Women liking to be degraded

[DCBlack]

Any ladies have this kink? Do tell

 

[DCBlack]

I dont mean as it as in being harmed. Just objectified or sexually. Met a woman who has a man whose cock she sucks regularly. He tells her thats all shes good for, that she could never be his main lady or wife, and she loves it. says its her kink and she eats it up

 

[LauraWilling]

I've submitted to humiliation in the past as a sub and involved with BDSM. Now though I only get it from a couple of FWB's I was seeing occasionally (not during this self isolation) but their treatment of me is pretty mild with just a little name calling during sex and I enjoy it. These 2 friends are ot into it as much as what I experienced in the past.

I used to feel I deserved it as it happened quite often in everyday life as well as sexually.

 

[SAILOR954]

I've submitted to humiliation in the past as a sub and involved with BDSM. Now though I only get it from a couple of FWB's I was seeing occasionally (not during this self isolation) but their treatment of me is pretty mild with just a little name calling during sex and I enjoy it. These 2 friends are ot into it as much as what I experienced in the past.

I used to feel I deserved it as it happened quite often in everyday life as well as sexually.

I have been very careful with this over the years. Always felt that a submissive woman was really a special thing.

I have found that their safety is the number one concern. If they are going to surrender control to me they need to know they will be kept safe.

Serving my lust and obedience to my will really seems to bring out the slut hunger. Such a turn on when they realize for the first time that under me it's OK to just let go and become what has always been inside them.

The degradation and humiliation is never what they deserve IMO. But it can be what they crave. Especially in a fantasy role.

Sailor

 

[lovesexfun]

Any ladies have this kink? Do tell

i would love to get my wife degraded.

 

[soccermomnympho]

I do enjoy a bit of this. When I was younger I would date older men that really exposed my love of being objectified and degradation. It's not as much a part of my life anymore.

 

[anniebaby10]

so do men want to be degraded? To be told they are nothing but a cock to be used for my pleasure? To be just a tongue and mouth for me to sit on and force you to eat my pussy and ass again, just for my pleasure? I think for some "role playing" a little of this could be fun but for an ongoing idea that there is no love or caring involved that you are just a hole to be filled is indeed degrading. And I feel sorry for a young girl or woman that is in that position. Very sad.

 

[hogjack]

Met a woman who has a man whose cock she sucks regularly. He tells her thats all shes good for,...

Well, since they can't go out for dinner or movies anymore, seems like a safe way to operate.

 

[dp4shelly]

There are woman like that but...

Any ladies have this kink? Do tell

Yes, some woman suffer from very negative views of themselves. That is usually because they have been degraded by disgusting people that have used and abused them. It is not NATURAL for any human to want to be treated in a degraded fashion.

Any guys that gratify themselves by degrading a woman that has issues with her self-image are truly disgusting.

Sex is wonderful and natural and should bring great pleasure and a sense of well-being. A woman should feel good about her power to give the gift of orgasm but not that she is otherwise worthless.

Sex is much better and far more fulfilling when everyone involved treats others with dignity and respect. That works the same way in all aspects of life.

 

[hogjack]

Sex is wonderful and natural and should bring great pleasure and a sense of well-being.

So my self-roofie is unnecessary. Hmm. Gotta think about this.

 

[Daddysfatwhore]

Yes I love to be humiliated and degraded during sex.

 

[nomdeguerre01]

so do men want to be degraded? To be told they are nothing but a cock to be used for my pleasure? To be just a tongue and mouth for me to sit on and force you to eat my pussy and ass again, just for my pleasure? I think for some "role playing" a little of this could be fun but for an ongoing idea that there is no love or caring involved that you are just a hole to be filled is indeed degrading. And I feel sorry for a young girl or woman that is in that position. Very sad.

*blushes. some do.

 

[WanderingSarah]

Depending on what we're doing in bed, or how turned on I am, I enjoy it. Outside the bedroom, nope.

 

[HornyHeidi]

…………………………….

 

[KyleR215]

so do men want to be degraded? To be told they are nothing but a cock to be used for my pleasure? To be just a tongue and mouth for me to sit on and force you to eat my pussy and ass again, just for my pleasure? I think for some "role playing" a little of this could be fun but for an ongoing idea that there is no love or caring involved that you are just a hole to be filled is indeed degrading. And I feel sorry for a young girl or woman that is in that position. Very sad.

the way you describe it, sign me up

 

[CandK_inSE]

so do men want to be degraded? To be told they are nothing but a cock to be used for my pleasure? To be just a tongue and mouth for me to sit on and force you to eat my pussy and ass again, just for my pleasure? I think for some "role playing" a little of this could be fun but for an ongoing idea that there is no love or caring involved that you are just a hole to be filled is indeed degrading. And I feel sorry for a young girl or woman that is in that position. Very sad.

Completely agree.

Sure, my wife and me do and say some things to each other during some role playing. She may even enjoy being called “slut” once in a while during sex. Depending on what we’re doing, it can be very hot!

But that’s certainly not healthy outside the confines of the sexual relationship, and would think any woman or man in a relationship like that is being abused.

 

[waratah]

Any ladies have this kink? Do tell

Last FWB was into this a bit. Being told if she didn't have her mouth on my cock within 3 seconds would mean she had to sleep on the floor made her clit actually dance.

 

[DCBlack]

Last FWB was into this a bit. Being told if she didn't have her mouth on my cock within 3 seconds would mean she had to sleep on the floor made her clit actually dance.

HOTTTTTT, these are the types of stories I was looking for.

The chick who got me into it was a bartender at a restaurant I managed back in the day. After college I couldnt find a job so I was there running the joint for some income. It was here where I developed a sexual relationship with her and another waitress. Typical taboo boss fuckin the chicks at the job kinda thing.

Eventually I met a woman outside of work I got serious with, and she would come by to eat and have drinks. I told the bartender chick I wanted to stop cause now I was getting serious with someone.....she responded by getting aggressive and wanting sex and always wanting to suck me off at every open opportunity when we could steal some time. During that time I told her look I got a gf now and your basically my slut when I want some action...Ill keep fucking you but keep your mouth shut and dont fuck this up for me. She was so into being called a slut, filthy whore, dirty h*e, side b!tch, you name it. I felt how wet she got from being treated like shit which egged me on and the sex got nastier and went on for months. Most times after I'd kick her out of wherever we were and toss her panties outside, shut doors in her face, mock her, call her all kinds of shit. Not even how I am but I knew it turned her on.

Soon she left and moved to the west coast. We kept it touch for a bit, but communication soon faded.

then I recently met a woman who admitted she was into this sort of thing so got me to thinking how many others like her are out there

 

[deafjeff]

Yes, some woman suffer from very negative views of themselves. That is usually because they have been degraded by disgusting people that have used and abused them. It is not NATURAL for any human to want to be treated in a degraded fashion.

Any guys that gratify themselves by degrading a woman that has issues with her self-image are truly disgusting.

Sex is wonderful and natural and should bring great pleasure and a sense of well-being. A woman should feel good about her power to give the gift of orgasm but not that she is otherwise worthless.

Sex is much better and far more fulfilling when everyone involved treats others with dignity and respect. That works the same way in all aspects of life.

This. Don't want to degrade and will not be degraded.

 

[Erous]

People who took this thread way too serious do not get the concept of fetish and fantasy. I wonder if they only have sex in missionary position because simple things such as blowjob and doggy position can be considered degrading too.

I have a dom and enjoy being submissive and degraded. Even a little D/S play in public but discretely. Sex is supposed to be fun. As long as both parties are enjoying it, it doesn't matter.

I'm with you, 100%. My wife loves to be called a slut, and call me Daddy Sir, have rough sex, get spanked and choked. It's fun for us and there's nothing psychologically amiss with her. Now, this doesn't carry past the bedroom...she's very strong willed and confident. She even rides the shit out of me sometimes too (I have the torn up shirts to prove it!)

Anyway, it's a roleplay thing and it's all in fun. That's how we take it. Our fantasy though is to have a female be used for sexual favors at our beckon call. That could be considered a degraded fantasy for those who would enjoy it. But it's still all in fun for us and hopefully for the individual also.

 

[newhere2learn]

I used to feel I deserved it as it happened quite often in everyday life as well as sexually.

Interesting, current fwb has a slight kink for it and is submissive about 75% of the time. She won't vocalise her requests to submit in advance, which sometimes makes it a "guesswork" exercise. But this far I've discovered that she becomes especially aroused by things like:

- hair pulled
- hand around her throat
- hands pinned under her or above her head
- hair pulled while giving a BJ and then face fucked
- hands roughly grabbing her ass as she's fucked from behind
- ass spanked hard, if she doesn't comply quickly enough
- being told "no" when she wants to do something in bed
- and others I've perhaps forgotten

Her wetness increases multiple times over, noises increase. And as we've explored more she even "creams" which is a new one to me. And by her own admission, only happens when super horny.

She also usually likes to finish on all fours, face in the pillows, being rough fucked from behind, with little or no thought given to how it is for her. Repeatedly gasping out instructions such as "just do it for you.." and "use me to get off".

All the time she will be getting wetter, noisier, gasping and creaming.

Took a couple of visits to get my head around the fact that she's not going to be in pain. Afterwards she goes into a happy place, soporific and very relaxed. With red ass cheeks, sore pussy, wet thighs and my load leaking from her.

My human instinct is often to wonder if I was too rough. But she assures me readily that it's exactly "what I needed".


She has some daddy issues and has had a few douche bag boyfriends. Including an ex that treated her like shit (widely known). So your sentence above would appear to correlate with that... It's all linked to her self esteem?

 

[Maturelickr]

Well said, if more people understood that and all bullying, the world would be a better and more fun place

 

[wallstreetguy]

Both sides

This is a tough one for me.
I've been with a few women who asked to be degraded. It is not natural for me. I had to figure out the balance between kink and just being awful.
Never had a woman say I went too far. In fact, more often they told me i was not terrible enough.
I found i was good at it, but not sure that's a great thing.
The adulation from degrading can be intoxicating so you have to balance it out in your own head.
Prefer just what I am now: Dom.