Women: Do you fantasize about your man with another woman?

[KinkyGAGuy]

So I was out with one of my lady friends last night, and we ran across a beautiful young woman who was rather chatty, the 3 of us had fun flirty conversation, when the young woman excused herself to go freshen up as she stated, my lady friend leaned over and whispered into my ear. "I want to watch you fuck her" I was dumbfounded for a moment, but then grinned. So after the evening activities ended with the two women friending each other on facebook and exchanging numbers. On the drive back to my lady's house, I asked if she was serious, she said very serious! Made for some hot sex last night and this morning.

I know there is a thread about men watching their wives with other men, so I decided to post this question to see the other side of the coin.

Thanks for all responses in advance.

 

[Asian_Flower]

In short, absolutely.

 

[policywank]

Yes, for sure. However, I want to see him treat her right. It is a great "gift" he is receiving which should be treated with appreciation and respect.

 

[KinkyGAGuy]

Yes, for sure. However, I want to see him treat her right. It is a great "gift" he is receiving which should be treated with appreciation and respect.

I assure you, she will be treated with respect, and it will be very much appreciated.

 

[policywank]

I assure you, she will be treated with respect, and it will be very much appreciated.

Good to hear. It will also be a trick to figure out what your gf wants out of this.

The only way to do that is to inquire and listen. I know that sounds obvious, but more often than not the comments I see from guys who want to dedicate themselves to pleasing a woman are still rooted in what they think she wants. They mean well but are just too anxious to get at it and have very sensitive egos when things don't work out.

The best example is the whole "I don't cum until she chums" nonsense. You guys just don't have that much control over our orgasms and while I appreciate the sentiment of being prepared to lick my pussy until I am satisfied, sometimes it just isn't happening. In that case "what I want" is the latitude to have ok but not great sex without always having to stroke an ego or preload the next encounter with insecurity and expectations.

In your case your gf may not even quite know why she wants to see you with another woman. And even if she does have an inkling you need to probe deeper and find out. Certainly the reasons I have heard for men wanting their wife/gf to be with another man are quite varied. And usually they don't come to grips with what drives them until after it has happened. One guy likes the notion of being humiliated by seeing his woman "taken" by another man whereas the next guy loves to see his wife as a sexual being in charge of her own pleasure. You don't want to get those mixed up.

 

[KinkyGAGuy]

Good to hear. It will also be a trick to figure out what your gf wants out of this.

The only way to do that is to inquire and listen. I know that sounds obvious, but more often than not the comments I see from guys who want to dedicate themselves to pleasing a woman are still rooted in what they think she wants. They mean well but are just too anxious to get at it and have very sensitive egos when things don't work out.

The best example is the whole "I don't cum until she chums" nonsense. You guys just don't have that much control over our orgasms and while I appreciate the sentiment of being prepared to lick my pussy until I am satisfied, sometimes it just isn't happening. In that case "what I want" is the latitude to have ok but not great sex without always having to stroke an ego or preload the next encounter with insecurity and expectations.

In your case your gf may not even quite know why she wants to see you with another woman. And even if she does have an inkling you need to probe deeper and find out. Certainly the reasons I have heard for men wanting their wife/gf to be with another man are quite varied. And usually they don't come to grips with what drives them until after it has happened. One guy likes the notion of being humiliated by seeing his woman "taken" by another man whereas the next guy loves to see his wife as a sexual being in charge of her own pleasure. You don't want to get those mixed up.

We have been texting about this subject all day, I do know that she is bisexual, and is actively seeing a woman that I am not involved with. We are not exclusive as she is married, and he is aware of me. She also knows that I am having sex with other women, and says that makes it much more exciting.

She stated that she wants to watch me rock some other woman's world. She stated that she wants to watch at first and then possibly join in pleasuring the woman. She is very freaky and loves sex. So we will see if this works out or not.

 

[moonbeam12]

husband with other women

Ive seen my husband with other women and its very erotic to me but then hes watched me fuck other men too so our marriage is open

 

[Hornywetcanuck]

Only if I'm involved too! A FFM would be fine with me!

 

[beingtrue2me]

Not really. I mean in some of my fantasies we both share a lover but for the most part, no. I am selfish. I admit it.

 

[sandie350]

i know or knew he had fucked a few other women.......but then i fucked other guys too.......

 

[lilydaresinNYC]

My bf and I play separately on occasion but generally play together. When he is fucking another woman while I'm the room, his focus remains on me.

The last time we were with a woman together, he watched me fucking a dildo in time with his thrusts into the other woman. His eyes never left mine. It was as if he was fucking us both simultaneously.

 

[fma20fma]

hi

I have heard him talk about his passive guy friend.

 

[Jacqui_S]

No, never. I don't like the thought at all.

 

[ShyTease]

well...

If I was blessed with a man even though I'd never be able to do it lol I'd fantasize about it all the while.

I'd definitely put it to him for discussion 'what if' this etc.
Just to see if he'd thought about it too. I wouldn't mind if he had but I believe some fantasies should stay fantasies x

 

[KrazyWhiteBoy]

If I was blessed with a man even though I'd never be able to do it lol I'd fantasize about it all the while.

I'd definitely put it to him for discussion 'what if' this etc.
Just to see if he'd thought about it too. I wouldn't mind if he had but I believe some fantasies should stay fantasies x

Believe me, he has thought about it. I believe every guy fantisizes about being with two women, but I would have to agree that some fantasies should remain just that. I'd have to say that about the majority of mine. If I really think about most of my sexual fantasies happening in real life, they would be much too cumbersome to enjoy. An overactive imagination can be too much if you really think about the intricacies of sex.

 

[littlecordelera]

It turns me on, for different reasons, but I don't fantasize about it. He's done it 2 or 3 times, but our sex life is kind of centered around me with other guys.

 

[PreggoBitch]

Don't need to imagine, can see it when I want

 

[tammyw]

Yes, and very frequently I might add! My husband has known about my interest in the fairer sex since before we started dating. I am allowed to play with other women as long as I am upfront and honest with him about it and he gives me his blessing. On occasions me and one of the women I was seeing will both tag team him and it turns me on so much to watch him with another woman, especially one that I have been intimate with. I love seeing him in pleasure anyways, but something about seeing or picturing another woman with him gets me jealous and horny. Its weird how it affects me.

 

[bill3901]

jealous and horny

Yea, it's weird how those two feelings kind of feed of each other!

 

[AikoCrane]

YES. I have a huge jealousy kink. I would want her to be hotter and younger than me. I want to be driven insane by the jealousy of it.

 

[RawHumor]

YES. I have a huge jealousy kink. I would want her to be hotter and younger than me. I want to be driven insane by the jealousy of it.

That's super sexy to me.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Yes, and very frequently I might add! My husband has known about my interest in the fairer sex since before we started dating. I am allowed to play with other women as long as I am upfront and honest with him about it and he gives me his blessing. On occasions me and one of the women I was seeing will both tag team him and it turns me on so much to watch him with another woman, especially one that I have been intimate with. I love seeing him in pleasure anyways, but something about seeing or picturing another woman with him gets me jealous and horny. Its weird how it affects me.

Does he play with other women? I am soo keen on this kind of setup. The thought of having another woman give my husband head turns me on immensely.

 

[Kelly_N]

Yes, very much. Especially if he also deeply french kisses her, and fondle her talk dirty to her, and if I'm tied up, unable to do anything. It makes me jealous, but in a very, very horny way.

 

[notnice66]

My sometimes bf is involved with two other women - one is his wife and the other is the woman he lives with. I see him only occasionally when he is in this part of the state on business or whatever. So I know that he is getting sex from both those other women and yeah, can't help thinking about it even though I've never met either of them

 

[BiGuyfromOz]

He sounds not only busy

My sometimes bf is involved with two other women - one is his wife and the other is the woman he lives with. I see him only occasionally when he is in this part of the state on business or whatever. So I know that he is getting sex from both those other women and yeah, can't help thinking about it even though I've never met either of them

but lucky