleasure their body!

 

[elocin13]

yes, indeed! And not, it's not rare at all. What you are describing is a key component of being a submissive. I am submissive mostly because I just naturally LOVE to please. You might look into the BDSM forum as well. It's not all about whips and chains.

 

[kristine81]

Me too!

It's refreshing to see I'm not alone in this! I absolutely love being used to pleasure, so much so that my "climax" isn't even my orgasm, but my partner's orgasm

 

[Jackotheshadows]

Haven't run across this much, I have to say I like the idea....

 

[gregy70]

I've cum on the sheets while I've been going down on my fiancé , so I totally get it.
The hands on the back of my head pulling me into her as she orgasms normally brings mine aswell.

 

[sata85]

Not a woman, but essentially, yeah. I do like sex, but I love all the stuff that goes before (and comes after) even more. I love doing things, whatever they might be.