Women, do any of you use a dildo on your partner?

[MrSneakyinPA]

Women, do you use a dildo on your boyfriend/hubby? How did you find out he would like it? Who brought it up the first time.

My wife has used one on me a couple times. But for fear that I might like it "too much" and go after another man, she is extremely hesitant now. She found out I liked it when while laying in bed playing with each other, as her fingers got closer to
"there", it was clear that I wanted her to keep going that direction. And when she used her fingers, I came almost instantly. She likes me to finger her there when I'm licking her, it's an instant orgasm for her. Funny thing is, she is partially correct, I would welcome a bi man in bed with us.

I guess I can ask the men. Do you/your wife use a dildo on you? How did it come up that you liked it?

 

[MrSneakyinPA]

One more question.

Do you mind if your boyfriend/hubby masturbates if you're out of town?

 

[TeaforMe]

One more question.

Do you mind if your boyfriend/hubby masturbates if you're out of town?

I don't care if he masturbates when he is home. He can do it next to me in bed while I sleep for all I care, I sure have.

I play with his ass, too, but I am squeamish when it comes to a man's ass...more than I care to be. I'm working on that.

 

[Goey]

I'll push a finger up there during blowjobs etc. but although he enjoys it it's more than enough for him. I'd have no problem doing it if he asked, specially how I enjoy things in my own bum so much, but it's just not his thing.

I thought this was common knowledge but I guess not - so I'll repeat it here "Liking anal play doesn't make you gay in anyway." A straight man can enjoy having his ass played with and not be gay, bi or anything of the sort. Enjoying someone playing with your ass has nothing to do with your sexuality.

 

[Bbb13]

Last month my wife lubed her vib and tried. I helped her insert, then she went to town.

 

[Surprise_6924]

Last month my wife lubed her vib and tried. I helped her insert, then she went to town.

How did it feel?

 

[Bbb13]

How did it feel?

Best ever

 

[Surprise_6924]

Best ever

It's great I love it!!

 

[softbuzz]

I'm looking forward to seeing what comes out of this discussion.

I love getting it in my ass and the bigger the tool the better. When the head starts to rub the prostrate you get some really great orgasms going and can keep them going till your totally fucked.

Try a double ender, you can both enjoy it together.

 

[RunningJib]

Yes . . .

I'll push a finger up there during blowjobs etc. but although he enjoys it it's more than enough for him. I'd have no problem doing it if he asked, specially how I enjoy things in my own bum so much, but it's just not his thing.

I thought this was common knowledge but I guess not - so I'll repeat it here "Liking anal play doesn't make you gay in anyway." A straight man can enjoy having his ass played with and not be gay, bi or anything of the sort. Enjoying someone playing with your ass has nothing to do with your sexuality.

Use both fingers . . . I really enjoy ass play

 

[ADIDAS00]

My wife has an infatuation with my ass and she loves playing with constantly in bed. And yes, she has used our new dildo on me...it's her new favorite thing to do to me. I think she wants to see me with another guy

 

[Aqualover69]

My wife has an infatuation with my ass and she loves playing with constantly in bed. And yes, she has used our new dildo on me...it's her new favorite thing to do to me. I think she wants to see me with another guy

Wow we could be married to the same woman. She loves using a finger, strapon, dildo on me and wants to see me with another guy. I know this as fact as she has said many times.

 

[LucyH]

Ok, this one leaves me scratching my head... if you have too much fun with her, it'll make you more likely to cheat? Your wife has a weird idea of logic.

As for my experience, he just told me what he wanted from the start.

And why in the world would I mind if a guy masturbates, whether I'm out of town or right there? That doesn't make any sense, unless it's some kind of kinky dominance/submission game.

 

[creampieluvr79]

I thought this was common knowledge but I guess not - so I'll repeat it here "Liking anal play doesn't make you gay in anyway." A straight man can enjoy having his ass played with and not be gay, bi or anything of the sort. Enjoying someone playing with your ass has nothing to do with your sexuality.

AMEN!

 

[fettpett1]

I've had the fantasy since I was in HS and saw a video of a woman fucking a dude with a strap on. About a year ago I finally told my wife about it and told her I wanted to try it. we got a strap on for her but it didn't work too well (the harness) so she just used the dildo on me. OMG did I come HARD from that. She uses it on me every once in a while, but I do have to be in the mood for it.

 

[Goey]

Ok, this one leaves me scratching my head... if you have too much fun with her, it'll make you more likely to cheat? Your wife has a weird idea of logic.

As for my experience, he just told me what he wanted from the start.

And why in the world would I mind if a guy masturbates, whether I'm out of town or right there? That doesn't make any sense, unless it's some kind of kinky dominance/submission game.

Or unless you just want a really big facial when you get home lol

 

[LadyVer]

Yes, in the past. And it was kind of strange. Not bad, just different.

 

[bibethhotwet]

Yes..we both enjoy it. I have a 6 inch slim one I use on him that is his favorite. When I fuck him with it and suck his cock at the same time I am always rewarded with a large throatfull of cum........not that I am complaining

 

[jodylee]

Hubby was surprised he liked anal play. He does have problems from time to time with haemorrhoids, so we don't do it as often as we would like. He prefers a well-lubricated finger during a blow job, or he masturbates while I finger him and use my mouth on his scrotum. Love to hear him moan through it all!

 

[BigbadBrian]

AMEN!

SO true. I have recently discovered anal play myself and quite enjoy it when the mood strikes. As of yet have not let my wife in on that little secret for fear she might freak out.

 

[Goey]

SO true. I have recently discovered anal play myself and quite enjoy it when the mood strikes. As of yet have not let my wife in on that little secret for fear she might freak out.

I'm always been under the impression that as a wife you should be able to tell her anything, but maybe I'm just crazy...

 

[BigbadBrian]

I'm always been under the impression that as a wife you should be able to tell her anything, but maybe I'm just crazy...[/QUYou are prob right Goey. She has actually stated interest in playing with my ass but i havent let her yet. Nice pice btw Gooey.

 

[LadyVer]

I don't see why there is such a taboo against anal. I haven't read any sex info books lately, but hasn't it been established that the the anal region for both men and women is one of the most erogenous zones on the human body? And, just to be clear, this is not an invitation.

 

[Goey]

I don't see why there is such a taboo against anal. I haven't read any sex info books lately, but hasn't it been established that the the anal region for both men and women is one of the most erogenous zones on the human body? And, just to be clear, this is not an invitation.

I could give a long answer about how porn has made it appear slutty or how inconsiderate people have made it out to cause pain but I think a one worded answer is the reason why most people don't do it and that is...

Poo

 

[LadyVer]

I could give a long answer about how porn has made it appear slutty or how inconsiderate people have made it out to cause pain but I think a one worded answer is the reason why most people don't do it and that is...

Poo

LOL I get your point although there are usually ways to work around that Thanks for the clarification. LOL