Skilled001
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Looking for women who need to loving and affection that maybe there hubby or BF isn't giving them. Wondering if there are any out there needing that or if they all want just a good hard fucking.
Women needing to be romanced.
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Hello and welcome to Lit.
There are plenty of women that need to be romanced and are feeling a loss of affection. They just don't tell people about it until they get to know them for the most part.
So tell us alittle about you and see what happens.
There are plenty of women that need to be romanced and are feeling a loss of affection. They just don't tell people about it until they get to know them for the most part.
So tell us alittle about you and see what happens.
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well lets see o'm 40 6'0 180 br hair blue eyes. Finding that a sweet lady will melt in your arms when u start the night with a candlelit dinner, then a night of dancing and finally residing to a nice warm fireplace drinking a night cap and giving the lady full 110% attention to her needs .
These are for you baby
well lets see o'm 40 6'0 180 br hair blue eyes. Finding that a sweet lady will melt in your arms when u start the night with a candlelit dinner, then a night of dancing and finally residing to a nice warm fireplace drinking a night cap and giving the lady full 110% attention to her needs .
These are for you babychin_butterfly
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yes, I agree. The same woman is viewed differently by her husband and her lover. Women are emotional beings, if left with only one choice, love or sex, I will choose romance. It keeps my heart thumping, I love the feeling of warmth and knowing someone deeply cares for me.
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yes ladies are first and are most important. Making them feel wonderful brings out the best in them. .....Where should I be looking?
yes ladies are first and are most important. Making them feel wonderful brings out the best in them. .....Where should I be looking?
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pm me baby and i should be able to work out a trip to KY and who knows give you the night of your life?
pm me baby and i should be able to work out a trip to KY and who knows give you the night of your life?
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Here I am fnnyworld where'd u go baby
Here I am fnnyworld where'd u go baby
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Morning Skilled.....believe it when you're told, theres an awful lot of women out there just begging to be romanced! I know, I'm one of them. Just coming out of a very "Romance-less" marriage of 24 yrs....it's hard to find men out there who want anything more than just a good hard fuck. Right now, I only know of one.
So keep searchin Darlin...they're out there!!
Morning Skilled.....believe it when you're told, theres an awful lot of women out there just begging to be romanced! I know, I'm one of them. Just coming out of a very "Romance-less" marriage of 24 yrs....it's hard to find men out there who want anything more than just a good hard fuck. Right now, I only know of one.
So keep searchin Darlin...they're out there!!
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Re: Sorry Baby....
Ohhhh..no truer words have ever been spoken!!
You're absolutely right, fnnyworld, thats exactly what happens. Shows her what she's been missing....and if the game isn't played fairly, people end up hurt...VERY hurt. Been there...and it damn near killed me.
Broken hearts seem a helluva lot harder to overcome as adult's.
I, for one, thank you for that sound advice....always play fair!
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Ohhhh..no truer words have ever been spoken!!
You're absolutely right, fnnyworld, thats exactly what happens. Shows her what she's been missing....and if the game isn't played fairly, people end up hurt...VERY hurt. Been there...and it damn near killed me.
Broken hearts seem a helluva lot harder to overcome as adult's.
I, for one, thank you for that sound advice....always play fair!
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skilled may I say one thing to you. As a person who truly believes in romance and all that goes along with it, it can never be achieved in just one try. Part of the romancing that is important is also doing the everyday things that need to be done around the house and helping the special person in your life. All a few visits on evenings can accomplish is yes, 10 make the woman realize what she is missing, 2) possibly make her fall in love with the person doing the romancing, 3) Cause some serious pain when the romancer wants nothing in the relationship more then making the woman feel good for the few short hours they are together. I have seen first hand the devestation that these types of encounters have on the women and it is not pretty. Romance has to be part of the long term relationship or it is just a way to get into a womans pants by way of throwing her off guard because she is thinking about how special she feels at that momment.
I for one believe that true romance from the heart can only come for a heart that is commited to the other person or working towards a common goal of a long term relationship. Please be careful with the women you come across in realtime as they are a fragile and beautiful thing. It takes time to heal one of those hearts after they have been hurt in this type of relationship.........and yes I speak from experience. But what I have found is that if that woman is worth it, working with her, romancing her and walking side by side with her through the healing process and being sincere about how you feel about her, then the heart will heal. It may take time but sometimes they are worth it. I must ask then if you can life with yourself if you cause this kind of damage to a woman you meet...............or are you using romance as a ploy to find women to sleep with? Let me reiterate that as strong as womens hearts are, they are a fragile flower to love and to cherish. What are you really about?
*gets off my soapbox and leaves*
I for one believe that true romance from the heart can only come for a heart that is commited to the other person or working towards a common goal of a long term relationship. Please be careful with the women you come across in realtime as they are a fragile and beautiful thing. It takes time to heal one of those hearts after they have been hurt in this type of relationship.........and yes I speak from experience. But what I have found is that if that woman is worth it, working with her, romancing her and walking side by side with her through the healing process and being sincere about how you feel about her, then the heart will heal. It may take time but sometimes they are worth it. I must ask then if you can life with yourself if you cause this kind of damage to a woman you meet...............or are you using romance as a ploy to find women to sleep with? Let me reiterate that as strong as womens hearts are, they are a fragile flower to love and to cherish. What are you really about?
*gets off my soapbox and leaves*
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bamagirl said:
well bamagirl we are out there. Just seems like you need to kiss a lot of bad ones to find the good one. One the other side also is finding the right woman. Romance is wasted at times with the wrong one. My exwife for example. But that is a story for a whole new thread
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Very very true Mysterious it is an everyday thing and that is What build a very romantic relationship.
Very very true Mysterious it is an everyday thing and that is What build a very romantic relationship.
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Jazey just curious to know if THE ONE is with you now or not?
Jazey just curious to know if THE ONE is with you now or not?
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bamagirl said:I would love to find romance,just doesn't seem like many guys are out there who do. my ex sure didn't
hopefully one day I will find my prince charming
bamagirl forgive me for the delay in responding. I am really busy on sunday's since it is the one day on the weekend I have off. I think part of the romance problem today is the me generation...what can being with you do for me, what will romance do for me...if if it does not work out between us then what happens to me? Plus many of the people I know male wise are more willing to work on their car or house then on the relationship. They think once you have her then you will always have her. But on both sides of the coin, there are many women out there that refuse to work on the relationship either. I believe the whole romance thing is a package.....if you care enough about the person you have feelings for then you will make sure each and every need of her's is met. If she cares about you like she says she does, then she will make sure all of your needs are met. I think it all boils down to, do you think the person you are with, is worth the effort to fight for. If the answer is yes then fight for them. Romance is a way to show them you care about them.that you want them to feel the butterflies inside.................imagine cooking breakfast for your special someone and say something to them...they come up kiss you and tell you that you are so good to me. Imagine your S/O coming home from work when you have off and having dinner on the table, dishes washed already and most of them put away. After dinner snuggling on the couch or just massaging their feet to relax them. You do these thngs because you care about them....it is going the little extra mile to show them how much they mean to you.
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Skilled, I truly hope you are sincere in your search....we need men that are
Mysterious<kiss on the cheek> you remind constantly of why you stick out in my mind all the time.
Mysterious<kiss on the cheek> you remind constantly of why you stick out in my mind all the time.
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bamagirl said:MysteriousRomantic I agree a 100 % with you.every relationship should be like that.
do you wanna come give these bama boys lessons???
or just move to bama
Thank you for the compliment dear lady. I do not know if it is a learned trait or has something to do with upbringing. Have you ever noticed that they classes for almost everything except the art of romance. I think the main problem is most men need to be macho all of the time. They are afraid of being in touch with their emotions. Some hate being taught...period. I told a very dear friend of mine ( female) that you need to think with both your head and your heart. Sometimes you need to listen to your head more then the heart. Sometimes they need to think outside the box...............maybe just not use the romance they have as a means to get what they want. (me philosophy again) I was talking to a friend of mine about someone they knew and when they took a hosre drawn carriage ride. As soon as they said that...my first thought was what a great way to propose to someone.
BTW bamagirl.....i have heard horror stories about how poor the men in the south are on romance............have heard a few stories from aqauintances about how bad they are in the bedroom also. Like you can start and be done during a commercial break during a football game. Is this true?
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