women and anal

[rae121452]

i'm curious as to how the women on the board feel re: anal sex. the only woman i've talked to about it in real life said she hated it and it did nothing for her. she called it "latin birth control", her words so don't jump on my shit. she was hispanic and said that that was how she and her friends avoided getting pregant since the church forbade birth control.

anyway, i can understand a man getting off on being screwed, there's the whole thing of the prostate being stimulated and the power dynamic. but women don't have a prostate.

give me feed back......does it feel good to you? do you just give it up to please a man? is the whole dom/sub thing relevant here?

 

[fnchristie81]

I don't mind it, personally. Provided there's plenty of foreplay and preparation! I enjoy how dirty it makes me feel, and for the few guys that have actually gone through with it, the look of see on their face that I would let them do it. But obviously it's not as enjoyable as "real" sex. For me at least.

 

[OpenMouth]

My wife loves it. We used it as birth control too; we're not Catholic, just used birth control as an excuse, really! We did nothing but anal for a couple of years, including me ejaculating in her. It was tight and naughty and I miss it.

 

[djyak]

I love anal! Very different feel and it's always a nice treat. Very naughty. I remember an old boyfriend who never had fucked like that. He was spooning me, I reached back, stroking him, used lube on his cock and my little ass, then redirected him inside. He was in heaven! He wanted it all the time then. Hubby and I love it on special occasions

 

[shezaqt]

It's can be great when I'm wanting something more intense. But like most women I have had experiences where some were good and some not so much. I'm not big on dp though.

 

[plesmoreagain]

finger play is always welcome, but not a big fan otherwise..

 

[Daphne20]

For me it can be amazing for several reasons. For me I love pleasing my partner so that helps, but in reality there is a certain and specific way to move when fucking me in the ass. When he cums that makes it so amazing, but it is not about fucking me hard at first, but if he does it right even then I have cum during it

 

[HayleyLuvsSex]

Love my shit packed

 

[Lydia88]

I love it. It's my guilty pleasure!!!

 

[Naughtyboy31]

I've yet to experience it with a woman. Does it have the nubs and or ribs like the inside of the pussy or is it a smooth inside. How does a women react if it's in too far? Will it hurt? Take your breath away? Heart skip a beat?

 

[bibethhotwet]

My husband took my "anal cherry" on our wedding night and has been the only man allowed back there though we have been involved in the swinger lifestyle for years. For me, I enjoy it and for the most part I am the one who initiates it.

That being said, it is not an every day or every week thing with me. Sometimes we go several months in between anal sessions. When we have a MFM sometimes I will take both guys at once, my husband always taking my ass. Other times, other than fingering and licking, anal play does not come into the scene. It is totally up to me if I want to be double penetrated or not.

Anal sex can be hot and fun provided the woman is willing and the man takes his time and doesn't decide to plow in like a bull in a china shop. Needless to say a sufficient amount of time cleaning that particular area is an absolute necessity.

 

[jakelc]

My wife is the only woman I have been with who is a huge fan of anal. She adores her ass being touched and will initiate it. As with a couple of others on her we are swingers and when we started the rule was that her ass was mine. On a couple of occasions that rule was broken, usually when the other guy/s were seriously well hung. I’ve know other women who have enjoyed anal but it’s not been a regular part of their sex lives, more of a special occasion/treat for their partner or if they’re in the mood for a more intense experience. On the whole a lot of the women I know have never and will never go beyond a gentle touch to their ass from a finger or tongue.

 

[Erotic69er]

I’ve met a few women who have requested it because they really enjoy it.

Generally I’ve tended to give anal sex on special occasions with my wife. It’s usually when we’ve been enjoying lots of foreplay and she is feeling fully turned on and kinky.
She loves being given lots of tongue and she will often yearn to be rimmed. She loves the feel of a wet tongue on her anus. It drives her wild. Some say we have a higher concentration of nerve ends their than any other part of our bodies.
This leads to me giving her anal sex. She and I love the tightness of it. I think for her it is very taboo. That seems to really turn her on.
As a swinger I’ve met quite a number of women who desire anal sex for the same reasons. It’s not for everyone but if it’s given skilfully it can be really lovely.
Being bi I’ve always enjoyed it. Over time I’ve probably preferred taking tongue and cock to giving it.

 

[JackOffer]

Both of my late wives loved anal, and so do my Daughter and Daughter-in-Law, and their Daughters. In fact I can't think of any woman I know who doesn't love it.

 

[crashD]

finger play is always welcome, but not a big fan otherwise..

as a guy, i do enjoy having my finger up a ladies ass while we're fucking...

 

[Dreamer110]

Damn! Gotta hate those one way signs.

 

[american_beauty]

as most things everyone feels differently about and like if I am really into a man and he knows what to do and also plays with my clit it can be beautiful otherwise its just painful.

 

[ausfet]

I hate the whole idea of anyone going near my butt. It's a firm 'no way' here.

 

[fit_sexual_male50]

as most things everyone feels differently about and like if I am really into a man and he knows what to do and also plays with my clit it can be beautiful otherwise its just painful.

Yes. The "beautiful" part.

 

[123bo]

How exciting, my first post and one of my favourite things!

I love anal, fingering, penetration, mmm!

Can be very intense, I love clit stimulation at the same time, but sometimes it's good enough without to enjoy.

Definitely something to work up to though, lube is a must for me...

 

[plesmoreagain]

Love my shit packed

That is one of my all time favorite gifs.....

 

[cuckoldbob]

I don't really understand why you need to ask.

It's a personal thing. Some women like it, some don't.

I had to stop doing it because my lady friends began to have
bowel trouble. The spincter isn't really designed for cocks,
whereas the vagina is.

It's really a personal thing, you like it or you don't.

I'd never screw someone without checking them out
beforehand.

 

[jenni_bean]

It has its place and can be enjoyable but generally I prefer the old fashioned way.

 

[cuckoldbob]

It has its place and can be enjoyable but generally I prefer the old fashioned way.

I think I agree. Anal has a glamour about it, but when you really fuck someone up
the ass, it doesn't feel right. Those vaginal muscles aren't there. I feel like I'm in empty space when I fuck a woman up the ass. I think I'd rather a vagina.

 

[gtnlynn]

My wife won't do anal. Before we married, another guy rammed his cock into her ass when they were having drunk sex. It hurt so bad that she never tried again. That's okay with me.