women controlling men in bed for a change

biscuit1369

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i was wondering...what everybody's thoughts were on a woman doing a guy up the butt with a finger or dildo or vibrator? i'm all for it. maybe it's because she's taking control, maybe it's a little taste of female domination, maybe it's because she's really turned on, or maybe because it just feels good. ( i think it's all of the above.) in any case, maybe it's a new topic to discuss on this great web-site. as soon as i figure out this new pc-cam, i'll send some pics. the wife and i would love to see some of what you people are up to. anyway, have a kinky night.
 
another reply to gals in command

i figured that the women would appreciate a little reversal in a male dominated world
 
gals in charge

i'm not saying i like sitting on fire hydrants or the such...all i was saying is that if i'm in the right mood, i like it when my wife "does" me for a change. just the fact that she's turned on really turns me on.
 
now i'm curious about what other girls have to say. all info (from guys and gals) is interesting
 
Okay, a woman's point of view. The only controlling I like to do with a man is when I'm driving him somewhere. Not that I'm some kind of anti-feminist throwback to my mother's era. Not at all. I am a very strong person. I control my life and I usually try to control the people in it (doesn't always work ;)) I am strong physically, too. Weight training is not making this any less.
So, when I'm with a man intimately, I like to feel small and feminine. If he asked (or ordered) me to finger his ass, I certainly would. But I just can't do the dom thing. I've tried. *sigh*
I'm sure there are some very exciting and dominant women on the boards, I'm just not one of them.

Of course, making a man feel "manly" has never gotten me any complaints...
 
thanks for the info. i'm not into the dominant thing, but, a little bit of the wife having some fun with me is pretty cool. i'm into anything that makes my wife horny and happy.
 
A woman doing something to a man's ass does not have to mean she is a dominant. She could be doing it simply because she knows it excites him. When a man and woman are in sync enough with each other's feelings (or in love) usually each partner is excited to do things that sexually please the other. We all have our "spots" that get us going or finish us off. Sharing these with our partners can be very fullfilling. The thought of a woman having fun with my ass because she enjoys giving me pleasure would be very stimulating to me.

By the way guys, most of us usually don't think twice about going after her ass (just read the stories here) so why shouldn't she (if she wants to).
 
Listen up men

having anything near your ass during sex does NOT constitute any type of homosexual act, feelings, thoughts or whatnot on the woman's side. A man's prostate is a very sensitive organ(?) and any type of stimulation of it, whether it be on the outside, under the balls or on, near, inside or around the anus is very pleasurable. This in no way makes you less of a man to enjoy these sensations.

I think it is extremely hot for a man to like stimulation around the anus or slight penetration.

And, yeah.. I do like to dominate sometimes too. The whole power trip gets me completely going.
 
Only time I touch his asshole is when I'm givin out a really good BJ. Other than that, no. I am not a man. I may have masculine traits, I may be overly agressive, I may prefer traditionally male activities, but I am not a man. If I were a man, I'd have the dick to go with it. I was once told that I was the perfect bed partner because I was so manly. My manliness encouraged his femininity, therefor it was my fault he enjoyed putting my panties on and kept begging me to buy a strapon. *sigh* That still hurts, I was perfectly okay with my ultrafeminine self until that.

I can be dominant in bed, in fact I usually am because I am highly agressive. Takes a lot to make me turn around and be the submissive one. The StudMuffin, despite all of his macho agressive look at me I'm a starving pitbull with a madon ways, prefers to be submissive. Beats me why, something about powertools and having to sleep sometime.

I would prefer there not be a sub or a dom one in the sex, I like it to be equal.
 
Re: Listen up men

TN_Vixen said:
having anything near your ass during sex does NOT constitute any type of homosexual act, feelings, thoughts or whatnot on the woman's side. A man's prostate is a very sensitive organ(?) and any type of stimulation of it, whether it be on the outside, under the balls or on, near, inside or around the anus is very pleasurable. This in no way makes you less of a man to enjoy these sensations.

Totally agree.
 
Well how are you to know if you like it or not if you don't try it??

You know some men are so MANLY that they wont try things like this cause it just isn't done... and then they wonder why other men who do, have more stimulation and better orgasms when it is done.. then when it isn't..

Maybe these MANLY men should try it and find out for them selves instead of being IGNORANT and saying that it will never happen cause it isn't right...


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Old proverb says..

Sometimes it is better to receive than give.
 
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