Women that fuck married men

[Moosiah84]

Are you out there ladies? Preferably the massachusetts area? Do you want to chat? Maybe online play? Maybe real life?

 

[ShesInsatiable]

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[Lost_Yonder]

god bless them!

 

[NYnewbie86]

Oh they are out there. My wife likes a variety. Bad boys who treat her like a whore generally. Buy her a margarita and hold on tight!

Drinks on me lol I'll make sure to order the extra shot of tequila on the side!!!!

I'm down for a ride

 

[SlutAddicted]

My wife has had many lovers including married men.

 

[ShesInsatiable]

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[screwher]

Oh they are out there. My wife likes a variety. Bad boys who treat her like a whore generally. Buy her a margarita and hold on tight!

The first other man in our marriage was a cheating situation with a married man. My wife developed a sexual attraction to a man she knew was married. He obviously knew she was going to be an easy lay for him. We have yet to play with a married man within our lifestyle. I don’t know wether or not my wife wants to be potentially labelled as a home wrecker now. But on my end, married men might be the safest route. They would just be interested in my wife for the pussy. Not want to mess with our marriage.

 

[policywank]

I have fucked lots of married men. People cheat for a lot of reasons and while I don't condone it or try to make excuses on their behalf it isn't for me to judge.

If I think the guy is just a philandering lothario I will likely steer clear simply because if find that unattractive. But most of the married guys I have fucked don't fit that profile at all. They tend to be guys who aren't getting their wife's attention and it is usually an overall neglect as opposed to just sexual.

IMO stereotypes really work against men in his way. When it comes to sex and attention men are expected to just make do with whatever their wife provides and if he wants more he is at fault for being too obsessed with sex. Meanwhile if he misses a special occasion or isn't tuned in to her emotional needs then he is a jerk. And if he cheats he must be an oversexed lothario.

My experience is very different. Most of the married guys I have fucked were really nice guys who would have preferred to remain faithful but simply couldn't endure the neglect anymore. Does that indicate weakness on their part? Maybe. But by the time you get to that judgment you have to also acknowledge that his wife hasn't done her part so she is part of the problem too.

Hey if you are neglecting your man look in the mirror first. Then look in my bed yo see how to treat him properly.

 

[NYnewbie86]

Guys seem to figure out the buttons to push quick. I know when she’s been out fucking when she staggers in smelling like booze, disheveled, and makeup smeared.

Give me booze and good music, I'll dance the night away! Some twirls,dips,spins a great way to move my hands all over!

 

[Orchidea73]

On the other hand, there are men/women (mostly men) who use that as an excuse just to have sex with another person. The thing is, only two people know the truth in a marriage, so I wouldn't be quick to point the finger. There are different reasons why someone would seek an affair, and it's not always just the sex part. Although that is included.

I've never cheated myself. Not because I'm better or have some higher standards than many other people who have. I simply never felt the need for it.

However, I have had a couple of stories with married men and they were fantastic. Never felt guilty about it. I'm the free bird in the equation. The way I see it, is that it's not my business to analyze his marriage and/or motivations. If the attraction is strong and we want to be with each other (even if for one night), and we're honest about our wants, dos and don'ts, then I go into it with open eyes.

The only thing I've been always against, and careful not to, is to get tangled with someone who lives in the same city, or close. I am human after all, and I do not want to find myself into getting too attached and start day dreaming and wishing/hoping to get something more out it. Asking from him to give you something he cannot give. It's good to know your limits. So, I say, keep it passionate, keep it fun, keep it lighthearted and keep it short and say goodbye with a smile. It's bittersweet but it's good memories. I prefer that rather than the drama.

 

[oneblueye]

hey ...

On the other hand, there are men/women (mostly men) who use that as an excuse just to have sex with another person. The thing is, only two people know the truth in a marriage, so I wouldn't be quick to point the finger. There are different reasons why someone would seek an affair, and it's not always just the sex part. Although that is included.

I've never cheated myself. Not because I'm better or have some higher standards than many other people who have. I simply never felt the need for it.

However, I have had a couple of stories with married men and they were fantastic. Never felt guilty about it. I'm the free bird in the equation. The way I see it, is that it's not my business to analyze his marriage and/or motivations. If the attraction is strong and we want to be with each other (even if for one night), and we're honest about our wants, dos and don'ts, then I go into it with open eyes.

The only thing I've been always against, and careful not to, is to get tangled with someone who lives in the same city, or close. I am human after all, and I do not want to find myself into getting too attached and start day dreaming and wishing/hoping to get something more out it. Asking from him to give you something he cannot give. It's good to know your limits. So, I say, keep it passionate, keep it fun, keep it lighthearted and keep it short and say goodbye with a smile. It's bittersweet but it's good memories. I prefer that rather than the drama.

Bullshit...
you say you've never cheated but then you proceed to tell us that you have
"had a couple stories with married men."
So that tells me right there that you are lying
and to me, makes EVERYTHING you say suspect.
It doesn't matter to me whether you cheat or not but at least keep the lies straight and more probable sounding.
It only takes one person to cheat but if two are involved then they are equally accountable for the act.

 

[BigButtSlut47]

A man is a man and a woman is a woman! Marriage doesn't mean anything when it comes to sex!

 

[Orchidea73]

Bullshit...
you say you've never cheated but then you proceed to tell us that you have
"had a couple stories with married men."
So that tells me right there that you are lying
and to me, makes EVERYTHING you say suspect.
It doesn't matter to me whether you cheat or not but at least keep the lies straight and more probable sounding.
It only takes one person to cheat but if two are involved then they are equally accountable for the act.

I was single and free. Who was I cheating? lol
I have no reason to lie because, as I said, I don't put myself on a pedestal for it. It just didn't happen. I was never tempted while I was with somebody else. Usually, for me, that is a sign that the passion is gone and I would prefer to end it before starting a new story. But who knows what I would have done if say, I was married and had kids etc.

If you think that I am accountable for what an adult man does in his own marriage, that's your prerogative. I happen to think differently. We can agree to disagree on that. But there is not a single lie in what I wrote. So, you may take YOUR bullshit and shove it up your ass.

 

[BigButtSlut47]

I was single and free. Who was I cheating? lol
I have no reason to lie because, as I said, I don't put myself on a pedestal for it. It just didn't happen. I was never tempted while I was with somebody else. Usually, for me, that is a sign that the passion is gone and I would prefer to end it before starting a new story. But who knows what I would have done if say, I was married and had kids etc.

If you think that I am accountable for what an adult man does in his own marriage, that's your prerogative. I happen to think differently. We can agree to disagree on that. But there is not a single lie in what I wrote. So, you may take YOUR bullshit and shove it up your ass.

You are so right. If you're single you can, and should, have all the sex you want, and with both men and women if that is what you want. So what if the person or persons you have sex with is married to someone else, that's their business, not yours.

 

[Orchidea73]

You are so right. If you're single you can, and should, have all the sex you want, and with both men and women if that is what you want. So what if the person or persons you have sex with is married to someone else, that's their business, not yours.

Exactly!
It would be my business if he happens to be my friend's boyfriend/husband. That would be an off limit for me because I would be betraying my friend. But I do not owe loyalty to a complete stranger. Selfish? Probably. But then again, I do not pretend to be perfect.

Anyway, I don't want to derail the thread and make it about cheating. My point is that let's not judge the wives, or husbands, easily and arrive to quick conclusions about their motivations. Chances are, we don't know the full story.

 

[johnnieblue44]

Exactly!
It would be my business if he happens to be my friend boyfriend/husband. That would be an off limit for me because I would be betraying my friend. But I do not owe loyalty to a complete stranger. Selfish? Probably. But then again, I do not pretend to be perfect.

Anyway, I don't want to derail the thread and make it about cheating. My point is that let's not judge the wives, or husbands, easily and arrive to quick conclusions about their motivations. Chances are, we don't know the full story.

Orchidea, you really should add an American to your impressive international list of lovers. I have a nomination. (Not to derail the thread or anything...)

 

[ParkerSteve66]

A man is a man and a woman is a woman! Marriage doesn't mean anything when it comes to sex!

Absolutely right. Sex is a human need, just like water, food and oxygen. It should be able to be enjoyed the same way.

Monogamy is simply an effort to CONTROL someone's behavior.

 

[Orchidea73]

Orchidea, you really should add an American to your impressive international list of lovers. I have a nomination. (Not to derail the thread or anything...)

LOL

Always a delight to see you around, Johnnie.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

I have fucked lots of married men. People cheat for a lot of reasons and while I don't condone it or try to make excuses on their behalf it isn't for me to judge.

If I think the guy is just a philandering lothario I will likely steer clear simply because if find that unattractive. But most of the married guys I have fucked don't fit that profile at all. They tend to be guys who aren't getting their wife's attention and it is usually an overall neglect as opposed to just sexual.

IMO stereotypes really work against men in his way. When it comes to sex and attention men are expected to just make do with whatever their wife provides and if he wants more he is at fault for being too obsessed with sex. Meanwhile if he misses a special occasion or isn't tuned in to her emotional needs then he is a jerk. And if he cheats he must be an oversexed lothario.

My experience is very different. Most of the married guys I have fucked were really nice guys who would have preferred to remain faithful but simply couldn't endure the neglect anymore. Does that indicate weakness on their part? Maybe. But by the time you get to that judgment you have to also acknowledge that his wife hasn't done her part so she is part of the problem too.

Hey if you are neglecting your man look in the mirror first. Then look in my bed yo see how to treat him properly.

I will be right over...

 

[oneblueye]

hey ...

I was single and free. Who was I cheating? lol
I have no reason to lie because, as I said, I don't put myself on a pedestal for it. It just didn't happen. I was never tempted while I was with somebody else. Usually, for me, that is a sign that the passion is gone and I would prefer to end it before starting a new story. But who knows what I would have done if say, I was married and had kids etc.

If you think that I am accountable for what an adult man does in his own marriage, that's your prerogative. I happen to think differently. We can agree to disagree on that. But there is not a single lie in what I wrote. So, you may take YOUR bullshit and shove it up your ass.

the fact that you think differently is MOST evident...but I stand by what i said.
It only takes one person to cheat but if 2 are involved they're both accountable.
Just like if you are on a 'date' and your companion decides to knock over the 7/11
you're in--, you still guilty.

 

[Bud_Spencer]

I have fucked lots of married men. People cheat for a lot of reasons and while I don't condone it or try to make excuses on their behalf it isn't for me to judge.

If I think the guy is just a philandering lothario I will likely steer clear simply because if find that unattractive. But most of the married guys I have fucked don't fit that profile at all. They tend to be guys who aren't getting their wife's attention and it is usually an overall neglect as opposed to just sexual.

IMO stereotypes really work against men in his way. When it comes to sex and attention men are expected to just make do with whatever their wife provides and if he wants more he is at fault for being too obsessed with sex. Meanwhile if he misses a special occasion or isn't tuned in to her emotional needs then he is a jerk. And if he cheats he must be an oversexed lothario.

My experience is very different. Most of the married guys I have fucked were really nice guys who would have preferred to remain faithful but simply couldn't endure the neglect anymore. Does that indicate weakness on their part? Maybe. But by the time you get to that judgment you have to also acknowledge that his wife hasn't done her part so she is part of the problem too.

Hey if you are neglecting your man look in the mirror first. Then look in my bed yo see how to treat him properly.

How does one give a standing ovation in this forum? This one deserves it.

 

[Orchidea73]

the fact that you think differently is MOST evident...but I stand by what i said.
It only takes one person to cheat but if 2 are involved they're both accountable.
Just like if you are on a 'date' and your companion decides to knock over the 7/11
you're in--, you still guilty.

As I said. That's your opinion and it's perfectly fine. I'm not trying to change your mind so you can stand by it until your last breath. It's useless to repeat yourself. But if you want to have the last word, be my guest and have at it.

Ciao. Have a nice evening.

 

[Bud_Spencer]

the fact that you think differently is MOST evident...but I stand by what i said.
It only takes one person to cheat but if 2 are involved they're both accountable.
Just like if you are on a 'date' and your companion decides to knock over the 7/11
you're in--, you still guilty.

Unnecessarily harsh, don't you think? Don't let pride corner you into a foolish defense of the indefensible. You misjudged her. It's only right to be contrite.

 

[ShesInsatiable]

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[policywank]

the fact that you think differently is MOST evident...but I stand by what i said.
It only takes one person to cheat but if 2 are involved they're both accountable.
Just like if you are on a 'date' and your companion decides to knock over the 7/11
you're in--, you still guilty.

I don't think that this analogy stands up to scrutiny.

Theft involves taking something that belongs to someone else against their will. A man's sexual prerogative does not belong to his wife. It belongs to him and it is his to share or not as he sees fit. If he has entered into a separate arrangement with his wife to be exclusive that is between them - it is not my place or anybody else's to compel him to keep his commitment.

The more apt analogy would be if the man who owns the convenience store likes to give me discounts or other favourable treatment but his wife doesn't like it when he does so. It is his store and his choice. If his wife doesn't like it she should take it up with him. If she makes the argument that he promised not to give anymore discounts and therefore it is my fault if I take it, I would say that is bullshit.

The difference lies in personal prerogative and sexual agency. Every time I have sex with a married man I am dealing directly with the person (him) who has full latitude over his sexual agency. I am not taking anything from him against his will or compelling him to act against his will.