Women who have cheated

[KristainSC]

I am looking to connect with women who have cheated, might be good to get perspectives from others, what they felt after? Mentality and physically

 

[LukSkyFokker]

I am looking to connect with women who have cheated, might be good to get perspectives from others, what they felt after? Mentality and physically

Don't worry, Que will take you back in a heartbeat.

 

[MartinHeidegger]

Don't worry, Que will take you back in a heartbeat.

I hear he'll even let her keep her bull, as long as he gets to watch.

 

[LukSkyFokker]

I hear he'll even let her keep her bull, as long as he gets to watch.

I've been watching No Activity lately and one of the cops has a live-in bull for his wife. They are all on the same AT&T Family Plan to save the bull money. Que should sue for copyright infringement.

 

[KristainSC]

I hear he'll even let her keep her bull, as long as he gets to watch.

Is it that hard for you guys to keep the politics out of everything? God forbid someone have a different viewpoint than you.

 

[MartinHeidegger]

Is it that hard for you guys to keep the politics out of everything? God forbid someone have a different viewpoint than you.

Who said anything about politics?

 

[LukSkyFokker]

Is it that hard for you guys to keep the politics out of everything? God forbid someone have a different viewpoint than you.

I doubt anything you do could make it hard, bro.

 

[KristainSC]

Who said anything about politics?

Perhaps I am just not following what you guys are talking about.
If that’s the case my apologies

 

[policywank]

I am looking to connect with women who have cheated, might be good to get perspectives from others, what they felt after? Mentality and physically

I cheated on my husband years ago. It led to the opening up of our marriage (although that was not my intent).

 

[lovetoread]

are you being mean to the n00bs, luk?

 

[KristainSC]

I cheated on my husband years ago. It led to the opening up of our marriage (although that was not my intent).

My husbands jealousy would never allow something like that to happen. Did you tell him or did he find out that you were with someone else?

 

[policywank]

My husbands jealousy would never allow something like that to happen. Did you tell him or did he find out that you were with someone else?

I told him, almost right away. It wasn't a matter of having strong feelings for the other guy or being unsatisfied with my husband. It was just sort of a byproduct of circumstances. It helped me realize that I am just not meant to be sexually exclusive.

 

[KristainSC]

I told him, almost right away. It wasn't a matter of having strong feelings for the other guy or being unsatisfied with my husband. It was just sort of a byproduct of circumstances. It helped me realize that I am just not meant to be sexually exclusive.

I totally get that. I am glad it all led to adding to your marriage and relationship

 

[LukSkyFokker]

are you being mean to the n00bs, luk?

Only on Fridays.

 

[silver gurl]

Quote:
“Unfortunately I acted before we divorced and that will probably hurt me in the long but I can’t undo it at this point”
__________________
48 year old married mom of two.


Just curious, are you married or divorced or both

 

[LukSkyFokker]

Quote:
“Unfortunately I acted before we divorced and that will probably hurt me in the long but I can’t undo it at this point”
__________________
48 year old married mom of two.


Just curious, are you married or divorced or both

"I'm a dude who cheated and hoping you all will give me the OK and a free pass because of my female persona."

 

[juttjaw]

Quote:
“Unfortunately I acted before we divorced and that will probably hurt me in the long but I can’t undo it at this point”
__________________
48 year old married mom of two.


Just curious, are you married or divorced or both

Crickets.

 

[jaF0]

Is it that hard for you guys to keep the politics out of everything? God forbid someone have a different viewpoint than you.

Hey, you're the one who jumped into the poli board and proclaimed yourself to be a conservative.

 

[rockcasbah]

I am looking to connect with women who have cheated, might be good to get perspectives from others, what they felt after? Mentality and physically

Silver’s a homewrecker, try PMing her.

 

[silver gurl]

"I'm a dude who cheated and hoping you all will give me the OK and a free pass because of my female persona."

Crickets.

Yep
Alt’s these days

 

[rockcasbah]

Will the guilty please deflect the OP?

Thanks!

 

[Fuzzy1975]

I am looking to connect with women who have cheated, might be good to get perspectives from others, what they felt after? Mentality and physically

The GB and PB are not places where much comfort is given, and if you are going to post in them, be prepared ....

As to cheating, well if you or your husband had gotten quick and early medical treatment for his penal disorder, then perhaps you and your hubby would not be in your predicament.

Then again, maybe you are just using the Peyronie's as an excuse to act on your own desires ....

 

[EnglishStud]

This is an interesting one as, allegedly, 85% of females would forgive (not forget) an unfaithful male. Men however take this much, much harder and the statistic is as low as 20%

Oh, as Peyronie's disease has been mentioned, that predicament can lead to the most awesome orgasms for female recipicants. True

 

[policywank]

I totally get that. I am glad it all led to adding to your marriage and relationship

There was a bit off a rocky period before things got better.

I gather from your other posts that this is on your mind at least in part due to some sexual frustrations in the marriage. Personally I believe that sex and intimacy are an integral part of marriage. Denying that to one's spouse is every bit a betrayal of the marriage commitment as is cheating. Obviously two wrongs don't make a right and I don't know that I could ever make the argument that cheating is "justified".

But one of the better pieces of advice I received on personal relationships is that nobody (including your SO) gets to tell you how to feel. They may choose to ignore your feelings or put their own ahead of yours but they don't get to invalidated them. If your feelings on the matter are genuine then they are valid regardless of what anybody else thinks. And I do believe it is fair to take the position of insisting upon your SO at least recognizing the validity of your feelings. That might not lead to a resolution but it cuts off the path of being dismissive of your point of view. And when you do that you at least you can make clear that his alternatives are to respond in a constructive way or admit that he is not willing to do so (rather than hiding behind some other reason/excuse).

 

[5minL8]

Interesting topic timing-

Funny how sometimes the universe sends you things because you need them for a clearer understanding. I actually just joined because of a Cosmo article that discusses alternate methods when your husband is no longer supplying the “husbandly duties” in the bedroom. They suggest therapy and all of the normal things. Are you keeping yourself attractive, Are you putting him before the kids, Does he feel respected, etc etc. but in the comments, a married woman wrote that she found a sense of belonging and relief here. So, literotica.com has been discovered.

I have not cheated on my husband. I hold my family values very deeply and like a lot of others, stay for the children. I do plan on leaving though and filing for a divorce and I would like to do that with a clear Conscience. He is aware off my discontent but we continue to move along, going through the motions, waiting for the inevitable. We both know that this form of existence is not sustainable.

In the interim, I just want to feel The connection of another. Flirting is such an art form and I’m not a shy woman, but I wouldn’t go out of my way to approach a man that I found attractive. I secretly dream of the day that I can be on a dating site and just enjoy the banter and fun. Going on dates again, being courted, falling in love. Holding hands for the first time in years, kissing different lips deeeply and passionately, feeling the rush of heat and know that the burn will be quenched by exactly what I want.

I wait and will hope to find some like minded individuals to enjoy. Until then, I will enjoy reading your post and seeing how others lives have been changed by cheating, good or bad.