Women - Masturbation

[lauramilf]

Hi all,

Just one for the ladies of lit but do any of you feel like when your masturbating its wrong and does that in turn, turn you on more?

I have often felt naughty, embarrassed and ashamed after masturbating but while im doing the act itself just drives me so wild if that makes sense. it just feels almost taboo

Would love to hear from others?

Thanks',

Laura

 

[Bonnie_Does]

Hi all,

Just one for the ladies of lit but do any of you feel like when your masturbating its wrong and does that in turn, turn you on more?

I have often felt naughty, embarrassed and ashamed after masturbating but while im doing the act itself just drives me so wild if that makes sense. it just feels almost taboo

Would love to hear from others?

Thanks',

Laura

I do it almost every day...Sometimes more! Do what ya' gotta' do Laura and enjoy every orgasm you have.

 

[BongoGal]

I have never felt the "this feels wrong" thing in regard to masturbation. Maybe I am lucky that I was never told that it was somehow wrong to touch yourself "down there". Before I had sex for the first time, I had given myself thousands of orgasms in the years prior. All I ever got from it was pleasure and relief. I am trying to imagine what it would be like to 18-year-old me, horny as all get-out, but trying to avoid giving myself orgasms because....why? Because I should wait for a lawfully wedded husband to give them to me?

 

[lauramilf]

I don't feel like its wrong to the point i don't want to do it, but the feeling of it being wrong turns me on more. I don't know why i feel like its wrong or naughty, maybe like you said brought up your taught its naughty and not to do it, maybe its ingrained!

But I do love to masturbate and how horney it makes me feel!

 

[hotwords229_A]

This is interesting.
Do you think about getting caught? Does that make it more intense?
I’m wondering if there is an exhibitionist aspect to this.
Do you think talking openly to your friends about masturbating would somehow take the thrill away?
I have a similar feeling about nudity.
I like that it’s a little taboo and “naughty”, it makes it more fun. If it were totally acceptable then it would lose some of its thrill for me.

Masturbation is awesome! I love it. I’m glad it’s still thrilling for you.

ETA—that I just realized I asked a woman if there is an exhibitionist aspect to her fantasy when her AV is her bare breasts! Haha! Sometimes I earn the rank of Captain Obvious.

 

[sally_sparrow]

I don't feel like its wrong to the point i don't want to do it, but the feeling of it being wrong turns me on more. I don't know why i feel like its wrong or naughty, maybe like you said brought up your taught its naughty and not to do it, maybe its ingrained!

But I do love to masturbate and how horney it makes me feel!

I think I know what you are talking about. It's such a primal urge and it breaks us down to our most basic needs and instincts. We lose control in that moment. I don't feel like I've done anything wrong when I masturbate, but sometimes when I'm finished I will think to myself "Damn, you are fucking naughty"

 

[BongoGal]

Do you think talking openly to your friends about masturbating would somehow take the thrill away?

It has been a couple of decades since I had friends with whom I would ever talk openly about masturbating. At the time it was just one aspect of talking about sex in general. A friend might mention hooking up with some guy and then go into some details, and I might reply that I just went home and played with myself. It didn't seem salacious or titillating, just open and honest. This would only ever happen with female friends, though. Guy friends would be too interested.

From what I have gathered, women are more likely to mention masturbating to each other than guys are.

 

[hotwords229_A]

It has been a couple of decades since I had friends with whom I would ever talk openly about masturbating. At the time it was just one aspect of talking about sex in general. A friend might mention hooking up with some guy and then go into some details, and I might reply that I just went home and played with myself. It didn't seem salacious or titillating, just open and honest. This would only ever happen with female friends, though. Guy friends would be too interested.

From what I have gathered, women are more likely to mention masturbating to each other than guys are.

I agree that women can’t talk to men about masturbating without create a stir , but I can assure you that us guys talk about masturbating A LOT—we don’t even have to be friends.

 

[ultramannc]

Masturbation

I don't feel like its wrong to the point i don't want to do it, but the feeling of it being wrong turns me on more. I don't know why i feel like its wrong or naughty, maybe like you said brought up your taught its naughty and not to do it, maybe its ingrained!

But I do love to masturbate and how horney it makes me feel!

My generation were emphatic about the immoral and disgusting act of masturbation. To this day I fear going blind. our sexuality was harshly frowned upon as well. Wish I could be with someone who has an open and honest mind about these things. I feel mutual masturbation is wonderful.

 

[CarlyAnn]

I’ve never felt guilty about it, just feels so natural. Maybe some credit goes to my Mom as she and I talked about it when I was young.

 

[shewantsmore]

I was brought up to believe women didnt do that, my mother told me nothing but i had sisters to talk too..i felt too it was something exciting yet very naughty which made me want to do it alot..it was only when i got to callage that i found i could talk about it freely