Women - what if your SO came on your face while you were sleep?

[redfunguy]

im sure the wife wouldnt mind as long as i let her shoot me in the face with a gun


dude i would not do what you are thinking....she is going to be pissed...even if she IS into cum on her face...shes getting jizzfaced while she is unaware and unaroused




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[Tooch McGroin]

Just a few things:

1. A "good relationship" is not denoted by whether or not your S/O allows you to do things that s/he may not be in to but allows it anyway. That's a doormat, and I would think that is the poorest of relationships.

2. A kink between two people or a kink for one which the other is willing to engage in, is very different from simply engaging in something without seeing how your partner feels about it. I'm sure if a woman has a kink to paint her (male) partner's fingernails bright red, does it while he sleeps without verifying it with him first, then wakes him up with barely enough time to get to work, he might be just, um, a bit irritated? Especially if she doesn't have any nail polish remover....

3. Your girlfriend has asked you to do this - a far cry from the way the question was asked here. In other words....to simply surprise her.

4. A lot of the women who responded that they would not like a man to shoot their spunk while she sleeps and without having discussed it previously, would be considered kinky - in some cases, very kinky. Allowing a man to do whatever he wishes, without regard to how his woman feels and having her "put up and shut up" is not necessarily considered kinky. It's considered oppressive and demeaning to a lot of women.

1. It's a "good relationship" when both sides are in love and enjoy playful, kinky sex without trespassing against each other. If sexual roleplay involves playing as a doormat, what's the harm in that? If my woman wants me to wipe my feet on her, or wants me to be her doormat, and we both approach this in good humor: how can you say it's a bad thing?

2. If my girl paints my fingernails while I sleep, it's her notion of a prank. I'd have to be a humorless grump to not see that. I woudn't wake up, throw a fit, punch her face, cut her clit off or kill her. Some of the responses on this thread are insane.

3. Yeah, my girlfriend asked me to do this, to surprise her. She likes surprise sex. And she discovered that she liked surprise sex when someone surprised her with sex. What this guy wants to try is a gamble. But does it warrant having his cock severed? Does it warrant him being killed?

4. Let's turn your point around: A man allowing his woman to do whatever (sexually) she wishes to him, without regard to how he feels and having him "put up and shut up"... is often the basis of a dominatrix/slave relationship. And it's often kinky. To be sexually oppressive and demeaning might be the entire point. This isn't about any battle of the sexes. This is about two people enjoying some kinky sexplay.

 

[Lynnezertorte]

Personally its a repugnant attitude to me, but thats the way it is in some places. Kardon's original post and his subsequent followup post suggest that he is very immature.

Did I miss something? I don't see where Kardon made a follow-up post. It appears to me that he made his initial post and then ran which tells me he only posted that to get a reaction.....and what a reaction he got.

And for those who are stating that a man doesn't deserve to be killed for cumming on a woman's face while she is sleeping.......I think you need to lighten up and realize that to a woman the thought of someone doing that is like you picturing someone kicking you in the balls.....not a pleasurable thought.......we wouldn't literally kill the guy....just figuratively.

 

[Tooch McGroin]

And for those who are stating that a man doesn't deserve to be killed for cumming on a woman's face while she is sleeping.......I think you need to lighten up and realize that to a woman the thought of someone doing that is like you picturing someone kicking you in the balls.....not a pleasurable thought.......we wouldn't literally kill the guy....just figuratively.

Whoa. Kicking in the balls? That is a painful assault. Potentially very damaging. How does that equate to a spoonful of hot cum on your face?

 

[Lynnezertorte]

Whoa. Kicking in the balls? That is a painful assault. Potentially very damaging. How does that equate to a spoonful of hot cum on your face?

I said the thought of it.....not the actuality. It's not a pleasant thought to think about as thinking about someone cumming on our face is not a pleasant thought. To females, most of us anyway, it's in the top ten of things that would really piss us off.

 

[dollface007]

An extreme response. So, at your murder trial, your defense will be something like: "he shot his wad on my doll face while I was sleeping, and I HATE that!"

I agree with catalina on this. If you are in a good relationship, and this is a kink between the two of you, or a kink on one side which the other side complies with: I don't see a problem. My girlfriend asks me to cum on her face while she sleeps. She also asks me to wake her up by fucking her in the ass. She's kinky, and that's a good thing to find in a woman.

Oh, give me a break. I wouldn't really kill a man if he came on my face while i slept. If he put his dick in my mouth, raped me, or anything else that was another step past the line, then i would kill him.

The posted question was how would I, me, personally react. And yes, i've stated my opinion on what i think about people who think this is a good idea. That is ASSUMING that the people involved are not in a CONSENSUAL dom/sub relationship. You're getting very defensive about the fact that you like this type of activity, but the main difference between you, your girlfriend, and I is that i would never allow this to happen to me because it would be a violation of my body and soul. Nobody's telling you that you shouldn't do it if you're gf asks you to do it. Jeez!

Also, i think you are missing the point that most women in the world (yes, even in the "enlightened" developed countries) live in fear that they will be sexually/physically violated at some point in their lives. This is with good reason....alot of them will be. Anyone who gets anywhere near the vicinity of the non-consensual sexual activity delineation will be met with fight or flight survival response from most women.

 

[Tooch McGroin]

I said the thought of it.....not the actuality. It's not a pleasant thought to think about as thinking about someone cumming on our face is not a pleasant thought. To females, most of us anyway, it's in the top ten of things that would really piss us off.

Yes that's what makes it so much fun.

 

[Lynnezertorte]

Whoa. Kicking in the balls? That is a painful assault. Potentially very damaging. How does that equate to a spoonful of hot cum on your face?

And I should have said "accidentally" kicking you in the balls....makes you cringe right? Well it's the same for us....there may be no pain involved but there might as well be.

 

[Lynnezertorte]

Yes that's what makes it so much fun.

Well that tells me all I need to know about you. You're a keeper!!!!

 

[Party Girl]

Maybe I'm just odd. But I would either feel super-sexy or (sounds corny) I'd probably laugh and say, "Okay, my turn."

In all seriousness, though - anyone who wants to do this should (at the VERY least) get a feel for how your S.O. feels about it. It may be okay with some people, but could make other people feel REALLY violated.

Just what I think.

 

[Lynnezertorte]

Maybe I'm just odd. But I would either feel super-sexy or (sounds corny) I'd probably laugh and say, "Okay, my turn."

In all seriousness, though - anyone who wants to do this should (at the VERY least) get a feel for how your S.O. feels about it. It may be okay with some people, but could make other people feel REALLY violated.

Just what I think.

I think most of us have the point of view that discussion should take place before something like that occured. Then if she was into it.......go for it.

 

[Tooch McGroin]

Oh, give me a break. I wouldn't really kill a man if he came on my face while i slept. If he put his dick in my mouth, raped me, or anything else that was another step past the line, then i would kill him.

The posted question was how would I, me, personally react. And yes, i've stated my opinion on what i think about people who think this is a good idea. That is ASSUMING that the people involved are not in a CONSENSUAL dom/sub relationship. You're getting very defensive about the fact that you like this type of activity, but the main difference between you, your girlfriend, and I is that i would never allow this to happen to me because it would be a violation of my body and soul. Nobody's telling you that you shouldn't do it if you're gf asks you to do it. Jeez!

Also, i think you are missing the point that most women in the world (yes, even in the "enlightened" developed countries) live in fear that they will be sexually/physically violated at some point in their lives. This is with good reason....alot of them will be. Anyone who gets anywhere near the vicinity of the non-consensual sexual activity delineation will be met with fight or flight survival response from most women.

A break? Ok, where do you want it?

Damn, you're violent. If a woman planted her pussy on my sleeping face while I slept, without my consent, I wouldn't kill her for it. You might need anger management classes.

A violation of your body and soul? How dramatic.

We're not talking about sneaking into a woman's house and fucking her face while she sleeps. We're talking about surprise sex with your loving partner. Why the need for violence? I disagree with your assumption that most women would respond with such harsh violence against their lovers.

 

[Party Girl]

I think most of us have the point of view that discussion should take place before something like that occured. Then if she was into it.......go for it.

Rock on. Then I'm all for it.

 

[Tooch McGroin]

I think most of us have the point of view that discussion should take place before something like that occured. Then if she was into it.......go for it.

Yeah, go ahead and ruin ALL the fun. Where's the joy in surprise sex when you give ample warning?

 

[Party Girl]

Yeah, go ahead and ruin ALL the fun. Where's the joy in surprise sex when you give ample warning?

Aw, come on. Getting someone's okay? Even if it's a hypothetical okay? That's (from my point of view) about on the level of someone pissing on your leg without you agreeing. Maybe it's an exaggeration ( LoL - a lot ) but really, you SHOULD know what your lover is okay with before you do it.

 

[Lynnezertorte]

A break? Ok, where do you want it?

Damn, you're violent. If a woman planted her pussy on my sleeping face while I slept, without my consent, I wouldn't kill her for it. You might need anger management classes.

A violation of your body and soul? How dramatic.

We're not talking about sneaking into a woman's house and fucking her face while she sleeps. We're talking about surprise sex with your loving partner. Why the need for violence? I disagree with your assumption that most women would respond with such harsh violence against their lovers.

I've posted too much on this thread already but I've got to say Tooch.....there is a big difference between the way women think and the way men think.....I think you are missing the point......I tried to point it out to you earlier but you don't seem to get it....just like the author? of this thread.

You're not gonna win this one....

 

[Lynnezertorte]

Yeah, go ahead and ruin ALL the fun. Where's the joy in surprise sex when you give ample warning?

A month before, you say to your SO.....hey what would think if I came on you while you were sleeping.......she might tell you that it would really piss her off and then, hopefully, you wouldn't do it........but she also might thinks it's a great thing.......so one month later you do it and guess what........it's a surprise!!!!!!

 

[sheath]

Aw, come on. Getting someone's okay? Even if it's a hypothetical okay? That's (from my point of view) about on the level of someone pissing on your leg without you agreeing. Maybe it's an exaggeration ( LoL - a lot ) but really, you SHOULD know what your lover is okay with before you do it.

Exactly.

Saying your girlfriend might enjoy something is fine, but it is pretty clear you KNOW where her limits and boundaries are...which means, at some point, you have discussed those boundaries.

Tooch, aren't we getting a bit touchy here? You are taking some responses made in the heat of the moment and boiling them down to logical 'he said/she said/but she REALLY meant' kind of arguments. They were never meant to be that. Some people have responded with 'I'd kill him'. Well, hell, you don't think they actually MEAN that, do you?

Figures of speech, dear. Don't get all up in arms over it.

S.

 

[Tooch McGroin]

I've posted too much on this thread already but I've got to say Tooch.....there is a big difference between the way women think and the way men think.....I think you are missing the point......I tried to point it out to you earlier but you don't seem to get it....just like the author? of this thread.

You're not gonna win this one....

I think you're wrong. I am not missing your points. catalina_francisco, Italian Goddess , and Latinababe are all women and they don't mind this stuff. On the contrary, they think it's kind of hot.

Perhap you, and and a few others like yourself on this thread, find this idea so objectionable for other reasons. For instance, maybe your lover isn't suave or sexy but sort of a jerk, or maybe you're a male-hating dyke, or maybe you're a domineering type who resents any man playing around with you.

In any case, I'm gonna win this one because unlike you ladies, I will go the distance. I have stamina. And I will cum on all your faces.

 

[Party Girl]

I think you're wrong. I am not missing your points. catalina_francisco, Italian Goddess , and Latinababe are all women and they don't mind this stuff. On the contrary, they think it's kind of hot.

Perhap you, and and a few others like yourself on this thread, find this idea so objectionable for other reasons. For instance, maybe your lover isn't suave or sexy but sort of a jerk, or maybe you're a male-hating dyke, or maybe you're a domineering type who resents any man playing around with you.

In any case, I'm gonna win this one because unlike you ladies, I will go the distance. I have stamina. And I will cum on all your faces.

You missed my name. I don't find it objectionable. My boyfriend's done it, and I woke up hot as hell. But he certainly knew to make sure he knew where my limits were. Not saying he flat-out asked me, but he'd never have done it the first time we slept together.

 

[Tooch McGroin]

You missed my name. I don't find it objectionable. My boyfriend's done it, and I woke up hot as hell. But he certainly knew to make sure he knew where my limits were. Not saying he flat-out asked me, but he'd never have done it the first time we slept together.

Sorry, sexy. Ok, that makes 5 on the pro-facial team. GO TEAM!

 

[sheath]

Perhap you, and and a few others like yourself on this thread, find this idea so objectionable for other reasons. For instance, maybe your lover isn't suave or sexy but sort of a jerk, or maybe you're a male-hating dyke, or maybe you're a domineering type who resents any man playing around with you.

In any case, I'm gonna win this one because unlike you ladies, I will go the distance. I have stamina. And I will cum on all your faces.

Okay...you know what? You just crossed the line into becoming a judgmental asshole. Things like this are more than welcome on the cesspool of the General Board, but over here, we tend to respect one another.

With that post, YOU have just lost the respect of more people than you can possibly count. I'm sure that doesn't matter at all to YOU, but it matters to one hell of a lot of people on here, and thus, you will probably never be taken seriously again.

Scamper on over to the GB now. They are surely all over there waiting for you to cum on their faces while they ooh and aah at your depth of annoyance.

S.

 

[Tooch McGroin]

Okay...you know what? You just crossed the line into becoming a judgmental asshole. Things like this are more than welcome on the cesspool of the General Board, but over here, we tend to respect one another.

With that post, YOU have just lost the respect of more people than you can possibly count. I'm sure that doesn't matter at all to YOU, but it matters to one hell of a lot of people on here, and thus, you will probably never be taken seriously again.

Scamper on over the the GB now. They are surely all over there waiting for you to cum on their faces while they ooh and aah at your depth of annoyance.

S.

Wow, Shealth, you have absolutely no sense of humor. Are you republican, by any chance?

Aww. I'm never gonna be taken seriously. That hurts. I'm crying. Inside.

 

[Party Girl]

Sorry, sexy. Ok, that makes 5 on the pro-facial team. GO TEAM!

*cheers* Yeah! Go team! But as far as I'm concerned you still haven't said you'd find it necessary to explore the possibility before execution. At least since I've posted. And I'm lazy, so I forgot to look before then.

Nah, you're not an awful guy. You just can't cum on someone's face in the first five minutes of knowin' 'em.

LoL - Sorry, might just be my somewhat twisted sense of humor.

 

[sheath]

Wow, Shealth, you have absolutely no sense of humor. Are you republican, by any chance?

Aww. I'm never gonna be taken seriously. That hurts. I'm crying. Inside.

It's not "Shealth". It's sheath.

And I'm so very sorry you are crying. Inside.

Enjoy ignore land.

S.