Women Is sex more about penis size or more about dominating the clit?

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So would sex be better if he's got a bigger penis or if he knew what he was doing and could dominate your G spot and clit and had a four or five inch cock..... And is the thing true about if your man lets say has a four inch maybe five member but can rub and work your clit during penetration that is better than just straight penetration with a bigger cock...
 
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I think size is exciting, but having a lover who is well endowed who doesn't know how to use it, or what to do to my body is boring. Hands, mouth, hips, etc are all integral to the experience. I know that I would prefer a man who could make me moan and writhe with pleasure who had a smaller penis over a man with a large cock who didn't know where to touch me.
 
For me I need to be able to feel his dick inside. The full feeling is exciting part. So as long as his dick is thick in size I don't care about length.
 
I don't like big cocks give me average size or smaller and a guy that can use it. That size can go were big ones can't
 
For a long-term fuck buddy, I'll take the guy with the big dick. You can teach him how to use it, but you can't teach a guy with a 4 inch cock to have an 8 inch cock.
 
If a man doesn't know how to use his too, it wouldn't matter its size. Now, about "dominating the clit"... How does one make a clit submit? :confused:
 
For me, sex is all about having a partner that's willing to explore each other's fantasies. Someone who doesn't judge and is open to new things. Come to me with that and the rest doesn't really matter.
 
For me, sex is all about having a partner that's willing to explore each other's fantasies. Someone who doesn't judge and is open to new things. Come to me with that and the rest doesn't really matter.


Luna, I think I love you. That's exactly correct. My other qualifications are that the cock gets hard and that there is a lot of licking and biting all over.
 
Luna, I think I love you. That's exactly correct. My other qualifications are that the cock gets hard and that there is a lot of licking and biting all over.

Well, you know us Floridians have to stick together ;)
 
Well, I don't know about the other women here, but if I am turned enough I can cum by tensing certain muscles alone - no need for physical contact. So if a man really turns me on (and my mind obviously) I could not care less about his dick size.
The description "dominating the G-Spot and the clit" on the hand other does not sound the least bit relaxing - more like a man desperately focusing on those areas to force the woman to cum. No fun.
What about trusting the woman to take charge a little? She usually knows what she needs and in my experience a woman in charge is what many men love from time to time.
 
The biggest I ever had was not good. That being said, I've had really small that was not good either.

Given the choice between big and don't know how to use it, and small and talented, I'll take the latter. What I like best is someone who loves and accepts me, is open and willing, and who know how to use their mind, mouth, fingers, and finally cock on me to have me tingling with anticipation before and happy and content after.

I'm not sure I want my clit, pussy, or g spot "dominated". I like it rough, but that doesn't sound fun.
 
Correct me if I'm wrong, but women, in general, want a MAN, not a fuck.

In other words, if she's into the guy she's with, a lot of those other pieces fall into place.

Life is not like porn, where a woman sees an erection and immediately becomes a lust-driven fuck puppet.
 
Raw Humor you are correct, but when younger I had some very good one shot experiences and I have to agree with the other ladies so far that size is not the important factor, as long as it is average or slightly above and more importantly knows what to do with it and how to touch me. Now saying size isn't that important, in some cases a big one can be fun to play with, but for getting down to business an average length with some thickness is my favorite. I find thickness to be far more important than length. As for dominating the clit, I really don't know what you mean. My clit loves attention, but I'm not sure how to make it more submissive than I already am.
 
I hate to say it, I really do, but I really like the full feeling of a thick cock. Skill counts, yes, but I must confess to liking a big dick. Luckily, my husband is incredibly well endowed. :devil:
 
He's also very lucky

You're pretty well endowed yourself.
 
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I am hung like a horse so I have been told,But if you care about pleasing a woman,its not about size,its about passion.I have pleased many women with just my tongue as I have my dick.
 
Hogwash...

It isn't the size that COUNTS, it's the whole deal. It's the manner in which a man uses his knowledge of a woman's body to ignite her passion. And it is up to a woman to take that passion and return it 10 fold. Sex that is truly great is a 2-way street... seeing your own lust mirrored in your lover's eyes is amazing. True sensuality has more to do with feelings and the exploration of the mind and heart as well as the genitalia...
 
as long as he can take control of my body and make me explode at that peak moment. . . Size isn't an issue for me :)
 
So would sex be better if he's got a bigger penis or if he knew what he was doing and could dominate your G spot and clit and had a four or five inch cock..... And is the thing true about if your man lets say has a four inch maybe five member but can rub and work your clit during penetration that is better than just straight penetration with a bigger cock...

I have to admit a mental attraction and arousal to a big cock, and having my mind engaged in that way can be a very good thing. However, I had a boyfriend long ago who was not particularly well endowed but who had a way of somehow rubbing my clit when he fucked me. And I came very reliably with him.

Having said that: there is so much more to satisfying sex than cock size or technique.
 
So would sex be better if he's got a bigger penis or if he knew what he was doing and could dominate your G spot and clit and had a four or five inch cock..... And is the thing true about if your man lets say has a four inch maybe five member but can rub and work your clit during penetration that is better than just straight penetration with a bigger cock...

One thing you'll learn is that men care more about the size then we do. Don't get me wrong i don't want no 2 inch dick i can't even feel but an average one is just fine if the guy knows what the fuck he's doing. A lot of the really well hung guys I've fucked were also crap in the sack. They all seemed to think I should worship the ground they walked on because they were big even if they couldn't find my clit with a road map and giant neon signs.
 
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