Women’s opinion on pegging (strap on)

[shrek100]

Hi Ladies.
Mrs shrek here.
What is your opinion on pegging? Love it? Hate it?
For me I side with loving it. Not often but when the mood is just right it’s great fun.
First time, felt a bit silly. A bit self conscious and didn’t really know what to expect.
Now, I really get off on the power exchange. The look in his eye and the little moans he makes. The way his cock responds not completely sure if to be completely hard or not. And when he cums he almost looks shocked.
Last time, I actually scooped his cum up and tubed it on the strapon before fucking him again. So wrong I know :/
I have to say, respect to men for getting the rhythm right when they shag us. It’s not completely easy.

 

[cdstefi]

My wife's not on here but I'm sure she'd concur about Feeldoes (strapless) and how good they feel for her; after one particularly intense session when I'd been riding it and masturbating, culminating in a big cumshot over her tits, she said "I came so hard you broke my vagina"

 

[14ALL]

Hi Ladies.
Mrs shrek here.
What is your opinion on pegging? Love it? Hate it?
For me I side with loving it. Not often but when the mood is just right it’s great fun.
First time, felt a bit silly. A bit self conscious and didn’t really know what to expect.
Now, I really get off on the power exchange. The look in his eye and the little moans he makes. The way his cock responds not completely sure if to be completely hard or not. And when he cums he almost looks shocked.
Last time, I actually scooped his cum up and tubed it on the strapon before fucking him again. So wrong I know :/
I have to say, respect to men for getting the rhythm right when they shag us. It’s not completely easy.

So… wow. I would love to learn more about this and how women feel about it. Also, post #2, I had no idea there was a product like that. I can only imagine how fun that would be and how good it would feel.

Also, specifically from a woman’s perspective, I would like some ideas of how to have this conversation. Because, at face value, it seems gay. At least, I know my wife would think it’d gay.

EDIT: I had to do a little research on this and found this website: https://peggingparadise.com/2015/08/truth-about-strapless-strap-ons/

 

[shrek100]

So… wow. I would love to learn more about this and how women feel about it. Also, post #2, I had no idea there was a product like that. I can only imagine how fun that would be and how good it would feel.

Also, specifically from a woman’s perspective, I would like some ideas of how to have this conversation. Because, at face value, it seems gay. At least, I know my wife would think it’d gay.

EDIT: I had to do a little research on this and found this website: https://peggingparadise.com/2015/08/truth-about-strapless-strap-ons/

We was out having and a meal and strapon play came up in conversation.
We had played with plugs etc so anal wasn’t off limit.
A few drinks had flowed. Topic of conversation sex.
“You would love it if I get a strapon and used it on you”
He responded I am game if you want.
5 mins later strapon kit ordered for delivery.
I don’t think it as Gay in anyway. It’s just fun.

 

[cdstefi]

So… wow. I would love to learn more about this and how women feel about it. Also, post #2, I had no idea there was a product like that. I can only imagine how fun that would be and how good it would feel.

Also, specifically from a woman’s perspective, I would like some ideas of how to have this conversation. Because, at face value, it seems gay. At least, I know my wife would think it’d gay.

EDIT: I had to do a little research on this and found this website: https://peggingparadise.com/2015/08/truth-about-strapless-strap-ons/

I agree they're not as easy to use as the selling blurb may make out.

When we use it, it's generally me riding cowgirl and her possibly holding onto it (been a while in all honesty and my memory has a few blanks from when I've been having my ass fucked ), so it's me doing most of the moving.

There's nothing gay about it by the way. It's a woman giving her man a new sensation, that's all. I'd have thought we'd moved past this anal=gay stuff by now?

 

[babyface23]

Hi Ladies.
Mrs shrek here.
What is your opinion on pegging? Love it? Hate it?
For me I side with loving it. Not often but when the mood is just right it’s great fun.
First time, felt a bit silly. A bit self conscious and didn’t really know what to expect.
Now, I really get off on the power exchange. The look in his eye and the little moans he makes. The way his cock responds not completely sure if to be completely hard or not. And when he cums he almost looks shocked.
Last time, I actually scooped his cum up and tubed it on the strapon before fucking him again. So wrong I know :/
I have to say, respect to men for getting the rhythm right when they shag us. It’s not completely easy.

I’m assuming you are talking more of a missionary position seeing his cock like that. In my mind, I used to fantasize about getting pegged with me on all fours. However, the description. You provided has definitely made it to the top of my list. Especially if she would stroke me while she fucks me

 

[shrek100]

I’m assuming you are talking more of a missionary position seeing his cock like that. In my mind, I used to fantasize about getting pegged with me on all fours. However, the description. You provided has definitely made it to the top of my list. Especially if she would stroke me while she fucks me

the first time, he was on all fours. It was actually in a sex dungeon (Google Essex dungeon) fun place to go.
Although I enjoyed the power and experience I do prefer the face to face element. I think it made the whole thing more intense.
We have an empty house this weekend. I wonder if he will be up for it

 

[babyface23]

the first time, he was on all fours. It was actually in a sex dungeon (Google Essex dungeon) fun place to go.
Although I enjoyed the power and experience I do prefer the face to face element. I think it made the whole thing more intense.
We have an empty house this weekend. I wonder if he will be up for it

Report back if so!

 

[LoveOlderLove]

Thanks for the thread, like reading different people's opinions/ experiences... M mid 20s. Pegging has never been anything I have thought about until I recently saw a video on here where an older woman was pegging her husband and he had the craziest orgasm. Didn't know a man could get that from something in his ass. Maybe I would let the right woman try it (preferably an older one )

 

[LoneMilf]

Hmm.. I've sometimes wondered about pegging, but never tried it.

On the face of it, it just doesn't seem like a great idea - there isn't much physical stimulation for the woman doing it and it would seem rather difficult for her to hit the spot just right for the guy too. There are plenty of guys talking about how hard it is even for themselves to massage their prostate.

So is it 'just' the power dynamics that make it attractive? Or is it more of an add-on, so pegging + handjob/masturbation is what gives the good effects?

 

[shrek100]

Hmm.. I've sometimes wondered about pegging, but never tried it.

On the face of it, it just doesn't seem like a great idea - there isn't much physical stimulation for the woman doing it and it would seem rather difficult for her to hit the spot just right for the guy too. There are plenty of guys talking about how hard it is even for themselves to massage their prostate.

So is it 'just' the power dynamics that make it attractive? Or is it more of an add-on, so pegging + handjob/masturbation is what gives the good effects?

Hello,
thank you for your questions.
For me, in truth its a power switch. Its sounds crazy but it really is a turn on for me. It is tricky, just getting the rhythm right is part of the fun/challenge. As for hitting his prostate, the one we use is curved for said purpose. All i know is, when he cums he cums alot.
Communication is key for sure. He will direct me to a point but for him its the power Surrender and he said just the full feeling makes him want to cum.
Its not very spontaneous, the down side. Have to be clean and in the right mood. In truth it adds to the suspense, a text message "i am going to fuck YOU tonight.. . . be ready"

 

[cdstefi]

So is it 'just' the power dynamics that make it attractive? Or is it more of an add-on, so pegging + handjob/masturbation is what gives the good effects?

I can only speak for myself. When we do it I like to ride on top; this gets the best and deepest penetration and sensation for me, plus I'm largely in control of it so can focus on it without the discomfort of e.g. doggy style where the dildo can suddenly hit my sigmoid colon in a not at all nice way.

In that sense I'm definitely topping from the bottom (or vice versa, I dunno). I'm in control but I'm the one being fucked and penetrated.

 

[SweeetHeart]

Hi Ladies.
Mrs shrek here.
What is your opinion on pegging? Love it? Hate it?
For me I side with loving it. Not often but when the mood is just right it’s great fun.
First time, felt a bit silly. A bit self conscious and didn’t really know what to expect.
Now, I really get off on the power exchange. The look in his eye and the little moans he makes. The way his cock responds not completely sure if to be completely hard or not. And when he cums he almost looks shocked.
Last time, I actually scooped his cum up and tubed it on the strapon before fucking him again. So wrong I know :/
I have to say, respect to men for getting the rhythm right when they shag us. It’s not completely easy.

I've never actually done it to a man or had it requested. Seen quite a few men mention it online. The only time I have worn a strap-on has been with other women and I can agree to getting that rhythm down.

 

[Mrs_and_mr]

Hmm.. I've sometimes wondered about pegging, but never tried it.

On the face of it, it just doesn't seem like a great idea - there isn't much physical stimulation for the woman doing it and it would seem rather difficult for her to hit the spot just right for the guy too. There are plenty of guys talking about how hard it is even for themselves to massage their prostate.

So is it 'just' the power dynamics that make it attractive? Or is it more of an add-on, so pegging + handjob/masturbation is what gives the good effects?

I have been in relationships with other women that I’ve worn a strapon, it wasn’t a dominance play it was an intimacy play. I was the dominant partner but that term is subjective. It wasn’t leather and bondage it was just a relationship. With my husband it’s more of a dominance thing but that’s the kind of relationship we have. I get many types of pleasure and feelings from pegging my partner. It’s very sexual. P

 

[ZfrkS62]

So… wow. I would love to learn more about this and how women feel about it. Also, post #2, I had no idea there was a product like that. I can only imagine how fun that would be and how good it would feel.

Also, specifically from a woman’s perspective, I would like some ideas of how to have this conversation. Because, at face value, it seems gay. At least, I know my wife would think it’d gay.

EDIT: I had to do a little research on this and found this website: https://peggingparadise.com/2015/08/truth-about-strapless-strap-ons/

Like I tell my coworker, "it's not gay if it's silicone".

Seriously though, is it gay when your doctor does your prostate exam?

it's a heterosexual couple engaging in a different type of roleplay. In practice it's only slightly different than if she massaged your prostate while giving you a blow job or hand job.

Time to let go of the "butthole play makes you gay" stigma

Hmm.. I've sometimes wondered about pegging, but never tried it.

On the face of it, it just doesn't seem like a great idea - there isn't much physical stimulation for the woman doing it and it would seem rather difficult for her to hit the spot just right for the guy too. There are plenty of guys talking about how hard it is even for themselves to massage their prostate.

So is it 'just' the power dynamics that make it attractive? Or is it more of an add-on, so pegging + handjob/masturbation is what gives the good effects?

I think the woman's physical pleasure all depends on the harness/dildo combination.

You could also look into the Feeldoe style which actually insert in the vagina and don't use a harness.

 

[lc69hunter]

I had a new girlfriend several years ago, and during the get to know each other stage, anal came up, and out of the blue she looked at me and grinned, and said, "I will give you my ass if you give me yours". It was an interesting relationship.

 

[old_hippy_46]

Hmm.. I've sometimes wondered about pegging, but never tried it.

On the face of it, it just doesn't seem like a great idea - there isn't much physical stimulation for the woman doing it and it would seem rather difficult for her to hit the spot just right for the guy too. There are plenty of guys talking about how hard it is even for themselves to massage their prostate.

So is it 'just' the power dynamics that make it attractive? Or is it more of an add-on, so pegging + handjob/masturbation is what gives the good effects?

Pegging requires an adjustment for both the male and the female. The male needs to relax as he experiences penetration. The female needs to learn the motions required for giving a good fucking to her partner, but once that is mastered, pegging is an un-believable experience for everybody. It really is a form of roll reversal.

 

[Belong2Her]

Hi Ladies.
Mrs shrek here.
What is your opinion on pegging? Love it? Hate it?
For me I side with loving it. Not often but when the mood is just right it’s great fun.
First time, felt a bit silly. A bit self conscious and didn’t really know what to expect.
Now, I really get off on the power exchange. The look in his eye and the little moans he makes. The way his cock responds not completely sure if to be completely hard or not. And when he cums he almost looks shocked.
Last time, I actually scooped his cum up and tubed it on the strapon before fucking him again. So wrong I know :/
I have to say, respect to men for getting the rhythm right when they shag us. It’s not completely easy.

my Wife has used my cum to lube Her strap on as well. Very hot, and very erotic! i feel so used, W/we love it.

 

[Belong2Her]

I agree they're not as easy to use as the selling blurb may make out.

When we use it, it's generally me riding cowgirl and her possibly holding onto it (been a while in all honesty and my memory has a few blanks from when I've been having my ass fucked ), so it's me doing most of the moving.

There's nothing gay about it by the way. It's a woman giving her man a new sensation, that's all. I'd have thought we'd moved past this anal=gay stuff by now?

my Wife would say it is definitely not gay. It's a act between a Woman and Her man. She would tell me that if She wants to see me have gay sex, She will get a Man to fuck me.

 

[old_hippy_46]

my Wife would say it is definitely not gay. I'ts a actt between a Woman and Her man. She would tell me that if She wants to see me have gay sex, She will get a Man to fuck me.

It's not gay because homosexuality requires an emotional attraction between the men. Plus there are few gay men that would be around a woman having sex.

 

[14ALL]

It's not gay because homosexuality requires an emotional attraction between the men

I agree with this statement, and this is where I would also draw the line if I were to define it. However, from a woman’s perspective, the role reversal and what it might imply could be confusing… That’s all I meant by my original comment.

 

[bisissyhusband1]

Thanks for the thread, like reading different people's opinions/ experiences... M mid 20s. Pegging has never been anything I have thought about until I recently saw a video on here where an older woman was pegging her husband and he had the craziest orgasm. Didn't know a man could get that from something in his ass. Maybe I would let the right woman try it (preferably an older one )

I regular have intense sissygasms from my wife pegging my sissy pussy.

 

[stargazer88]

the first time, he was on all fours. It was actually in a sex dungeon (Google Essex dungeon) fun place to go.
Although I enjoyed the power and experience I do prefer the face to face element. I think it made the whole thing more intense.
We have an empty house this weekend. I wonder if he will be up for it

Any way you can get them is hot but on all fours open for you !!! There is just something so primal about it

 

[Mrs_and_mr]

It used to be about power and dominance. Now it’s just apart of our sex life. There’s still times where I make it about power and domination, but a lot of times I like to be on top looking into his eyes thrusting into him. Seeing the expressions on his face, hearing the noises he makes the warmth of the fluid being released that’s sandwiched between us. P.

 

[LMWM321]

Time to let go of the "butthole play makes you gay" stigma

Agreed. So... stupid.

Whether your are straight, gay, or bi... is determined by the gender of your sex partner; it is NOT determined by what sorts of sensations you enjoy or which parts of your body you involve in your sex. This has been asserted by Sex therapists and Sexual Health Experts for several decades, now. To persist with this idea that only a gay man could enjoy the feeling of something up his butt is patently false and homophobic.

I love being pegged and I could not be more heterosexual. With nothing but acceptance and respect in my heart for men who are gay, the mere thought of kissing a man, touching his penis, or holding his hand stirs ZERO arousal in me. ..But the feeling, and visual, of my very beautiful, voluptuous wife fingering me, then going deep inside of me with a dildo? It takes my breath away. I feel SOOO bad for all those men who will never get to know how amazing it feels because they cling to this outdated idea that it feminizes them, or it conflicts with their sexual orientation.

Oh well, it's their loss.