Women who love to be choked?

[RachelWalsh]

Are there actually women like this? I am not. I feel like this is some misogynistic porn trend.

I mean I am good with getting my ass slapped, some hair pulled; call me a slut. It can all be hot, but the idea of a man getting that much closer to killing me? I don't see the appeal.

What are we thinking here?

 

[victorwade]

I think you're right about that.. but though there are women who still find mind blowing to them

 

[susurrus]

Everybody's into something. Don't understand all the choking... or the spitting, for that matter. Seems like there's a lot more of that, too.

As long as both sides of the encounter are into it and it doesn't get out of hand...

 

[RachelWalsh]

I don't want to let go of this.

 

[shaved7]

I’ve been with three women who have liked it. Two of them requested it themselves and pulling my hand to their throat. Another I just gently put my hand around her throat feeling her out and she herself was surprised how much she liked it. The two that asked me for it wanted it hard though, so hard I was uncomfortable doing it. Like to the point of not breathing and about to pass out

 

[CuttingEdge]

My ex-wife was really into this. It was difficult for me at first because I really loved her and would never want to hurt her, but it was something that she craved during sex, and eventually I warmed up to it. It never got out of hand, but I liked doing it, but only because it made her orgasms really powerful. That is what a husband is supposed to do.

But I am not sure what is so hard to understand about other women enjoying it: generally, in life anything that excites and scares us, is the exact thing we should do to keep life from being mundane.

 

[JugheadJane]

I love being choked by men, but only if they know what they’re doing (the correct hand placement and grip strength). On a scale of 1-10, choke me at an 8. I love the feeling of being overpowered and dominated. Choking reminds me that the men I’m with are physically stronger than I am and can do what they want with me, and it’s the hottest thing to do to me when I’m in the mood for that type of sex.

Edited to say, I only allow choking with people I trust.

 

[fma20fma]

risky move. not interested in it.

 

[RachelWalsh]

I love being choked by men, but only if they know what they’re doing (the correct hand placement and grip strength). On a scale of 1-10, choke me at an 8. I love the feeling of being overpowered and dominated. Choking reminds me that the men I’m with are physically stronger than I am and can do what they want with me, and it’s the hottest thing to do to me when I’m in the mood for that type of sex.

Edited to say, I only allow choking with people I trust.

Gosh. Scary, I never thought of it that way, and hope you aren't making me think twice. Thanks for being so honest.

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

Are there actually women like this? I am not. I feel like this is some misogynistic porn trend.

I mean I am good with getting my ass slapped, some hair pulled; call me a slut. It can all be hot, but the idea of a man getting that much closer to killing me? I don't see the appeal.

What are we thinking here?

I’ve never met one but I’m going to go out on a limb and say this is a generational thing. If we take a poll, I’m willing to bet the above posters all skew younger.

It is most definitely a porn trend, although I’m not sure how misogynistic you can label it, as it’s always framed (from what I’ve seen) as consensual.

I’ve debated the role of porn on what is “acceptable“ in society on this forum several times and this surely falls into that debate. The technical term is erotic asphyxiation (partner induced) or autoerotic asphyxiation (Self induced). These terms didn’t even enter the lexicon until the early ‘70’s (although I’ll admit it surely went on before it was named) and porn has surely fanned the flames and pushed the limits with this as with other “kinks.”

I personally don’t think I could do this no matter how much someone wanted it as I’d be scared of hurting them. I‘m not throwing cold water on anyones thing, but I, like you, don’t get it.

 

[petes478]

Are there actually women like this? I am not. I feel like this is some misogynistic porn trend.

I mean I am good with getting my ass slapped, some hair pulled; call me a slut. It can all be hot, but the idea of a man getting that much closer to killing me? I don't see the appeal.

What are we thinking here?

It can be highly erotic when the other variables are in place. The woman should be with someone she knows and trusts etc. I don’t think it’s a generational thing. I’ve been in some long term extra marital affairs over the years with woman significantly older than me urging me on. Turns them on and when I see this then it turns me on extremely strong. Just fyi.

 

[creative1772]

Are there actually women like this? I am not. I feel like this is some misogynistic porn trend.

I mean I am good with getting my ass slapped, some hair pulled; call me a slut. It can all be hot, but the idea of a man getting that much closer to killing me? I don't see the appeal.

What are we thinking here?

i was once with a hypersexual lady who was in a sexless marriage.
she was trying to explore a lifetime of sexuality all at once, so she was open and eager for anything.
the smallest attention would bring her to orgasm. she could cum by verbal command.

and it turned out that she absolutely loved being choked.

she was very into submission and the choking was just an aspect of this. it assumed it was completely mental for her. all i had to do was place my hand around her throat and she was done. i did not even have to squeeze, which was fine with me as i wasn't very keen on the idea for safety reasons.

so, we were fooling around on the couch with her hands tied behind her back, playing around with "choking" and i stood up to reposition her. i brought her to her feet and turned my head for a moment... and she dove, throat first, into the crook of my elbow.
she was out immediately, and i totally freaked. luckily, she came to almost instantly. she was absolutely exhilarated by it and was excited to do more, but i had to put a stop to it, and wouldn't even "choke" her from that point on.

in the end, i don't think that she physically enjoyed being choked. it was all the mental aspect of it. the anticipation of it, and the rush after it was done. i don't think she got off on pain, or the idea of being killed, but she definitely liked the idea of being "used" as a sex object. being taken by her partner with no regard for her own wants or desires.

ironically, it took a lot of work and effort on my part to use her as though i didn't care about her wants, lol

 

[petes478]

i was once with a hypersexual lady who was in a sexless marriage.
she was trying to explore a lifetime of sexuality all at once, so she was open and eager for anything.
the smallest attention would bring her to orgasm. she could cum by verbal command.

and it turned out that she absolutely loved being choked.

she was very into submission and the choking was just an aspect of this. it assumed it was completely mental for her. all i had to do was place my hand around her throat and she was done. i did not even have to squeeze, which was fine with me as i wasn't very keen on the idea for safety reasons.

so, we were fooling around on the couch with her hands tied behind her back, playing around with "choking" and i stood up to reposition her. i brought her to her feet and turned my head for a moment... and she dove, throat first, into the crook of my elbow.
she was out immediately, and i totally freaked. luckily, she came to almost instantly. she was absolutely exhilarated by it and was excited to do more, but i had to put a stop to it, and wouldn't even "choke" her from that point on.

in the end, i don't think that she physically enjoyed being choked. it was all the mental aspect of it. the anticipation of it, and the rush after it was done. i don't think she got off on pain, or the idea of being killed, but she definitely liked the idea of being "used" as a sex object. being taken by her partner with no regard for her own wants or desires.

ironically, it took a lot of work and effort on my part to use her as though i didn't care about her wants, lol

Yes. You say it well when you say she wasn’t needing pain, wasn’t getting off on coming close to being killed, it’s nothing like that. It’s as you say a “mental” thing. A state of mind. “ I’m just a sexy girl men want to fuck and they do big and strong.” It taps into all the classic archetypes. It’s about loss of control, being the focus of his attention, oh and the big hard dick Comes with this too? Sold. Not that I’m selling this. Merely explaining.

 

[creative1772]

A hand around or grasping my throat is hot, but cutting off air supply isn't. At least for me

i think this is how it is for most people...
but there are always those few that want to take things a step further....

 

[petes478]

Yeah. It’s like there is a range of behaviors from light to extreme. A continuum

 

[EmilyMiller]

Are there actually women like this? I am not. I feel like this is some misogynistic porn trend.

I mean I am good with getting my ass slapped, some hair pulled; call me a slut. It can all be hot, but the idea of a man getting that much closer to killing me? I don't see the appeal.

What are we thinking here?

There is choking and choking.

In the past, very occasionally, in the right circumstances and when I knew I was actually totally safe, a hand on my neck lightly squeezing could be highly erotic for me. But really squeezing hard, as in trying to keep you quiet and compliant is truly horrible.

Related to this, I used to sometimes play breath control games back in the day. My nose pinched while my mouth was otherwise blocked. But again with someone who I trusted entirely and knowing I would be OK. I knew what I had to do to be able to breathe again and I knew that the signal would be acted on immediately.

So it was a game, it was artificial. I got off on the facade of my breath being controlled, but it was just a facade. Someone doing that “for real”‘ would, I imagine, be just as terrifying as someone squeezing your windpipe for real is.

Em

 

[CuttingEdge]

And that is why some women really like it. They say in life, do something that absolutely terrifies you, and yet excites you.

I love where I work as an example. I work at extreme heights, and it absolutely terrifies me, but yet it is thrilling too. I see things that only a very few people in the world get to see. Yet very few people would ever follow me to the very top...

It is that way with choking. Not every lady would do it, but for those that do, they find it terrifying and yet excitedly orgasmic.

 

[hopeful_wife]

When I'm a little light-headed from having my oxygen limited, my orgasms are much more intense. It's amazing.

 

[anniebaby10]

Are there actually women like this? I am not. I feel like this is some misogynistic porn trend.

I mean I am good with getting my ass slapped, some hair pulled; call me a slut. It can all be hot, but the idea of a man getting that much closer to killing me? I don't see the appeal.

What are we thinking here?

I agree with you...... totally dangerous as well.

 

[13Fantasies]

When I'm a little light-headed from having my oxygen limited, my orgasms are much more intense. It's amazing.

This is why one of my friends likes it

 

[LadyJS]

Are there actually women like this? I am not. I feel like this is some misogynistic porn trend.

Choking is a violent act, often perpetrated by men towards women not through sex but triggered by anger. And as someone who's experienced choking first hand because of another's anger towards me, I can't for the life of me understand how anyone views this as some sort of erotic experience. It's violence, pure and simple.

 

[HoldYouDown]

Are there actually women like this? I am not. I feel like this is some misogynistic porn trend.

I mean I am good with getting my ass slapped, some hair pulled; call me a slut. It can all be hot, but the idea of a man getting that much closer to killing me? I don't see the appeal.

What are we thinking here?

Have dated a few who were into it (their idea). The first time a girl took my hand and put it on her throat and squeezed it, it took me aback.

To each her own I say.

 

[seekingAlpha]

My submissive enjoys choking so much it is reserved as a treat for her and she must earn it by meeting expectations . She gets so turned on that she will orgasm from me just wrapping my hand around her throat and lightly squeezing it. She completely enjoys being choked almost to the point of unconsciousness while she orgasms and it greatly intensifies her pleasure. Her favorite sexual positions always include me squeezing her throat and using her neck for leverage while we have sex. I have had quite a few submissives and slaves over the years and they have all enjoyed being choked during foreplay and while having sex. Always focus on the safety of your partner while engaging in choking or strangling.

 

[petes478]

Choking is a violent act, often perpetrated by men towards women not through sex but triggered by anger. And as someone who's experienced choking first hand because of another's anger towards me, I can't for the life of me understand how anyone views this as some sort of erotic experience. It's violence, pure and simple.

Yes it’s not for everybody. It’s where trust and confidence are both in place.

 

[petes478]

Def turns me on .....and him

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