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A thread about guys who love to suck dick, but think they are being discrete and honey bear knows that her husband loves the dick.

Me for instance. Just like a about a ton of other guys on here. I love my girl and our sex is fulfilling. But, I have a desire that she cannot provide. She knows this and has stated that I may indulge in my fantasy, but due to my upbringing (Roman Catholic) and the fact I feel like I am cheating on her, I can't do it. So for you experienced people out there. How do you handle knowing that your man wants the dick and keeping things in check with the relationship?
 
A thread about guys who love to suck dick, but think they are being discrete and honey bear knows that her husband loves the dick.

Me for instance. Just like a about a ton of other guys on here. I love my girl and our sex is fulfilling. But, I have a desire that she cannot provide. She knows this and has stated that I may indulge in my fantasy, but due to my upbringing (Roman Catholic) and the fact I feel like I am cheating on her, I can't do it. So for you experienced people out there. How do you handle knowing that your man wants the dick and keeping things in check with the relationship?

Hey, my wife found out all about my cock fetish and cocksucker desires while we were dating. I had delved into it enough that it wasn't something I "needed" to pursue as much.

She desires monogamy and I'm enjoying it too but could see wanting to pursue a J/O buddy type friendship at some point.
She initially was cool with fantasy role play with a dildo once in awhile but was just being a good sport.

It would definitely not be something she would want me to pursue but I'd definitely let her know if I wanted to go beyond fantasy again.

I'm lucky to have played out my fantasy numerous times ,I feel for you guys with craving that feel stuck. I prefer to just be honest as possible as let things unfold
 
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I had a girlfriend that knew I sucked cock and she watched me a couple of times. Was hot.
 
A thread about guys who love to suck dick, but think they are being discrete and honey bear knows that her husband loves the dick.

Me for instance. Just like a about a ton of other guys on here. I love my girl and our sex is fulfilling. But, I have a desire that she cannot provide. She knows this and has stated that I may indulge in my fantasy, but due to my upbringing (Roman Catholic) and the fact I feel like I am cheating on her, I can't do it. So for you experienced people out there. How do you handle knowing that your man wants the dick and keeping things in check with the relationship?

This is just my perspective and I respect your feelings on how you handle it for yourself.
If I was in your shoes I wouldn't consider it cheating if she knew and encouraged you to indulge. Think of it as a hobby or going and playing cards with the guys. Most of us would love to be in your position and would most likely take advantage of it and have some fun.
My wife knows I want to explore with men and even include her. She is not willing to open our marriage nor let me explore on my own. And the kicker, she doesn't want sex very often if at all. Has even made comments like"why bother you just want more than I can give you"
So now for the past several years after opening up to my wife I've actually ruined my sex life and hers..
Try toys if you don't want to go outside your marriage, maybe she would be receptive to that and you would get some satisfaction from it and it might sate you enough to not want the real thing, but then again it might make you want the real thing even more...
 
I had an ex who loved knowing AFTER the fact. As long as I was safe and smart she was only with me hooking with guys. Even visited a bathhouse in Montreal for a few-5hrs sucking cock all night, for back to my hotel and called her to tell her about it. She was soo happy for me and loved hearing about it all. However, my ultimate goal is to have a poker group who shares the desire and we just enjoy playing cards and eachother.
 
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