Women - wanna talk about your partner / hubby?

notnice66

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I see there are threads for guys who want to talk about their wives, and thought there are surely women out there in LitLand who want to vent about the men in their lives. In my case, I've been with a guy almost three years and he won't commit. He wants to move in with me but I'm holding off. BTW, I'm not looking for advice here, just want to talk about it. Basically the ball is in his court for another while longer. I think I will wait maybe three more months and if he doesn't come good then I will break it off.

So anyone else want to get something off her chest?
 
Fascinating how many men there are who would gladly talk about their wives but so few women who want to talk about their husbands/boyfriends.
 
Fascinating how many men there are who would gladly talk about their wives but so few women who want to talk about their husbands/boyfriends.

Oh I'd love to talk about my husband but I've nothing to vent nor to get off my chest. He's just plain brilliant, at least almost all the time ;)
 
Oh I'd love to talk about my husband but I've nothing to vent nor to get off my chest. He's just plain brilliant, at least almost all the time ;)

But sweetie, that's what we're talking about. My wife is awesome too... and I love to discuss the possibility of sharing her awesomeness with another guy ;) (or hell, gal, I'm an equal opportunity kind of fellow...)
 
25 years married to the same sweet sexy man with whom I have enjoyed a wide and varied sex life. Understanding of my bisexuality since day one we have explored many avenues of eroticism since then. We have been through many personal hard times together "outside the bedroom" and have common interests of a non sexual nature as well. He is a great guy and I am very lucky to have him:heart::heart::heart:
 
My husband is 5"8 medium build, he has a lovely toned body and strong muscular upper arms, he has tattoos on arms, back and legs.
He has lovely smooth olive skin and eyelashes most of us girls want lol
He is good with his hands but amazing with his tongue, he has a beautifully shaven 8" cock that is all mine :D
He always makes me cum as often as he can and when he can't I have my lovely lit friends and the toys my husband buys for me ;)
He is sometimes unwell and I have just bought a lovely nurse outfit to cheer my sexy man up ssshhh :kiss:
 
Wow! Seems like the women on here are happy with their men - but very different story with the men on here!
 
Wow! Seems like the women on here are happy with their men - but very different story with the men on here!

I am not so sure about that. Some guys talk about wanting more from their wives sexually and lots imagine other guys fucking their wives. But they at mostly coming from a context that is flattering to the wives - even when complaining about sexual frequency the obvious perspective is of the wife being desirable. This is actually one of the few threads I have read that as set up with the intention of complaint about a spouse or SO.
 
How about women happy with their GF/partner.
Mary is great. Demanding, controlling, soft, eager, pleasing, curious, generous....and damn sexy!
I'm hers. Plus she allows me my weaknesses:)
 
I love my man and I would say he knows just what I like. He lovrs licking and fucking my pussy and making me come in multiple orgasms. Would I cheat on him? No way, but I can enjoy being turned on and feeling fucking horny reading the stuff on here
 
I see there are threads for guys who want to talk about their wives, and thought there are surely women out there in LitLand who want to vent about the men in their lives. In my case, I've been with a guy almost three years and he won't commit. He wants to move in with me but I'm holding off. BTW, I'm not looking for advice here, just want to talk about it. Basically the ball is in his court for another while longer. I think I will wait maybe three more months and if he doesn't come good then I will break it off.

So anyone else want to get something off her chest?

Well my ex wife loves to talk about me..wont shut up either.. a real motor mouth and we live in an area where everybody want to be involved in everone elses life as they don't appear to have lives of their own.. and the more lies they hear the more they love and believe it... sometimes people would be better off not talking about others
 
As usual, we only meet on his terms. I always make sure he has an orgasm, but doesn't really care about mine. The thing is, I don't think it's on purpose, he just doesn't think. I caress him, spoon him, but don't get that back. But I think he's more than happy to be receiving that attention and works hard, long hours. I guess I'm selfish. When he actually does eat me out, it's really enthusiastic and I went from being ok with receiving oral to now hating it. He always gets the foreplay, I don't. He loves 69, but I get hot easily and it's faux to hold myself up so long. He always wants to go deep, which I like, but doesn't help me hold up my legs and now I'm starting to lose my interest in sex.

I guess I should be grateful and I'm just a bitch. After all, I love seeing the smile on his face and the drowsy look in his eyes. I'm the one apparently that made him like bjs and the first woman to get him to ejaculate in a mouth. Last time I was with him, I spooned and caressed him and watching him shiver and little moans was beautiful. I could tell he enjoyed it and I hope I made him happy. I do like spooning men and caressing them regardless.
 
I love everything about my man and we connect on so many levels. I enjoy our sex life and so does he, but after 13 years together I would like to have a threesome with another women. he seems reluctant. says all we need are each other. has anyone else had this problem.
 
I love everything about my man and we connect on so many levels. I enjoy our sex life and so does he, but after 13 years together I would like to have a threesome with another women. he seems reluctant. says all we need are each other. has anyone else had this problem.

Let me get this straight. You want a threesome and he doesn't? The only way a guy will say no to that is if he's intimidated or insecure. I suggest you talk to him about it.
 
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I love everything about my man and we connect on so many levels. I enjoy our sex life and so does he, but after 13 years together I would like to have a threesome with another women. he seems reluctant. says all we need are each other. has anyone else had this problem.

Bunny,
When I read this post, for a split second the thought that my wife was on Lit and you were her ran through my head! Everything you said could be said by my wife (if think) with the exception of the other woman. Now I can't help wondering/hoping my wife is thinking the same thing!:D
 
I guess it is insecurity of some sort. he is 6 foot, fit, and fairly large in the endowment department, so there is no embarrassment issues. I'm just wondering if I should surprise him some night by bringing home a friend.
 
My husband is 5"8 medium build, he has a lovely toned body and strong muscular upper arms, he has tattoos on arms, back and legs.
He has lovely smooth olive skin and eyelashes most of us girls want lol
He is good with his hands but amazing with his tongue, he has a beautifully shaven 8" cock that is all mine :D
He always makes me cum as often as he can and when he can't I have my lovely lit friends and the toys my husband buys for me ;)
He is sometimes unwell and I have just bought a lovely nurse outfit to cheer my sexy man up ssshhh :kiss:

This is what i thought this thread was going to be like. I love this post!
 
Well then let's give it a shot. My husband. What could I say about him? He's very tall, 6ft 8", messy dark hair that is often dyed flaming red. Beautiful pale face, happy smile and big eyes. He's got a feminine body; narrow shoulders, wide hips and a cute little pot belly. He's thin but not skinny and his ass is wide and round. No muscles but soft, delightful curves, yet he's structure is bony which makes him seem quite firm.

He is a man of principle. He's got strong opinions, very left-field politics and he's not afraid to speak out loud. He's intelligent, well-mannered and a gentleman in every possible way. He's an amazing dad. I just call him my hero.

Our marriage dynamics are equal (we are both strong feminists) but our sex life isn't. As a lover he suits me better than I could ever dream of. He's sexually submissive, very cuddly and loves pleasing me, but there's also a bit of a brat inside him that both amuses and irritates me. We compliment each other in a thousand ways, our dynamics are seamless and sometimes it feels like there's telepathy between us. So far we haven't ended up at a point where it would've been impossible to talk about stuff, even if it's been hurtful and difficult at times. We've been together for several years now, but in the beginning it took us about three months until we started to explore our kinks together. Another three months on and we had formed a D/s relationship. I can see fire in his eyes when he looks at me and my knees go weak. When he gives his body to me (whether it's to be abused or caressed) I feel like the luckiest girl on the planet.

Physically he's got the softest and most adorable little dick I've ever seen. It's so overly pretty I sometimes don't know how to deal with all it's cuteness. Yet when it grows it becomes this thick, veined monster that goes hand in hand with the tallness of his body. The contrast between him flaccid and him fully erect is incredible.

We both love dressing him up pretty. We don't do full drag on him, neither of us in into it, but we do like to take his physically girl-ish traits and amplify them. He looks stunning in knickers and tennis skirts! A bit of eyeliner and eyeshadow is nice too. He's a beautiful guy so I'll just take it a step further. We've had ours of fun cuddling on the sofa while polishing our fingernails ;)

What else can I say about him? He's just brilliant.
 
Well then let's give it a shot. My husband. What could I say about him? He's very tall, 6ft 8", messy dark hair that is often dyed flaming red. Beautiful pale face, happy smile and big eyes. He's got a feminine body; narrow shoulders, wide hips and a cute little pot belly. He's thin but not skinny and his ass is wide and round. No muscles but soft, delightful curves, yet he's structure is bony which makes him seem quite firm.

He is a man of principle. He's got strong opinions, very left-field politics and he's not afraid to speak out loud. He's intelligent, well-mannered and a gentleman in every possible way. He's an amazing dad. I just call him my hero.

Our marriage dynamics are equal (we are both strong feminists) but our sex life isn't. As a lover he suits me better than I could ever dream of. He's sexually submissive, very cuddly and loves pleasing me, but there's also a bit of a brat inside him that both amuses and irritates me. We compliment each other in a thousand ways, our dynamics are seamless and sometimes it feels like there's telepathy between us. So far we haven't ended up at a point where it would've been impossible to talk about stuff, even if it's been hurtful and difficult at times. We've been together for several years now, but in the beginning it took us about three months until we started to explore our kinks together. Another three months on and we had formed a D/s relationship. I can see fire in his eyes when he looks at me and my knees go weak. When he gives his body to me (whether it's to be abused or caressed) I feel like the luckiest girl on the planet.

Physically he's got the softest and most adorable little dick I've ever seen. It's so overly pretty I sometimes don't know how to deal with all it's cuteness. Yet when it grows it becomes this thick, veined monster that goes hand in hand with the tallness of his body. The contrast between him flaccid and him fully erect is incredible.

We both love dressing him up pretty. We don't do full drag on him, neither of us in into it, but we do like to take his physically girl-ish traits and amplify them. He looks stunning in knickers and tennis skirts! A bit of eyeliner and eyeshadow is nice too. He's a beautiful guy so I'll just take it a step further. We've had ours of fun cuddling on the sofa while polishing our fingernails ;)

What else can I say about him? He's just brilliant.
Thank you for bragging so incredibly about your man! That was beautiful. :)
 
Hmm. Mine sucks. He has a piss poor attitude about everything and is generally not any fun to be around. I think that sums it up.
 
I love everything about my man and we connect on so many levels. I enjoy our sex life and so does he, but after 13 years together I would like to have a threesome with another women. he seems reluctant. says all we need are each other. has anyone else had this problem.

Yes lol
 
Well then let's give it a shot. My husband. What could I say about him? He's very tall, 6ft 8", messy dark hair that is often dyed flaming red. Beautiful pale face, happy smile and big eyes. He's got a feminine body; narrow shoulders, wide hips and a cute little pot belly. He's thin but not skinny and his ass is wide and round. No muscles but soft, delightful curves, yet he's structure is bony which makes him seem quite firm.

He is a man of principle. He's got strong opinions, very left-field politics and he's not afraid to speak out loud. He's intelligent, well-mannered and a gentleman in every possible way. He's an amazing dad. I just call him my hero.

Our marriage dynamics are equal (we are both strong feminists) but our sex life isn't. As a lover he suits me better than I could ever dream of. He's sexually submissive, very cuddly and loves pleasing me, but there's also a bit of a brat inside him that both amuses and irritates me. We compliment each other in a thousand ways, our dynamics are seamless and sometimes it feels like there's telepathy between us. So far we haven't ended up at a point where it would've been impossible to talk about stuff, even if it's been hurtful and difficult at times. We've been together for several years now, but in the beginning it took us about three months until we started to explore our kinks together. Another three months on and we had formed a D/s relationship. I can see fire in his eyes when he looks at me and my knees go weak. When he gives his body to me (whether it's to be abused or caressed) I feel like the luckiest girl on the planet.

Physically he's got the softest and most adorable little dick I've ever seen. It's so overly pretty I sometimes don't know how to deal with all it's cuteness. Yet when it grows it becomes this thick, veined monster that goes hand in hand with the tallness of his body. The contrast between him flaccid and him fully erect is incredible.

We both love dressing him up pretty. We don't do full drag on him, neither of us in into it, but we do like to take his physically girl-ish traits and amplify them. He looks stunning in knickers and tennis skirts! A bit of eyeliner and eyeshadow is nice too. He's a beautiful guy so I'll just take it a step further. We've had ours of fun cuddling on the sofa while polishing our fingernails ;)

What else can I say about him? He's just brilliant.

LOL this is awesome!
 
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