Woman who loves porn! My husband thinks I am sick!

[Guest]

I am a 38 yo married woman. I am fascinated and turned on by pornography. I down-loaded some stuff which I used to masturbate over but my husband discovered it. He told me I was sick and needed help. Am I sick? If men can look at porn and get turned on - why not women?

 

[PaganZepher]

You go girl!

Seems a natural event to me. Tell your husband to grow up.

 

[Jackie2]

Woman who loves porn

Well hell I don't think you're sick. I think it enhances sex in a relationship. I would love a woman who can get off on it.

 

[sexyspank]

Sharing

You don't say whether your husband enjoys looking at porn but why not suggest sharing the experience.you could look together masturbate together and then make love together.







wendy






Hugs and Kisses To Candy

 

[Frimost]

Pffff

Your husband sounds like a goody-two-shoes, momma's boy, up-tight, Ned Flanders type prude. Tell Charlie church to take a hike. God, why do all the hot horny women marry Quaker-like frigid men? I would LOVE too meet a woman who liked porn also. In answer to your question, no you are not a freak. However, you ARE more visually stimulated then most women and obviously more open and up front about your sexuality (which is a good thing).

 

[Ebonyfire]

I am a 38 yo married woman. I am fascinated and turned on by pornography. I down-loaded some stuff which I used to masturbate over but my husband discovered it. He told me I was sick and needed help. Am I sick? If men can look at porn and get turned on - why not women?

You are not sick. I like it too. He is uninformed about what turns some women on. People who do not understand things sometimes say the most stupid things. Ignore him.

It always amazes me when a person we love says the most thoughtless and insensitive things with authority.

Eb

 

[rpsx]

Damn,

What a fool. I would love to watch you materbate with porn!

 

[talk2024]

I didn't think so....

I saw this thread and wondered to myself, "my, what kind of answer should she expect to receive on this board?"
If she goes back to her husband and tells him, "All the people at literotica think you're crazy." I doubt that will win her any points.

Shouldn't couples discuss this kind of thing before they get married?

 

[Guest]

I think you are totally cool! Go girl!!!

 

[InMiami]

I think that you are cool...... totally uninhibited, and he seems to be a bit square.

If you were my woman, I would totally turned on.....

 

[Angelofsex]

Hey there is nothing wrong with that.....

I love to look at pictures and the movies and get turn on by that too. Why can't we, we are human too.

 

[IrishGuy777]

double edged sword

I completely agree that it is totally cool, and refreshing for women to enjoy porn also,, and speaking from experience, it is very fun to enjoy porn with my girl, or to watch her enjoy it on her own. On the other hand, the other poster is right, this is something you and your husband should have figured out long ago, maybe even before he was your husband. It's mucho important to know if you are compatable in that manner before a commitment like that.

 

[Loverman]

Charly church

Dump that dud of a husband, and come and hang around with us.

Loverman

 

[rpsx]

Re: Hey there is nothing wrong with that.....

I love to look at pictures and the movies and get turn on by that too. Why can't we, we are human too.

Angelofsex

That is an awsome Av you got! Where did you find it?

 

[Notme2]

He is pissed off? He is probably mad that you found it not him. There is nothing wrong with it, we all do it.

 

[quilesed]

I think that is normal for women to get excited looking at any sort of porn.

 

[VeryBadGirl]

>>Shouldn't couples discuss this kind of thing before they get >>married?

Get real!!! How many married people here (and I mean married more than say, 5 years - I've been married 13) are the same people with the same wants, needs and desires as before they got married?

How many discussed porn usage? How many of you wanted kids, and now you wonder why?

I didn't like to suck cock when I got married (can't believe he married me!) - now I want his cock in my mouth every day. I didn't get into porn back then - now look where I am! I'm the luckiest girl in the world - he BOTH enjoy it, and we look at it together - ALL kinds of porn - lots of it turns us on, some of it makes us laugh, some of it freaks us out! He doesn't like to read stories, but he loves me to tell them.

Maybe your husband won't take OUR word for it, but there is probably not a psychologist in the world that would say porn is sick. If your husband likes sex, his appreciation of porn is probably repressed. Look at some marraige websites - porn is often suggested as a way to "spice things up." Good Luck! You are not a sicko!!!

 

[paula and bob]

Its natural. We like it too. what kind of Porn do you kike the most?

 

[BBWlynn]

I agree

I totally agree with you. I watch it, I like it, and sometimes I even masturbate to it. It doesn't make you sick. I mean not all women get off on visual stuff like that, but if you do, great for you! Maybe if you explain to your husband that it gets you going and maybe you could watch it together, he might enjoy that! He has just probably never been exposed to a woman that likes to watch porn.

 

[heterotic]

Verybadgirl, how did your husband turn you so bad?

 

[Teen]

Ooo ... so pornography is sick ... well then ... go fuck another man ... see which does he prefer ...

 

[Guest]

Have to agree with VBG, we all change and develop different wants and needs. My wife and I watch a good movie almost every time we have sex. This is her idea not mine but I love it!!

 

[KinkyFreakyBi-girl]

I've told my boyfriend my most hidden, kinkiest, and freakish desires and fantasies and he has never once judged me. Relationships aren't about judging it's about understanding and sharing. If he can't get a grasp on that one then he needs to grow up.

A man who doesn't like porn? Ripleys should be called.

 

[llee69]

I agree, I havent met a man yet who didnt like porn.

Maybe he is not human?

 

[VeryBadGirl]

He's not Human!

That's what it is!!!

How I got bad is a long story, but I actually got MYSELF bad and then turned my husband bad. But as long as we're both bad, it's cool!